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my boyfriends mom hates me!
my boyfriends mom hates me, and for no reason. im in 7th grade, she's hated me since 5th. even my boyfriend doesn know why. and she loves my best friend. and the other night at his modified basketball game his mom asked my firned why he was dating me and then flat out said i dont like her! ergg. so we never get to hang out. and i really love when we get to hang out. we have so much fun and stuff. but we onyl get to hangout at games like the JV games and Varisty and such, but sometimes we go like a whole MONTH [ not really that long it seems like it though ] without seeing eachother. what should we do.. cuz i really love him and if i ever went to his house [ which would nvr happen his moms physco ] id feel really uncomfortable. someone please help!!!
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What you probably feel like doing is telling her off for seperating you and your boyfriend, but that will get you nowhere. Do not write his mother a letter, sit down and talk to her face to face. Tell her that you know she doesn't like you. Then apologize and tell her that you think her son is a wonderful boy. Then back off a little bit. Stop trying to get yourself invited over to his house. You are clearly not welcome there. Try inviting him over to your house instead. Above all, stop calling his mom "physco" and stuff. This is the woman who raised your boyfriend. She deserves some respect, and to be honest you are only in the seventh grade. Your boyfriend is not about to risk his relationship with his mother for you, and he shouldn't. However, that doesn't mean things can't still work out. It just means you should aviod his mother.
Good luck, and let me know how things work out :)
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gahhh like thats really horrible for his mum to do that..but basically shes prolly like overprotective or just jelous of you..maybe her son talks about you ALL THE TIME...maybe write her a letter along the lines of 'i hope we can be friends' or something. Otherwise seriously confront her and say nicely 'look i hope you dont take this offensiveley but why dont you like me?'...but her son likes you so whatever she says - your boyfriend still likes you and thats WHAT COUNTS!..hahha sucks to be her!
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the next time she says she doesnt like you and you hear her say that..ask her why and say i didnt do anything to you....she will either be shocked and have nothing to say..or she will tell you why
goodluck!!!!
<3 brittany
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