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3 guys = no good
simplest way to put it, i like 3 guys. they're all my friends. one of them, let's call him Al, is the same race as me, meaning we know each other's family. i used to have a crush on him like, 3 years ago, and i guess it came back. the other one, let's call him jordan, was one of my best friends. he came to our school during 7th grade (i'm now in 8th), and i was his first real friend there. i asked him out around november last year, but he said no. i always feel awkward when i'm around him. the third one, let's call him gary, just started being my friend this school year. we never talked to each other. it all started when he asked me what was math homework.they're all awesome. they're nice, funny, understanding; everything you can ask for in a friend and boyfriend. but i don't like liking 3 guys. it makes me feel slutty. i was wondering who you think i would have a better chance with? here's what i think for each of them:
Al - i think it would be weird going out with him since our parents know each other, and we see each other outside of school a lot, which can be an advantage, but it also means that our parents will know if we do go out
Jackson - i asked him out because i thought i had a chance with him. his reason was because he didn't want to endanger our friendship afterwards if we were to have a relationship.
Gary - i love spending time with him. he's kinda big but he's athletic. he's really cuddly, and i love hugging him. it's great and all, but i know that we're not gonna be in the same high school in 9th grade since he's moving to another city after this school year's over.
who do i have a better chance with and who should do you think would ask me out first? any other opinions about this is very very appreciated!
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I agree, no one can tell you who to like more, it's entirely up to you, and only you. You have to spend more time with the three guys and decide who gives you the most attraction feeling. If you have any doubts about having a relationship with one of the guys, you know they're probably not going to be a good companion for you. You should get to know them really well, and hint that you like them, and if they're avoiding the subject of forming a relationship, I honestly think you shouldn't push it, and let the feelings flow. I hope this helps. =]
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since we aren't you & don't personally know them, we can't really tell you who to choose. i think you should just make a pros/cons list for both even though that sounds corny. its definately not slutty. your feelings just aren't sorted out. it only becomes slutty if you're dating all 3 & doing things with all of them. you know them the best and yourself the best, so decide which one is best for you. i know it's probably really difficult to do that, but you have to. it isn't fair to them. try going on like dates with each [as friends] to see which one would be better dating.
-hope that helped!♥
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