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wat stores in the mall sell abercrombie shirts? or where else can i find them besides on the internet?



thank youu (link)
Abercrombie is the only store that sells Abercrombie shirts, duh! Lol. Abercrombie is the only place that sells there shirts because it is THEIR store.

Abercrombie has a website if you want to just check out their stuff before you go. It's ( http://www.abercrombiekids.com/kids/lifestyles/html/homepage.html )

As you get older, you should go to Abercrombie & Fitch because it's more for older teenagers and I think it has better stuff.

Other then that, there's no where else to get Abercrombie shirts. They are pricey.


ok... my friends ALWAYS do things during the weekends but NEVER invite meh, and i`m sitting here crying rite now because my friends are out right now and i`m home BOREd! this is the 4th weekend in a row that they`ve done this to meh...... WHAT DO I DO?? (link)
Well, let them know you feel left out. Don't make a big deal about it to them, just say you want to hang out with them. Or if you don't want to tell them, then this weekend, invite them all somewhere and ask them all if they want to go to the movies or mall. If you ask them if they wanna go, they can't really say no unless they're busy.

Good luck.
If you need more info, my inbox is free.


Is it possible for a 13 year old to stop growing breasts? I'm 32A, my mom is 32A, and I started growing when I was 9. They haven't grown since I was 11 or 12. My breasts are identical to my mom's, and she developed really late. Does this mean that I'm done growing? (link)
Haha, don't worry you're still young at 13. You've got a long time to grow breasts. Some girls don't even fully develop their breasts until age 20. So yeah, I'm sure in the next 7 years you're going to do A LOT of growing so don't worry.

And you could always wear padded bras or push up bras until your boobs develop.

Good luck!


i have really wanted a trampoline for a long time and my dad said we will get it for you but i would really like to see you raise the money on your own instead of us just handing it to you.. so he told me to ask some of the neighbors if i can do anything to earn some money! so if anyone has any other siguestions on how to make money, please help! **i WILL RATE 5'S!

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There's a ton of stuff you could do. Here's a list of some good ways to earn money.

1. Babysitting.
2. Bake sale.
3. Car wash.
4. Lemonade stand.
5. Yard sale.
6. Mow peoples' lawns.
7. Rake leaves.
8. Walk dogs.
9. Pet sitting.
10. Chores.


I wanna download all the buffy the vampire slayer series. What's the easiest way? and would it be illegal?

Thank you so much (link)
Well, the easiest way to download it is by using Limewire. And yes, that is illegal, but it's by far one of the easiest ways. It's not often that you will get caught using it, but if you do you could get fined lots of money, so watch out! I don't know any other ways to download it because I use limewire. So, hope I helped. =)


My bff is evil. I've known her since 2nd grade when she was nice, then in 5th grade she turned evil. Nobody likes her. She's mean to everybody including me for no reason. I try to help her out and I never get anything positive out of her. Everybody since 5th grade (even my parents) has been telling me to ditch her, but would it be too late? Should I continue being her friend? Should I tell her off? WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
Well, remember, you're parents have been on this earth for a long time, & I'm sure they know what's best for you. I don't know this "evil" girl but if you're parents are saying to ditch her, then it would be best to follow their decision. A lot of moms can always pick out which of their kid's friends are the nice, trustworthy ones and which ones are the jerks. That's just something moms can do.

If she's being a jerk, there's no point of keeping her as a friend. Don't even waste your time trying to get her to be a good friend and talking to her. Just let her be, and go hang out with your other friends & later on as time goes by, she'll find out that she needs to change.

If she wants to be a bitch, let her be one. Don't give her any attention and if she calls you just say you're busy. You're way better then that & no one deserves to have a bitchy friend.

Follow your gut.
Good luck,
stay safe.


how can you tell if a coach purse is real or not? (link)
the leather is crappy, the Cs have a dot in between them to connect them, where you bought them (fancy department stores, the real coach store, etc... not some little street stand gross!), the fabric is good, it lasts for a long time, it just "feels" real (i can't explain it.. you have to be a designer expert to know what i'm talking about!), or just look at the price tag lol (real coach is $150 and up usually!). you know you love me ♥ massie


I want a new aim sn but can't think of anything! please help with ideas.

