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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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i like this guy and he only likes me as a friend so what should i do?? i will rate u!!! plzz help!!
confused- gurl :(
sorry, but you can't make someone like you, they either do or don't.
okay so there is this boy that i went out with b4 as friend he was really rough like we always wrestled and stuff and i just thought it was his way of flirting so i let it go when he asked me out i said yes cuz i thought the rought stuff would cool down but it didnt and that lead to a break-up. but now i really miss him. and i found out he likes me back and so i really wanna go out wit him again but im scared that hes still just as rough with me! how can i get him to treat me more gentle and not like"one of the boiz"?
please help me asap!
Tell him you want to give it another try but you need him to stop being so rough and treat you like you are his lady.
is it possible to have a six pack at 13? i'm 4'11 and 85 pounds so i don't have too much fat to lose i dont think because im pretty skinny im not a bag of bones though.
yes its possible
Im having this party for my birthday but im not sure if i should invite one of my friends because im kinda worried that she might end up trying to hook up with my bf. Shes had a crush on him before i went out with and it seems like she still does. Ive talked to my bf about it and i know that he wont try anything with her but like i said... its her hooking up with him that im worried about. She knows that i MIGHT be having a party but that im not sure. We are friends but i barely talk to her since she goes to another school. Should i invite her?
Well as long as you trust your boyfriend it shouldn't matter whether she is there or not. But if you really think she will make a move on him and something will start between you and her then just avoid it and don't invite her.
my mind is always racing so fast . im so stressed i fall asleep at like 2:00 in the morning . is this normal
Has something been bothering you lately, that you can't keep your mind off of? Or maybe ouy are going through an episode of depression or something.
OK..growing up I rarely saw my mom and dad hug or kiss.Last year they were thinking of divorcing and it was a really sad time for me. They arent divorced and they are working on their marriage. Problem is..they are like horny teenagers and it sickens me to see them make out and slobber in front of me. Last night we were at a drive up window and they started making out passionatly right there! What can I do to express that im happy for them..but to please do that STUFF in private!? Thanks for the help..i rate generously!
tell them just that. To please do that shit in private. It is great they are all in love and you are happy for them, but do it in private.
Hey i was wondering what is high school like is it hard fun what?im a little scared and nervous about starting high school will i make alot of new friends do people pick on u.i rate:-]
Its a little bit of both. but dont be scared. its just school, just like it has always been.
How come everytime your with a boy and a "sweet" car goes by.. they always know what it is.. how do they fucking know the year of a car and stuff.. i mean there always like oh, thats a 46 blue honda..or whatever i mean honestly how do they know thats the year it was made and ugh i break my cars down into like 3 groups.. bus..car..truck.. its that simple.. o yeah and i mean i know what toyota's and stuff are and like fords but other then that i dont know what a car is unless it states what it is on the back of the car.. wow i really wanna know why they always do this please tell me lolol..
its because they are magic. it was magically buitl into thier brains at birth. just like asking stupid ass questions was magically put into your brains at birth.
Hey i have really really dark brown hair and i want to bleach it blonde but im scared it won't look good cuz of my hair color now i wanted to change it before high school any advice i rate super good!
go ahead and go blonde. do it now. that way if you dont like it you can die it back brown before school starts.
okay ...i'm goin 2 my friend "Brad's" house and well i have a huge crush on him!! and love him with all my heart!! if anyone has any ideas of what i should do 2 make him know i'm interested lemme kno!!
xoxo,
.*.BeSs.*.
tell him your interested in him. he will never know how you truelly feel until you speak up.
ok well im a guy that no girls like cuz i am ugly. all the girls around where i live r shallow. none of them like boys that have freckles, redhair, and very very lite skin. what should i think of myself? as an ugly person or a cute person juss ppl cant see that?
it shouldn't matter what other people think. foget them. like you said those girls are shallow. you have to be confident. hold your head up high.
yeah well, my friend is having trouble. Her name is samantha and she really likes this kid and wants to have sex with him and she's afraid to tell himh ow she feels. they've been friends for life actually he didnt really start to think of her as a friend until last year.. he actually hated her, but now he finds himself attracted to her to.. i told him to ask her out.. and he said he might and she asked me if he liked her since hes my best friend and all so i would know. But i told her he wouldnt tell me who he liked, should i tell him how he feels and should i tell him how she feels..b.c i mean there not even gonig out and she already wants to have sex with him.. ahh what should i do .. please help me!!!
