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god, i'm gonna scream. i swear...
mk, this girl who is my best friend and has been since 3rd grade is the biggest hypocrite who has even been born on this earth.
for example, she said she hated when people go, "umm okayy?" or, "okay..." and then she does it. she said she hated the word drama and she uses it. she said she hated this girl, amanda, (who is supposedly her best friend) and then she suddenly loves her when she feels like it. she said she hated this girl, nicole, & then she acts like they are really good friends. she said she hated ae, a&f, & hco .. then she goes out and buys 30473982423 things from those places.
GOD! i can't stand it. what should i do to make her stop!?
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lol, this is an interesting problem. i really don't think there is anything you can do to make her stop. maybe bring one of those elements to her attention like if she comes to school wearing an ae, a&f or hco shhirt to school, be like "i thought you hated that store?" and maybe she can give you an explanation. or maybe she is bipolar and thats just how she is. good luck. lol
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You Cant Make her stop but you can do something about it!My advice to you is that you start haning out with some other friends and im sure that other people get annoyed with it to and im sure i would get annoyed to cause im one too.Mabey every once in a while you can hang out with her but hey your getting annoyed and im sure you want a break so make some new friends and hang out with them hey mabe one day youll find out shes not a true friend
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you should be strait up with her, just tell her that shes not being truthfull to herself by contridicting her own so called opinions, that should do it...
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You can't stop a hypocrite from being one. The most you can do is talk to her about it, or do the same thing back. She'll see how annoying it is, and maybe she'll take the hint that she does it, and she shouldn't.
Honestly, I wouldn't even be friends with her. Knowing my temper, if I was friends with her, I woulda cursed her out already.
♥T!NA
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you just gotta tell her how it is...like tell her that she likes those things to and she has tons of stuff from ae, a&f, hco..then i think she would stop sayin that stuff infront of you at least
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Don't use God's name in vein.
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I HAD A FRIEND JUST LIKE THIS. if it bugs you that much you need to stand up to her and tell her what she's doing is annoying you and she needs to fix it. if she's really your best friend she'll understand
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sounds like a typical girl to me haha anyways, yeah just confront her about it. give her examples & why you think its really annoying when she does that. that way she'll either stop, or get mad & if she does, then she wouldn't be the best to be friends with anyways right?? soo yeah just be honest about it because you'd probably want to know if something you did annoyed your friend.
-hope that helped!♥
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hahaha, I know how you feel. Well, the things you named are that big of a deal for you to be spazzin about, but I get your point. You cant do anything to make her stop though, because she does what she wants to. You can tell her that she sounds like a hypocrite. Make sure you include the "sounds", so when she says "Are you calling me a hypocrite?" you can say "No, I said you SOUND like a hypocrite." Thats how girls are anyways, but some of them dont realize it, I'm glad I do. Hope that helped ! Sincerely, PK.
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Sadly you cant MAKE her stop, but since you guys have been best friends for a while, you can influence her to tell the truth by pointing out wen shes contradicting herself. Like if you see her talking to nicole be like i thought you hated nicole, then she'll probably come up with some lame excuse, and just her appearance will give away shes lying, so dont believe wut she says, and make some kind of gesture that hints at the fact you know shes lying, like saying mmmhmm without really paying attention to what she has said, and switching the subject abruptly. If this doesnt give her the hint, avoid her a bit. Now if you cant do this, dont pay much attention to what she says, look away respond with one word answers, things like that. Your behavior, body language, should give her clear hints that you dont really believe or care about what she says, then she'll shuttup. I know this, a good friend of mine did this all the time and now shes almost completely stopped
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