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Member Since: February 4, 2007
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KAyyyy. So I've been dating this boy
for about 6 months. And every once and a
while we'll go tot he movies and I'm not big on
PSA - Public Show of Affection. So, anyway.. we're not going to sit there and makeout. But whats some cute stuff I can do ? I remeber a couple weeks ago we sat there and laughed about each others dimples and he kisses my forhead when i say something silly. (link)
holding hands is always nice, im sure he'd like that, thats all i got, hope i was a help
-brubiebear


K so I am almost 15, and very mature for my age. And me and this guy have a thing, he is 18 almost 19. And i know it is quiet a difference, but if we are happy, get along, have fun together, and respect each others wishes, who cares about age. But the thing is, I doubt my parents will aprrove of this, and my question is, what do I do? How do I hang out with him without them knowing? Right now we just always hang out with a group of friends, should we just keep doing that? Anything helps.

thank you (link)
this is a very difficult sitch, but i had a friend i was interested in and we decided not to date for that reason, age dif of 2 years though, however i DO NOT suggest not dating, because you dont wana feel this way, trust me, be strait up with your parents, tell them you met a guy you really like, who just happens to be older than you, and wana date, your rents are probly a few years apart themselves, so use that to get your point across, if they say no, then just continue doing wat your doing now, let it grow into something more personal, i hope this helped you out
-brubiebear


how do you get guys to notice you without being sluty and suchness like that?? (link)
as a guy i can tell you honestly that although its against the steriotype of teen minds, guys dont look for the slutty chicks in particular...personally, or if im lookin for a girl, i like when they hold hands, and flirt around (in a harmless way of course). but above all when a girl is eager to know me more i tend to be more attracted to them, and want to know them more, so just show a guy you like that you show interest in the things that he likes, but dont be fake about it, find someone that already likes what you like, that way you click faster and feel closer without doin anything that would make you a slut, hope this helped
-brubiebear


i have a lot of friends. but i only have like 7 close friends that i acualy hag oiut with. does anyone have any ideas on howi can ge closer with my other friends? (link)
all you can really do is invite your other friends to hang with your closer friends, that should do it
hope i could help,
brubiebear


Well I'm not sure and I mean I'm Really not sure if I like my guy friend as a close friend like a brother or as a boyfriend. What are some signs or things that tell I probably like a guy as a more than a friend and as just a friend? (link)
if this guy is the first person you think about when you wake up, and inspires you to be happy, and when you talk to him or hug him you never wana stop, or if thinking about him makes you feel like nothing else matters then i think you should tell him you like him as more than just a friend, always be honest when it comes to affairs of the heart, lemme know how it goes!
-brubiebear


Okay well I'm almost 14 and I'm not really involved in any sports or activities. I tried out for modeling, the company wanted me,but they wanted too much money, so my mom said no. I was kind of crushed,but I got over it. But sometimes I just feel like the most boring person even though I know I can be fun, but when it comes to activies I dont do anything and seem really boring. At times I feel like a fat person who cant do anything. I feel sad and like I'm losing my mind. I feel stressed out and like I have too many things to do. I always have tons of projects and homework and chores. Honestly I feel like slacking off, because I get straight A's and I'm in an honors class. When it comes to my report card full of A's my mom nags me to bring them higher and I feel like I do all this work and she doesn't appreciate any of it. Me and my mom dont have much of a close relationship,because we just dont get along. Her personality doesnt fit mine at all and she knows that me and her act completely different, because she says it all the time, but I dont think she realizes that we dont get along. Also, I've had this secret for many years that's not about me and that only my parents know, but I think they've forgotten by now or dont think about it. Sometimes I think about it and it drives me crazy and eats me up inside. I want to talk to someone about it,but I feel like if I did something bad might happen and it would be all my fault. My mom asked me about a year ago if I wanted to see a psychiatrist and I just laughed about it and said no, but now I think I might want to take her up on that offer, but I'm not sure if I need to see one, because its not like I have some serious mental problems. The main reason I could see myself talking to one is because of how I dont feel happy with myself and a big secret that no one knows. Does it sound like I need help? Or i dont know, just tell me what you think. (link)
dear wants to let a secret out,
i'm gonna tell you that confiding in someone is the healthiest thing you can do when you feel burdened by a secret, just take a good friend, someone you can talk to anything about, and tell them what its all about, but ONLY if you feel compfortable enough talking to someone about it, you cant leave your compfort zone when dealing with issues of the heart and mind...you dont know me but my aims are brubiebear and dambwitan if you feel like you can use someone to talk to...
sincerly yours,
Brubiebear