Don't you think its kinda bad that your friend isn't even with the guy and wnts to sleep with him? Yeah I think you should hook them up, but tell your friend to slow down. Sex changes evrything.
idk what to do any more me and this guy went out for a while and i really liked him....but we lived like 20 mins away from eachother,so0o he did this to me 3 times...he keep sayin i dont know if we should still go out any more and by the 3 time he broke up with me.....he broke my heart 3 TIMES and he told me he still loved me and all that and i met another guy like a week ago that i started to really like and ((this other guy that broke my heart was goin to ask me out again and i felt so0o bad that i didnt love him any more and every ones like yellin at me b.c i wouldnt go back out with him ((even though he hurt me more then i hurt him)) what should i do to make him be my friend HELP ????
Well its not your fault that he dumped you. You shouldn't feel bad that you moved on and found somebody new. And people should nto be on your case about not taking him back, he played mind games with you, he doesn't deserve you and you don't need to risk the heartache again. Just tell the guy you are really sorry but that is the way things have to be, he had his chance. But you would like it if you could still be friends. if he says he can't handle that though, then you are just gonna have to deal with it. Hope I helped and feel free to ask me for advice anytime, its what I'm here for. Good Luck! :)
umm.. i have this friend and she is like my best friend but ever since her and this other girl that she met have became closer friends she has shut me out and i dont know what i should tell her and so i said something to her about it and she told me that she didnt want to tlak to me ne more if you have ne advice that would be helpful plz answer me i will rate everyone that answers my question thanks alot
-DesPErTlY WoRrIEd-
You can ask her why she sudden;y doesn't wanna be your friend. Like is it because of her new friend. But if she still acts like a bitch then forget her, you don't need a friend who when she finds someone new decides to exclude and treat you like you don't exist.
where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help?
Put your hand around the person or in thier hair, some guys like that.
For homecomming I want to be able to actually dance fast. I dance in my room all the time by myself and I think I'm fine...but then I look at other people dancing and I feel dumb! None of my friends can dance either, so do you have any tips or anything??
-Zero
-Thanks!
Just be yourself and have a good time... when everyone is just dancing and having a good time no one is really looking at anyone.
ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp
It is not wrong to think that your cousin or any family member is cute. I happen to think many people in my family are good looking. Actually I can't think of anyone who is ugly in my family. But, anyways, as long as you don't like wanna bone him or something like that, because that would be just wrong and nasty, then it is okay to think your cousin is nice looking.
i cant find any guys that like me so i have a very low self esteem even tho i dont let anybody really see that. how do i find a guy i can cuddle with and talk to and to kiss me and like me for me? any ideas? let me no.
p.s. i am mature for my age so most guys MY age seem imature and idotic. maybe if i could get my self to stop thinking that i could see them better, they still dont see me tho.
First of all you can't have a low self esteem. People can see right through that. A guy doesn't want a girl who has no confidence. You can't make anyone like you, they either do or don't. And you have to like yourself, before someone else can like you, and you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. And to be honest you don't need a guy to make you happy, you have yourslef for that.But, I can understand that you just want someone to show you some affection, we all do. Is there a specific guy that you like, if so, maybe you can try talking to him on the phone or computer, and then maybe chilling with him one day. And maybe you should go after a little bit older guy, if I knew how old you were I would know like what age to tell you, but maybe your thing isn't guys your age, because I know for a fact that guys are less mature than girls. Maybe if you got with someone a little bit older, you could find things to relate to with him. Hope I helped and feel free to ask me for advice anytime! Good Luck! :)
hey this is for guys. what kinda girls do u like. like most guys like preppy girls..is that true?
No it is not true. Some guys can't stand preppy girls. Everyone has thier own taste. :)
a guy friend says u look sexy or u look cute, or good in a particular outfit does that mean he likes u??
Not necessarily. If I were you I wouldn't go jumping to conclusions, it may have just been a compliment, wait and see if this becomes a continuous thing, then that he is flirting with you.