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i need help =(
I have this friend.. who i love being around. we do a lot of things outside of school together, and he always comes over, and we just have an understanding with eachother where we know exactly how we act.. i guess you could say we feel comfortable around eachother. secretly i fell in love.. at least i think. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. ive never seen him be mean to anyone and i think that attracts me most. last night i found out he had a girlfriend and i was just in complete shock.. that this has been going on for a couple weeks now.. and he never told me. i dont know what to feel or what to say. im heartbroken
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I'm in a similar situation as you, all i can say is that if you truly love him, if hes the first one you think about when you wake up, and are breathtaken everytime you meet, then you need to tell him how it really is, dont be too forward though, just tell him youve been crushing on him for a while and would like to see where a gf/bf relationship would take the two of you, tell him how you feel, if he breaks things off with the one hes with then you know he likes you back, which im sure he does if you guys hang out as much as you do...honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, hope i could help!
Much <3,
brubiebear
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"i am probably going to sound bitchy for saying this but it is true stop yourself from wallowing in self pity/ doubt."
you never said you were crying your eyes out over it, so wtf?
gahh, whatever.
anyways, don't give up on the friendship. i knew a guy once who had a girlfriend, but he liked me also. guys can like two girls at once, so you never know .. he might like you. i'm sure their relationship isn't even serious. my best friend has been going out with a kid for a year & they haven't even kissed.
don't get mad; guys don't like that (well, the ones that i know don't). just keep waiting. once they break up, you'll know. then he's all yours. =]
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i am probably going to sound bitchy for saying this but it is true stop yourself from wallowing in self pity/ doubt.
he probably didnt tell you because he was afraid of what you would think.
it is hard seeing some one you like go out with some one else ( ive been there too) but if you think about too much youll become super jealous
the best thing to do is to set it to the back of your mind and when they break up if you still like him go for him
but dont stop spending time with him. he needds to know that you still are open to friendship or more.
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