Heres some stuff bout me:
16 female
no 'x's in it please
something cute
maybe a funny one w/the word *penis* "haha inside jokes with my friends thats why"
and um idk add something if youd like lol

ill give you 5's for trying!!
thanks
xoxox (link)
screwupfairy
sexclilpenis
pennythepenis
sexcikklebabe
cutiepie
cut3pi3
b00ked
i2hoti
imthiskid
succ33d
penisluva69
kinkyluva
sexychick16
sweetcheeks16
666ikkledevil666
sugarbaby16
disterbd4life16
psychobiatch
luvableluvaa
RuGgEdAnGeL
sexililmwah
kisses4u4eva
SwEeTaNdSsOuR
heavensbabydoll
luvislife


you could also visit http://www.pointsincase.com/namescreener.htm
it is currently undergoing redesigning, but will be working soon

hope this helps
if you need anything else please feel free to email me on, the-one-you-love@hotmail.co.uk
xxxx


A boy is going to ask me to a school dance. I dont want to go with him. what should i tell him to let him down gently?

I'll rate 5's. (link)
Be honest. Don't use any lines like "I'm just not ready right now" or anything like that. It's offensive. Just tell him you don't like him like that. Just say you want to go with your friends. It's better to shoot him down than lead him on.

Good Luck :]



My mom never wants me to pluck my eyebrows on my own, so she takes away the tweesers. (I don't think I do that bad of a job) But usually, I find the tweesers and fix up my eyebrows.

But I can't find them, and my eyebrows are really growing back. All I have are these big tweesers that open real wide and are really hard to use.

I should get them professionally done, but I'm embarrassed to ask my mom. help asap? (link)
well you're never going to be able to fix your eyebrows unless you ask your mom.

don't be embarassed about it, just ask her if you can go get your eyebrows waxed or threaded or whatever you want to do.

if she says no for some reason, then ask her if you can pluck your eyebrows by yourself again.

if she says no to that too, then ask her if she can just do it for you. i know it sounds weird, but if she doesn't want you doing it yourself, then just let her do it. it's better than having them grow out and look really weird.

♥hope i helped!!


I have had my period like 4 times and i ahvent got it and it was due like a 4 days ago. Ive never had sex could i be preganant!?!?! (link)
It's normal for periods to be late or early within the first two years of getting it. You CANNOT get pregnant if you've never had sex. It's impossbile. :)


i think i have anger problems... yesterday, i got mad at my parents and i dug my nails into the palm of my left hand until it bled. now there is a huge chunk of skin out of my left hand. I am a cutter. I cut when i get depressed. any idea of what to do when i get mad other than drawing blood? i dont want to go see a doctor... because my parents dont think i have problems. (link)
Instead of cutting yourself, cut or rip pieces of paper. That's what I do when I get pissed off.

I just get a stack of computer paper & start cutting it up, or if I can't find scissors fast enough I rip it up with my hands. Just pretend the paper you're cutting up is the person you are mad at.

It seems stupid, but it really releases stress. & it's what my doctor recommended.

Don't say it's stupid until you've used it in the right situation. Because I sware to god, it works.


would you consider "to hell with it" to be vulgar? as in cursing? (link)
No, because hell isn't really a bad word. And I'm christian & I still don't think it's bad. There are way worse words you could say. But don't say it to a teacher or your parents, because I'm pretty sure they wouldn't really appreciate it, haha.


hey im a 26/f married,and i recently found out that im pregnant and i need some creative ways to tell my parents and my inlaws, im my parents only child so my pregnancy is really going to be exciting for them and i'll be the first pregnant out of my husbands family too so i need some thing really good and creative. thanx a bunch (link)
Throw a party for all of your family for just a little "get-together" thing. Serve the following food at the party, BABY back ribs, BABY carrots, & BABY corn. Ask your family to guess the theme of this meal. When they guess "Baby" give them a little wink & be like "do you know why that's the theme?" with a little grin. Keep giving them hints until they guess that you're having a baby, & be like "Yep, you're right" and smile. Haha, I'm sure they're going to come running to you & hug you like there's no tommarow.

Congrats & good luck!


