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There's a guy I REALLY like. Let's call him "Shirt".

Shirt has called me hot on a few occasions, sometimes to my face, and sometimes not.

Today, one of my friends was hounding me about who I like, and when she said to tell her, Shirt looked over.

The thing that confuses me is that sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me.

I don't really know him that well. We have a Sadie Hawkins dance coming up, and I was wondering if I should ask him. I rate!

I'm 14/f, and he's 17/m (link)
Aww, shirt how cute


Hey. Well, I am going to be in my county's Spelling Bee, which is in less than 2 weeks. Lately I've been studying out of this booklet of beginning, intermediate, and advanced words they gave us.I was wondering if I should just study most of the words I can, or if there are additional techniques to help me spell these words correctly. Thanks! (link)
Study all of them.
in grade school, i used to have spelling tests i used to makeup little stuff to remember like..
CAT, i'd sing c-a-t.
but i was little, so good luck.


My boyfrind and i have been dating for 6 months and its been the best ever. Anyway ... before i have caught him on this lie about him starting up a bad habit again and well ... i gave him another chance. well he was caught again ... strike 2. Now im hearing from other people that hes started again. He swears that he hasnt but everyone say when there around him he is.

What should i believe. How could i maybe make him fess up if he is lying.? (link)
tell him straight out your not going to take lying, its something no girlfriend needs.
so, let him know if he confesses you and him can work something out
(If its a bad habit as drugs please tell somebody like a teacher or parent, to get the truth please)
And if you find out he keeps lying about it let him know you wont take it.


I am in desperate need of some advice. My girlfriend, I am so worried about her. She is always saying how fat she is, and she is not. But I know every girl says that, but she is going to the extrememe and it is stressing her out so much. She is trying to become anorexic again, and I just don't know what to do to help her realize that she is the most beautiful girl to walk this planet, and that she is not fat...I tell her that every single day...and she still is like this...I am so worried, please some advice on something I can do to help her understand that she is beautiful..

Oh and I forgot a lot of this came from her dad calling her fat when she was little... (link)
As much as you tell her she isnt fat, it wont change anything (But it may be nice for her to hear.)
She needs professional help, you need to find away to get her it, if its by telling somebody at school, or her mom.
she will thank you in the long run.


Ok this Sat.im going to a semi formail dance with my best friend. But here's the thing .. idk how to slow dance, ive never done it before. What do you do? And where should I be looking, in his eyes, or just like around. Im soooo confused , pleaseee help. PS, i really like him so im prob. gonna be nervous (link)
Im not good at slow dancing myself but here are some tips.
Dont stare forever in his eyes, really its okay to look some were else, every few seconds.


How can yu get past being jealous? My best friend just got a bf and hes super awesome, and im jealous cus ive never had a bf. Im happy for her, i really am. How can I get my mind off it, and stop being jealous? (link)
You envy her.
Find yourself an adorable guy.
Its normal to be jealous.

Need help finding a guy?
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html


In between haircuts I often cut my own split ends off. Like if I happen to see one I'll just grab a pair of scissors and cut it off. Is this bad? All my friends tell me I shouldn't do this, butI thought cutting them off was a good thing. (link)
its okay, to do its not good or bad.
I'd just get a trim every month personally if it bothers you.


My boyfreind has braces. I don't, I already got them off. We haven't kissed yet, but I'm sure we will. The thing is, is it harder to kiss a guy with braces? Is it more risky? Could my lips get stuck on his braces or can my tongue? Does it hurt? (link)
It is exactly the same as kissing a guy with out braces, so no you will not get stuck.


What can me and my boyfriend do besides anything sexual, movies and board games to keep us interacting with eachother and having fun? (link)
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/great.html

It has loads of ideas for great dates!


Well... im deathly afraid of spiders! Does anybody no a way I can stop fearing spiders so much? (link)
I hate them also.
But really, Just calm down there small and they wont bite you. If you cant kill it yourself ask your mom or somebody.


if you order a cell phone how long does it take to get it? (link)
My mom order hers, and it took about 1 week, in business days.


Is it okay for me to go on my dad's motorcycle (or Harley) with contacts in w/ bug eye sunglasses? Like, am I good to go?
Thanks. (link)
Yes you will be fine.


I'm 13 and I'd like to know, how much makeup is too much? On a usual day, I wear eyeliner on the bottom lid, and an opaque, frosty lilac lip gloss. Is this ok? I don't want to look like a clown (link)
Your fine, i personally dont find it a big deal when teenagers were makeup, but your hardly wearing any, so you wont look like a clown.


My boyfreind has braces. I don't, I already got them off. We haven't kissed yet, but I'm sure we will. The thing is, is it harder to kiss a guy with braces? Is it more risky? Could my lips get stuck on his braces or can my tongue? Does it hurt? (link)
No its not harder to kiss a guy with braces, they just make seem that way in the movies. no you cant get stuck nor can your tongue.
I'm sure the kiss will be fine.


Is it possible for someone to stop growing breasts at 13? i started when I was 8, and I'm 32A (link)
Not likely.
You dont usally stop growing, intill 18-21.


How can yu get past being jealous? My best friend just got a bf and hes super awesome, and im jealous cus ive never had a bf. Im happy for her, i really am. How can I get my mind off it, and stop being jealous? (link)
Your not jealous, you eny her.
Beacause eny is when your happy for the person & jealous. So you know.
But anyways you dont really need to get your mind off it, beacause its not like you want to steal her boyfriend right? Just always know that you will one day have a boyfriend, and maybe other girls will be jealous of you too.


I HATE my best friend. She just gets on my nerves. She NEVER listens to me and she crys alot and she says I make a big deal out of everything. But honestly its her.
What should I do? (link)
Will you HATE her then she isnt your bestfriend.
You can either just tell her you cannot stand her, or just stop talking to her all together and maybe she'll get the clue.


Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it? (link)
Dont think ahead, think in the moment.
Im a girl, and I seem to get the butterflies alot around guys, so.. I have a feeling of what your saying.
But really thinking ahead is bad (you sad you want to start of friendswhen maybe ask her) think of just being her friend. And relax about it, beacause honestly most girls (or atleast me & all my friends) cannot tell when a guy is nervous.


i like my bf's best friend! hes available but he doesnt really want a gf rite now he flirts with a lotta girls but i reallly reallly like him but i still like my bf too i dont know what to do really i no this is probably a common question but ill rate high thanks in advance (link)
Its very common.
But honestly i wouldnt trouble yourself with a guy who isnt intrested in a girlfriend. And he flirts with alot of girls (If your like me, the jealous type that would bother me.)
You need to decide (How i dont exactly know, but you'll come to a conclusion weather or not you think you will you will. lol) who you like more your boyfriend or his friend?
I'd say stay with your boyfriend you already have him, but honestly i dont know your every thought.


im 13/f and i just got my discharge today and it feels like i peed myself...how long do you think i'll have it until my period comes?? (link)
as others below me told you, it doesnt really mean anything.
for me i got discharge for awhile, then i got my period like 2 years after. And i still get discharge.




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