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Fallen and forgotten
I fell for my best friend Jacob,
he liked me too but my previous boyfriend
had cheated on me a few weeks before and I was
still rather torn. Jacob said he understood and
he promised he'd wait until I was ready for
a relationship again. I found out today he asked
out another girl. I don't know what to do any
more, my heart is beyond shattered from both of
these heartbreaks. I can't really trust anyone
anymore, no one's telling me the truth. Where do
I go from here? I still love my boyfriend that
cheated on me, I still feel for the guy that left
me.
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I'm sorry, boys can sometimes suck. Especially if you're a teen, everything is crazy right now. You just need to take a step back from it all, and breathe. Just remember, that if you're a teen, relationships are not going to last forever. So maybe Jacob is going out with a new girl, but how long exactly do you think it's going to last? You may be suprised to find out, that when they break up, he will crawl back to you. It's happened to me before. Right now, you just have to take them both for what they're worth. (Jacob & Your Ex Boyfriend.) They're guys, and even if they're your friends, they can still be jerky sometimes. I know for a fact that it's very hard to have a relationship with a guy friend. I used to like my guy friend also, but I was getting mixed messages from him and I never could figure out whether he liked me or not.
What you should do is talk to Jacob. Sometimes guys do weird things like that, because they are unsure of their emotions at the time. Maybe he was having second thoughts about the whole thing. It's possible that he asked the other girl out because he thought you were too hung up on your ex boyfriend. Maybe he did it to make you mad or jealous. Or maybe he was simply tired of waiting. Ask him about it, but don't get too upset. You still should try to keep your friendship with him, above all. Dating could possibly ruin a friendship, so maybe it's for the better that he didn't go out with you. Don't stress out about this so much. Maybe neither of these guys are right for you. Someday, you will find the perfect guy for you who will love you and be honest with you. Hang in there!
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talk to your friend about it. that's really mean that he did that, but there could be an explanation. it's normal to still have feelings for an ex boyfriend, so don't worry about that. the thing is, once a cheater-always a cheater. theres nothing wrong with being friends with him though. i mean yes, there are certain situations where they cheat once & it was bad judgement, but that's usually unlikely and rare. still, talk to jacob & see what he says. explain how hurt you are by it, especially since he told you he would wait. it might be best for you to just move on from both. that way you can start new. even this is really lame sounding, there are more fish in the sea & you should be with better.
-hope that helped!♥
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