I have orientation at a retail store at the mall today. I was wondering if anyone knows whether or not you start working on the day of orientation? Or how long does orientation usually last and what does it include? (link)
orientation at a new job usualy means that you'll be shadowing other employees until you learn how to do everything by yourself, so about as long as it will take you to get the hang of things, hope i could help :) -brubiebear


I have this friend.. who i love being around. we do a lot of things outside of school together, and he always comes over, and we just have an understanding with eachother where we know exactly how we act.. i guess you could say we feel comfortable around eachother. secretly i fell in love.. at least i think. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. ive never seen him be mean to anyone and i think that attracts me most. last night i found out he had a girlfriend and i was just in complete shock.. that this has been going on for a couple weeks now.. and he never told me. i dont know what to feel or what to say. im heartbroken (link)
I'm in a similar situation as you, all i can say is that if you truly love him, if hes the first one you think about when you wake up, and are breathtaken everytime you meet, then you need to tell him how it really is, dont be too forward though, just tell him youve been crushing on him for a while and would like to see where a gf/bf relationship would take the two of you, tell him how you feel, if he breaks things off with the one hes with then you know he likes you back, which im sure he does if you guys hang out as much as you do...honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, hope i could help!
Much


mk, this girl who is my best friend and has been since 3rd grade is the biggest hypocrite who has even been born on this earth.
for example, she said she hated when people go, "umm okayy?" or, "okay..." and then she does it. she said she hated the word drama and she uses it. she said she hated this girl, amanda, (who is supposedly her best friend) and then she suddenly loves her when she feels like it. she said she hated this girl, nicole, & then she acts like they are really good friends. she said she hated ae, a&f, & hco .. then she goes out and buys 30473982423 things from those places.
GOD! i can't stand it. what should i do to make her stop!? (link)
you should be strait up with her, just tell her that shes not being truthfull to herself by contridicting her own so called opinions, that should do it...


My mom told me that the word 'shmuck' is bad. Could anyone tell me what it means? I looked it up.. and all it had was 'slang.'

Thank you! (link)
shmuck is a term used to discribe something bad, like porn would be considered smuck to most people, that kind of stuff


I'm wondering what color I should dye my hair. I dyed my hair black about 4 months ago. My original color is dark brown and my skin is like caramel. My hair goes a little past half of my back. I'm thinking I want to dye my hair like a light light brown so that it looks almost orangy, or like a deep red, its kind of reddish purplish. Tell me what you think. What other colors could I dye my hair ? (link)
purple is a great color for hair if you can get it dark enough, so dont make the mistake of dying it a neon color lol


How do u add a song to your myspace profile??? (link)
hey bud, just go to music in the top tool bar, enter the band your looking for, select the song by clicking the add link, thats all there is to it!


hi

is anyone else getting something like "(insert web browser) can't open the page" when they try to load myspace?

it's been doing that for like...2 days now...

any ideas? or is myspace just down or something?

thanks? (link)
yeah my friends and my myspace havent been working, so im sure its a problem with the system or sumthing, what do you expect though, its tom, lol, ide give it a couple more days, but if your email says you have comments posted you can enter your myspace url in the top of your comp and it will show you your site, along with comments, ttyl!
much love,
brubiebear




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