the name is brittany..i blow the candles out on apirl 4th...and i love to give advice..im outgoing and love to have a good time..i do sports..i play soccer and basketball and cheerleading...any question then im me at usherbabygurl44
Gender: Female
Location: DE
Occupation: being a teenager
Age: 15
AIM: usherbabygurl44
Yahoo: gurlly44@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 4, 2007
Answers: 25
Last Update: April 29, 2007
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My boyfriend always wants to talk to me but he never calls me he just likes to text and talk on AIM. At first I just thought he was scared but he always does it, and I've nagged him before and I call him but he never answers I don't want to keep nagging, but I don't like wasting my texts when I could just be on the phone! (link)
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well if u guys havent been going out for awhile then maybe he just wants to aviod those long awkward silences..BUT try to call him n u can talk bout how his day went.. my boyfriend always does that to me he ask me how my day went and makes me go in to detial like from the moment i opend my eyes n then from the moment i closed em..but dont worry he will tlk on the phone at some point
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my friend been ask out by 3 guys and she trun them all down. she doesnt know why all sudden she became popural with the guys and i told her it just happens.
she said that she wants to wait till after college. but the more you wait the more your love life goes down the hill, right?
i dont care when someone ask me out cause i dont want to wait for the right time it just happens. (i always had feelings for her)
i ask her what kinda guy she is looking for her reply is
"no idea"
i laugh and said"no idea, so you dont know who you looking for?"
she said"nope i dont know, maybe someone funny i guess?"
(i thought to myself well i'm funny and i love to make her laugh.)
does she mean me? i told her "well i'm looking for someone who likes me who i am" she laugh and said "yeah okay if that happens" and i said "i agree with that"
(cause i'm such a hot head and i dont think someone can handle that.) but she can and i was trying to hint her that i mean her, i want someone like her.
so what you think?
was there something going on? (link)
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tell her u like her cuz then there might be a something going on
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theres this guy in like almost all of my classes. He flirts with me a lot and teases me, (lol i seriousely just noticed that today) but you see he has a girlfriend. So why would he be flirting with me and giving me all of this attention?? I would just like to know why? Or a better question is why do guys do that even when they know they have someone already? (link)
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most guys do that cuz they think they are players or maybe they are players also some guys are dicks
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ok well this really isnt about sex but i didnt know what it was really classified as..
anyway well on Valentines day a guy and i were talking and walking around town in the dark. Well we stopped in the park and were sitting on the stage, he asked me if i'd flash him. I told him no a million times but then he was like ok well i will kiss you if you do it. Well it was like my first kiss and i really wanted it soo well i agreed, We kissed and after i was thinking about it and said i dont know if i can do this soo he stuck his hand down my shirt and pretty much took my boob out and looked at it ((awkward (SP?)moment))then he put it back and then we got up and well we were just like glaring at each other in the eyes and well he kinda came at me real fast and kissed madeout with me.
He told his best friend about it and well now im scared the whole school will find out and i will be called a slut..
do you think that makes me a slut or a whore or anything like that.
I regret it soo much!
he also told me that he cared about me and was thinkging about going out with me..and would tell me the next day but he didnt and now he wants me to do even more and i really dont wanna do it
what should i do.?
and does what i did make me a slut? (link)
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no it doesnt make you a slut...and if i were u i would go out wit em be4 you go any futher wit em. that happened to me be4 except in a diff waybut this guy just wanted pics (bad ones) nd he talked me into it then i regreted doing it...sorry im like tellin you my story..just dont do it b/c i totaly regret what i did..just if he says sweet things you gotta tell urself dont give in untill he ask you out
HOPED IT HELPED!!
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I just recently realized I like my friend, Chris.
Tomorrow we have school & I want him to know that I like him.
What sort of things can I do to let him know?
What flirty actions or things can I say to him?
Thanks in advance!
ps. I NEED TO KNOW ASAP
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FLIRT ALOT...like say i love you or touch him(like give him a playful punch) all i can say is you gotta flirt maybe he will see that you like him..if not then you gotta tell em
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I am going on birth control (i'm not sure what brand yet...i just got a blood test done...i am seeing the doctor for persciption and stuff next week)
while on the pill (or patch or w/e i get) can you have sex w/o a condom and still be safe?