hello there. let me start by saying i asked your son this question, but he just said get more than 2 friends, and i dont want that answer.. so please put a little more thought into it. If it matters - 13/f. Okay so i have 2 best friends that go to my school. Lets call them A & V. A has been my best friend since 3rd grade [ now in 8th ] and shes a jealous cocky kinda person that always has to have all the attention. ive learned to live with that though because she means so much to me & we never run out of things to do. we are also super boycrazy. then i met V in 6th grade and we have so much in common. we both play basketball, volleyball, and run track together. and we never run out of things to talk about. shes very opioniated. A & V have been getting alot closer these days and now it seems they are kinda leaving me out. because they are so different they get in ALOT of fights - so then im put first for both during their fights. but any other time.. im always second. it used to be i was always first 24/7 - even in fights. it seems like im loosing my two best friends to each other. and im on the "back burner".. if you know what i mean. any advice on what i can do? thanks in advance :]♥ oh, & sorry if it was like confusing. (link)
Sorry about Zach's answer. I went and read it and it looks like a typical "boy" answer. Guys tend to look at everything so logically and don't really address the emotional aspects of things. So I'll give it a shot....
When school first started this year, I got questions like yours A LOT! Go back and read page 3 of this column. There were several questions from kiddos concerned about their long term friendships. They were worried that their friends changed and/or they were sad because they felt they were loosing their friendships.
Here's one of my previous answers...I think it applies to you as well;
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I'm really sorry. I can tell how broken hearted you are over all this.
This is the most common advice I get asked though. If you have time, read back through some of the other questions like yours and the answers I've given. They all have a slightly different story but they are basically about friends going down different paths and how painful it is when it happens.
This is one of the hardest parts of highschool. Even I had a bff that I lost in HS. We did everything together in middle school. We had all honors classes and athletics together, we dressed alike, etc. But in high school, she decided I was a prude. She started having sex and hanging out with a completely different crowd. At first, I wanted to hold on to our friendship so bad that I even considered conforming to her new lifestyle but I just couldn't go through with it and I had to let her go. It was so weird to have this good friend suddenly seem like a stranger to me. But today, I see how her life turned out and I know I made the right decision to let her go because it's not the life I would have wanted for myself (BTW - She seems quite content with her life so she probably looks at MY life as undesirable as well)


Going down different paths is inevitable.
Change is part of life.
Sometimes it seems horrible when it's happening but follow your heart and follow your OWN beliefs and you will find happiness (it just may not be where you expected.)
Stay true to your own self and find others with your common beliefs and you will have no regrets.
Let me know if this helps.
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Remember that you can't control other people. You can only control YOU. I know it must feel like these two friends have turned their backs on you but they haven't. They are just exploring new things. I actually think Zach's advice was GOOD. These friends are probably doing you a really big favor. I think your reaction to their new friendship indicates that you need to expand your social world. If you had more friends and more activities, you wouldn't feel like you were loosing your friends because you would be too busy and happy to notice. When they try and pull you into their fights, you should have something more constructive going on in your life than getting in the middle of conflicts. Set an example and perhaps they will follow you.
Don't feel bad about what is going on. It's normal...but DO keep busy and do some exploring yourself. Once your friends see you being confident and happy, they might just realize what a fun and great friend you have been. And THEY may be the ones worried about loosing YOU.


I don't think my advice is that much different than Zach's. Quit worrying about THEM and focus on YOU.
Let me know if this helps.

Love, Mrs S


okay i wicked love summer dresses but i dont no where to find them besides alloy i really want some cute ones can people please give me the store name or websites or link or soemthing please i rate high (link)
www.aeropostale.com

Check that I'm sure it will have oober cool stuff! I would give you more websites, but the people before me beat me to it & gave you really good ones! My inbox is free if you have any other fashion questions to ask! :)



i have AIM and me and my friend switch away messages and she sent me sumthing cool and i copy and pasted it and then it turned out plain and i didnt click paste plaintext, then i tryed copying other stuff and it did the same, someone help. i did update it. ohh and wen i sign on sumtimes this thing pops up and says unknown error, ohh and do u kno how to get rid of torjans virus??!

PLEASE help!!
i rate and give feedback (link)
I get the unknown error thing a lot, so don't worry about that.

For the copying and pasting thing, if it doesn't work, there's nothing you can do. If you have an older computer, older computers tend to do less stuff. Ask your friend to copy and paste it and see if it turns out plain for her.

I've gotten the Trojan Virus a lot. But I installed Norton Anti-Virus and it blocks the viruses from attacking your computer. I think it only works for high speed internet, I'm not sure though, so ask your parents for help to install it. :)


okay i recently died my hair a medium brown. what is the best casual makeup to go with blue eyes and brown hair? (link)
I'm brunette & have blue eyes too. I wear eyeliner and mascara (if you're going somewhere that involves water like swimming, make sure you get waterproof mascara and eyeliner.) I wear a little bit of blush which I apply at the cheek bones. And I usually wear a light pink or silver eyeshadow. It brings out my features. And sometimes I wear consealor. If you're still confused, my inbox is free. :)


if you have sex, can a doctor tell becauee your vagina is stretched? (link)
No, there's no way he can tell unless he asks you!


ok, here's the situation: i was at a dance Friday night and i met this girl(whoo hoo!), and i got her phone number. I said that i would call her sometime.
what i was wondering is when i should call her. should i wait 2-3 days or do it right now? and when i do call her, what should i say? Should i be like "hi, remember me from friday?" or what should i say? (link)
do it on sunday (today) or, tomorrow. today would be better, cuz then she might forget about you. be like , "hey _____, its ________" and she SHOULD rememebre you, so shell probbly be like "Hey"
if she doesnt remember you, be like, "i was with you on friday, rememeber" but shell probably remember, unless shes a total whore who just gives out her number to anybody




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