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Question Posted Friday May 12 2006, 9:11 pm

My bff is evil. I've known her since 2nd grade when she was nice, then in 5th grade she turned evil. Nobody likes her. She's mean to everybody including me for no reason. I try to help her out and I never get anything positive out of her. Everybody since 5th grade (even my parents) has been telling me to ditch her, but would it be too late? Should I continue being her friend? Should I tell her off? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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JillandAmanda answered Monday May 15 2006, 7:51 pm:
ehh. yeahh you should ditch her! i mean if shes mean to you. that would be the best thing to do. just cause you were best friends with someone doesnt mean that you have to stick to that person if you make a huge effort to be their friend and there just a bitch back. duhh! ditch the bitch.
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herbivore answered Monday May 15 2006, 3:50 pm:
hey. if you dont seem to have that connection anymore then i would not be afraid to stop being friends with her. if you dont see you two as friends anymore, then why would you bother hanging out with her? i know that it maybe hard, but every relationship has to end sometime. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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lilprincess11208 answered Sunday May 14 2006, 6:59 pm:
You should leave her because if shes being mean to you you shouldn't stay with someone you doesn't care about what she's doing or saying to you. If she's acting like this than she's not a true friend.

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abercrombie626 answered Saturday May 13 2006, 10:53 pm:
i say you dont act mean to her just only talk to her when she talks to you ; talk to other people alot more and start to just make your friendship fade then both of yous will be okay because she wont even realize you dont want to be her friend shell just basically think your still nice and everything but just taslk to other people and so will you

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loesje answered Saturday May 13 2006, 9:02 pm:
Talk to her and explain to her ...
Maybe she has something home bothering her ....or something else
Try to know why she bacame so mean..
if she do not want to listen or she keeps giving you negative things.......... "DITCH HER" because of her behaviour she may be shaking all the good people in YOUR way off .You never know people may think you are the same way she is..MEAN

Maybe she will open her eyes when she is standing alone ..some people are like that.
This will make your frienship stronger or breake it.
Try to not feel sad or wrong you can't care for her when she obviuosly don't do this for herself.

lISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS

Pray for her every night.

Good luck and God bless you both.

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iL0VEY0U answered Saturday May 13 2006, 4:50 pm:
maybe she needs you too open up her eyes and tell her what she has missed since shes been in her own little world..<3 jen

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orphans answered Saturday May 13 2006, 10:50 am:
Well, remember, you're parents have been on this earth for a long time, & I'm sure they know what's best for you. I don't know this "evil" girl but if you're parents are saying to ditch her, then it would be best to follow their decision. A lot of moms can always pick out which of their kid's friends are the nice, trustworthy ones and which ones are the jerks. That's just something moms can do.

If she's being a jerk, there's no point of keeping her as a friend. Don't even waste your time trying to get her to be a good friend and talking to her. Just let her be, and go hang out with your other friends & later on as time goes by, she'll find out that she needs to change.

If she wants to be a bitch, let her be one. Don't give her any attention and if she calls you just say you're busy. You're way better then that & no one deserves to have a bitchy friend.

Follow your gut.
Good luck,
stay safe.

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lxYiPPi answered Friday May 12 2006, 11:54 pm:
what does she do that is evil ? if shes so mean to you when you are around her just simply tell her she needs to have a better attitude towards everything and untill then just F the F off ! shes not going to get any where in life if shes mean to everybody around her. dont let her bring you down im pretty sure you have alot of other friends! and even though shes your bff just go find another one. Obviously she cant be a best friend if she doesnt know how to be one !! take my advise and just stay away from her untill she gets her act together !!

hope i helped

&&heart's;;kayla

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