Yes; i know that having both is ideal. and yes i know that BC doesnt stop STD's or anything; im just curious...
and also; do you still have your period while taking birth control? or is it stopped? (link)
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if i were you i would wear a condom.that whole period thing would depend on what kind of brith control you take bc im on the pill and i still have my period.But my cousin takes the shot and she doesnt have her period
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well i dont really wanna get a wax and i hate shaving down there because i can never get it to work out right. is there any other options i have like certain razors that i can use and stuff? or like can you wax there yourself?
help! (link)
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there is this one razor that has like this loton thing on it...its like soap.(its hard tp explain) but it works really good and its makes it smooth the razor is called intution
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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal. (link)
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if you are going out with him then thats not slutty..so if you want to do it then do it..its not like your friends can say anything b.c you are going out wit em
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Okay well I'm almost 14 and I'm not really involved in any sports or activities. I tried out for modeling, the company wanted me,but they wanted too much money, so my mom said no. I was kind of crushed,but I got over it. But sometimes I just feel like the most boring person even though I know I can be fun, but when it comes to activies I dont do anything and seem really boring. At times I feel like a fat person who cant do anything. I feel sad and like I'm losing my mind. I feel stressed out and like I have too many things to do. I always have tons of projects and homework and chores. Honestly I feel like slacking off, because I get straight A's and I'm in an honors class. When it comes to my report card full of A's my mom nags me to bring them higher and I feel like I do all this work and she doesn't appreciate any of it. Me and my mom dont have much of a close relationship,because we just dont get along. Her personality doesnt fit mine at all and she knows that me and her act completely different, because she says it all the time, but I dont think she realizes that we dont get along. Also, I've had this secret for many years that's not about me and that only my parents know, but I think they've forgotten by now or dont think about it. Sometimes I think about it and it drives me crazy and eats me up inside. I want to talk to someone about it,but I feel like if I did something bad might happen and it would be all my fault. My mom asked me about a year ago if I wanted to see a psychiatrist and I just laughed about it and said no, but now I think I might want to take her up on that offer, but I'm not sure if I need to see one, because its not like I have some serious mental problems. The main reason I could see myself talking to one is because of how I dont feel happy with myself and a big secret that no one knows. Does it sound like I need help? Or i dont know, just tell me what you think. (link)
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ur not crazy every girl has there BIG SECRETS...but its gonna keep eating you up inside if you dont let it out..you could talk to someone u trust or you could go to a psychiatrist...i went to one before if you go to one it doesnt mean you have mental problems
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I need some help with being more social and outgoing around people.I used to be incredibly funny,nice,outgoing,and I knew how to make myself and other people around me have a good time...now just out of nowhere I'm none of these things.The weird thing is,I really want people to talk to and be around,but when I have the opportunity I turn it down because I'm scared.It's almost like I've become frightened of people in general.When I am in a social setting and not alone,I tend to just sort of sit there and do my own thing without making any kind of conversation(because I don't know how to make conversation).I was very spontaneous,and I think that the reason why I'm not anymore is because I'm afraid of looking like an idiot.
Anyway,how can I get myself back on track?I want to have friends,I want to be comfortable around people,and I want to be outgoing. (link)
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who cares if you look like an idiot..if you like to make people laugh then maybe you have to look like an idiot...if ur in a postion when some people are talking around you try to get in there convo...you shouldnt be afired of what people think..you cant make your self outgoing you have to work up the courge to do it
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female/14
5'3, 120 pounds
how can i get my inner thys, not as discusting. i hate the way i look, espically when i sit next to my best guy friends who wear tight jeans and i have jeans on too (my thys are like bluging out). i just want to be skinnyer all over. i know you work out, but what i can do daily to make the weigh just gone, mostly on my thys (link)
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try runnin it will take ur thys away and will bulid up muscle
goodluck!!!!
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Not sure if this is in the right category, sorry if its not!
So I'm 13/f, and I've been wanting a lip ring for about a year and a half. All my friends that are my age hate lip rings (except one) and my grandma (whom I live with) said I can't get one until I'm 18. Well I've been researching about it, like the risks, and side effects and stuff. I've absolutely decided I will NOT do it unless the materials are sterilized (my OLDER friends got their friends to do it with safety pins) But I was researching, like the different types, because I haven't decided on that either. I currently wear a fake one (lame, I know) just to get used to it and such. (Its the hoop that goes around your lip) Anyway though I was wondering if anyone knows a site that has details on different types of lip rings? I searched google, but all I got was mostly stores. I'm trying to get as much research and side effects and such done so I can make a convincing argument. My birthday's the 23rd, and I was hoping to try and talk my grandma into letting me get a lip ring for then.
I'm wondering about a lip ring segment, lip hugger, and a few more.
Any help is greatly appreciated (link)
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go to google and type in lip ring info..or type in lip ring side effects
hope that helps
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my boyfriends mom hates me, and for no reason. im in 7th grade, she's hated me since 5th. even my boyfriend doesn know why. and she loves my best friend. and the other night at his modified basketball game his mom asked my firned why he was dating me and then flat out said i dont like her! ergg. so we never get to hang out. and i really love when we get to hang out. we have so much fun and stuff. but we onyl get to hangout at games like the JV games and Varisty and such, but sometimes we go like a whole MONTH [ not really that long it seems like it though ] without seeing eachother. what should we do.. cuz i really love him and if i ever went to his house [ which would nvr happen his moms physco ] id feel really uncomfortable. someone please help!!! (link)
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the next time she says she doesnt like you and you hear her say that..ask her why and say i didnt do anything to you....she will either be shocked and have nothing to say..or she will tell you why
goodluck!!!!
