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Junior w/ Freshman
so im a pretty big guy, 16 and a junior. I know a very intelligent freshmen and would consider asking her out on a date or somthing. only thing is she is a little small and she is a freshman. the freshman part wouldnt be so bad if she wasnt as underdeveloped. it would feel awkward to do anything intimate with her since i would feel she is a bit small. well, it's up to you guys. do i ask her out and just wait for the day when she gets a little more physically mature to have an intimate moment, or do I hold off on asking her out untill next year when it will be a bit less unusual, Senior <-> Sophmore. but if i do that i run the risk of losing her intrest or my own intrest in her. any advice is appreciated :)
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Are you that immature? She's a freshman and she's
"underdeveleoped." Dude, who gives a fuck if she's underdeveloped!? So she doesn't have big tits or a hot ass, dude WHO CARES!? She could be the nicest girl ever & you're gonna stop liking her because she doesn't have what you want. Stop thinking with your dick, stop picking her apart for her flaws, & ask her out. Honestly, she might be happy how she is, and you're a dick for tearing her down because she isn't as developed as everyone else. If that was me & I had heard about what you've been saying and you asked me out, I'd tell you to fuck yourself.
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LMFAO. I'm sorry, but I couldn't help but laugh.
Um first of all, how is it up to us? It's your life. We just give you advice. And I will try to give you some okay?
First of all, she's small? Like... lmao. It's hilarious, because you're a guy, and all you can think about is what she looks like, but doesnt it matter what shes actually like? Obviously there has to be some attraction, but you have a reason for likeing her, so why don't you want to go out with her? Because she's small...
Are you sure you would feel awkward because she's under developed and not because she's two years younger than you?
How do you know she'll have an intimate moment with you? And if you go out with her and you think it will be awkward, then... don't have one... Wait if you want, but some girls just don't really develop. I mean some do, but I think that if you like the girl, then you should go out with her, if you don't like her, then don't. If you think that she's not mature enough with you, then think that, but still go out with her. Then find out if she is too immature for you, and dump her (at worst you're just dumping a girl because her breasts are too small)
But heres the thing, like I said it's up to you, not us, so you have to think about what the worst thing could be if you go out with her. If it's like leathal, then don't go out with her. If it's like you'll have a boreing date because you don't "have an intimate moment" then see what happens.
I'm sorry for laughing at you, but I find it hilarious, that you are dissing a perfectly great girl because she isn't physically mature, yet you aren't mature enough to go out with someone you like because you might not get as far on the dates as you might like...
Good luck, I hope you make up your mind. Love ya,
Angie91
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Ok if you like her does it matter how developed she is? You have two years on her thats a lot of growing time. You make it sound like you'll be doing a lot with her as soon as you go out. If you want a relationship it actually takes time. Everyone has their flaws. I'm sure you do too. If you like her just accept it. You can wait if you want to, but its doubtful she'll wait a year for you. It's your decision. Maybe get to know her better. You might know her very well I don't know. I would just make sure you like her for her. She will grow just maybe not as fast as most. Good luck..
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this is definately up to you. since you're a guy, the junior with a freshman thing isn't totally weird. think of it this way, when you're 25, she'll be 23. big deal. it's all up to how much you like her. if she's small & not as mature than a sophmore/junior girl & that really has a lot of affect on things, then wait, but don't think she will wait. maybe you just want to try staying friends before you decide anything. you probably shouldn't jump that far ahead & think of 'intimate things' because that's a bit too far. talk to her about it & let her know how you feel. that way things can straighten out themselves & you can take everything into consideration & then make your decision.
-hope that helped!♥
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