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Boys. Long. Sorry.
ok when it comes to guys... Im like horrible. Well for starters im 16/f just to let you know.
Anyways Im so confused... ok theres two guys... the first one is my ex. Now with him he cheated on me and then broke up with me... but he told me that he still likes me. But when it comes to people if you break my trust theres a part of me that cant let it go and I know thats bad but he really did hurt me. Well anyways Im pretty sure I dont like him anymore. I think its mainly because he doesnt know how to keep a promise like he'll tell me hes gonna call me and he NEVER does, so Im so confused cause now I'm just like w.e I dont really like you but I never told him that. And Im trying to make it seem like i dont like him like that anymore but I dont know how... ok well thats my first problem, now heres the second theres this other guy and what i like about him is hes the other way around if he says hes gonna call hell call me and when he doesnt hell text me and will be like im sorry ill call u even if its late just so i can say i called you. BUt the problem with him is that I think the only reason hes calling me is so he can forget about his ex, who like completely broke his heart and he told me all about it so i feel as if he wont get over her, and that i know too much about him to like him.
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i say that none of them are right because both of them a a way are lying the first one yeah about everything and the second when he says he lieks you because hes just trying to get over his g.f. so his feelings wouldnt be completely real you could try it and see how it works and if it doesnt you should just wait for someone completely new no best friends or exes and just start something new with them
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hey ive been here before first leave your ex alone he's no good for yo. second since both you guys been hurt it's going to work better right now it may seems as he's using you to get over his ex but he has to like you a liitle be patient and give you guys a chance dont think negative or the outcome will be negative
Jazzy**
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Well, let me just say that you are not horrible with guys. You are not the problem.
I think that even if you did have feelings for your ex-boyfriend, you shouldn't try getting back with him anyway because of him being untrustworthy in a lot of ways. What you need to do is tell him that you no longer have feelings for him and you aren't willing to try things again. That way you don't waste his time anymore trying to get you back. You should do this as soon as you can so that you can get this first problem out of the way.
As for this other guy: If he's talking about his ex-girlfriend a lot, then that is a big sign that he's not over her and not ready to be with someone else just yet. A lot of times when people just come out of relationships, they try dating sooner because they think it will erase the feelings for that past person.
So I think that you shouldn't try with any of these guys. You can find someone whose reliable and faithful in other guys. Maybe you should tske some time for yourself to cool off from these problems you've been having and wait for a new guy to come along.
-TheTeenGirl
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if you want your ex to know you dont like him then call him and tell him :/ that simple ! or tell him in person ! mabe if you find another boyfriend hell get the idea you dont have feelings for him anymore... !!
now about this other prob. this boy you are talking about might just be looking for some one to be his rebound. dont let him fool you. hes prob still in love with his ex! only move on to him when he is ready! but untill he gets over her and decides he wants to move on or be with you ... then just be a good buddy and help him through his problems ... :]
hope i helped
&&heart's;;kayla
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