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what do ladies think semen taste like and if you are experenced in the field do you spit or swallow? (link)
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i spit i think i have heard that it tatse nasty and i never wanted to try it so yea i spit
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okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on. (link)
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just 4get about this guy he seems like a dick..and you dont need that..it will be hard but you can get over him and there is prolly a guy that likes you now but you just didnt see it bc you liked that other guy for so long
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This guy and I have liked each other for so long and this summer was awesome we were like gf and bf and then things died out. Like every month i would phone him to see how he was and we would talk for ages and yet he wouldnt talk to me in school. So A few weeks ago i invited him over and honestley its like awesome we were all cuddly and like a couple and then he left. Then at school, ignores me and then sometimes he talks to me and he's like 'u ok?' and i've been like 'umm yeh' but he promised to take me to the cinema and he didnt and then he promised to come over on Friday and he didnt. Should I confront him, thing is if i do- i will have to be drastic and say ' Look if you care for me, if you really care, you will put effort in as a friend, otheriwse i cant see this friendship working out?' and im scared he will be like 'whatever' and not talk to me again. He said to me ' we will always be friends if not more' and he's a sincere person- im really confused. (link)
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if he doesnt talk to you in school then he doesnt seem like a friend to me..i would confront him and see what happens because if u dont you could regret it or you could be missing out on something really great...he may say something you dont want to hear or he may say somthing you want to hear..but w/e he says will make you stop saying what if i said this or what if i did that
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i really really like this guy, we broke up a few months ago and we've been hanging out occasionally recently because his best friend is dating my best friend. my friends say that when we hang out there is alot of a sexual tension between us. the first time we hung out after our break up was 2 weeks ago and we made out a lottttt. He's kind of a man whore and has realized it recently and says it's a bad thing. He's been acting differently lately and not flirting as much, what does this mean? should i start talking to him more? we're still friends and we still kinda flirt but idk what to do. HELP. (link)
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tell him how you feel bc he might feel the same way..if you dont tell him you might regret not tellin him
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I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Bob is funny, nice, and has a good personality. Also, Bob is my friend and a boy. Sometimes I get mixed signs from him and mixed thoughts from me. In class Bob will turn around since he sits in front of me and he will just stare at me, for a long time too. I'll sit there looking at a book or whatever the class is doing and act like I dont see him, but then I look up and he keeps staring. Then, I'll say "What?" and he always says "Nothing". I always wonder, "what does nothing mean, because it must be something if you were just staring at me. Or sometimes Bob will turn around and just smile at me and I'll smile back. I dont like Bob as more than a friend, but then again I think I might. I feel like I'm positive I dont, but its like some little part of me does. I dont know what to do and I really want to know if Bob likes me as more than a friend. What other signs are there of guys liking you? (link)
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k well he sounds like he likes you but some other signs are
1)he will stare at you and look you in the eyes
2)he will get jealous if he sees you talking to other guys
3)he will talk to you whenever he can
4)he will stick up for you
5)he would talk about you all the time to his friends
6)his friends will ask you if you like him
7)he will try hard just to see you smile
8)he would flirt with you
9)he will say sorry right away if he thinks he made you mad
thats all i got
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to find a new book or books to get into the last book i read was big mouth and ugly girl any one got suggestions for books like the last one i read (link)
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the clique...idk if you would like it but i did
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Well, I met my best friend one year ago and once we were good friends last year she told me who she liked. I was kind of in shock and suprised, because it was the guy I thought I always sort of liked. I knew him like a year and a half before that. Throughout that whole year I had to lie and talk to her about him and I guess I was okay with it. Now and ever since then she has like him. The beginning of this school year is when I started to get kind of annoyed about how much my friend talked about him. I always felt like the relationship between me and him was different and my feelings for him were strange, because in my mind I never thought I liked him, but I didnt think I didnt like him either. Every now and then my friend would ask me things like boy questions "Who would you go out with?" and other questions, and sometimes I would say her crush, but in a kidding around way. I never knew if I was kidding around or not though. I could tell that sometimes she would be a bit jealous, because I had the guts to talk to him and she didnt. He was my friend, so it wasnt a big deal. Things are kind of still the same, except that I hardly ever talk to this guy or hardly think of him, but when I do it's like all the same feelings come rushing back to me. I always tell my friend that I'm going to tell her about me and his friendship, because she thinks I used to like him, but its more complicated than that. The big question is that, I dont know how I feel, but how does it seem like i feel ? and how do I tell my friend this ? (link)
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well i was in this postion before to...once my friend told me she liked this guy..she would also talk about him..well i was gettin kinda mad bc i thought i liked him to now..but i think when ever your friend talks about this guy you start to like him bc..well its hard to explain....bc you friend likes him and maybe you want this guy..i think maybe you like this guy a lil.. just tell your friend how you feel it will be better
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