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Question Posted Friday May 12 2006, 9:21 pm

Okay so, when my boyfriend & I are together (which is like 3 days out of the week or more) we get along perfectly fine.. but the days we aren't together & we are talking on the phone or internet, we always argue about something, normally over something stupid. And either me or him is always in a blah mood. It's totally different when we are together though.. we're very happy and don't argue one bit.. and can't stand a minute apart from each other, everyone says how happy we are. We love each other.. but we dont get this.

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abercrombie626 answered Saturday May 13 2006, 10:09 pm:
i had the same problem just try not giving him any attitude and if he seems like hes in a bad mood just be like awee babe im sorry and comfort him dont try and give him an attitude back no matter how mean he gets and just dont take an =y anger out on him it should work

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xOViLLYxO answered Saturday May 13 2006, 8:56 pm:
Oh my gosh that sounds so familar .. cus happened to me before alot.It`s because you two miss each other so much that it makes you so mad then you just have to argue.And in person your so happy to each other that you don`t even think about fighting.It`s totally normal & happens alot.

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0verMyHead answered Saturday May 13 2006, 4:46 pm:
the reason yall argue is because yall miss each other. its normal. don`t worry. it will get better tho. best of luckk =]

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Belladonna answered Saturday May 13 2006, 9:07 am:
Actually, that happens with a lot of people. I know I argue with my friends over MSN all the time. I think the reason is because you're not face-to-face, and it's easier to say what you're feeling/thinking. In real life, if something annoys you or whatnot, you're less inclined to say it because you're face-to-face. That's my theory anyway.
Plus, the closer you are with someone, you more you fight anyway. That's inevitable, really. =/ The fact that you guys sincerely care about each other and don't argue when in each others company leads me to believe theres no real problems with you guys. Maybe just try and avoid certain topics on MSN, or think before you say something. It's easy to say something stupid on msn that could potentially upset someone. If you're not feeling too great, just sign off for a while because I know from experience its not good to be online when you're feeling blah..lol.

All the best. ^_^

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xmelyssa answered Saturday May 13 2006, 1:18 am:
I know exactly what your going through, My friend is in my grade, and whenever we are hanging out we are best friends, but online she argues about stupid lame stuff. Talk to your boyfriend, that always helps me cool down my jets. =]

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