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Okay, i had this friend named maddie and i introduced her to my friend caitlin and i said hi to caitlin and she told me my friend was weird and i ignored and i said hi to maddie on aim and then she was like WHO R U? and im ike jasmine im on my other account lol and then she said how kat was so mean to her and i said sorry she was mean and all and then she said YOU BETTER BE I ALMOST CALLED THE POLICE ON HER so i dont know how bad what caitlin said was! And im scared facing her because she might be mad at me because she said DONT TALK TO ME and im really scared and i really wanna be her friend! What do i do?
two friends=0???? (link)
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Maddie deserves an apology - point blank. I think you should talk to Caitlin and tell her it was very rude of her to say whatever she said to Maddie, and that Maddie is a good friend of yours and she shouldn't be dissing your friends. Tell her she needs to apologize to Maddie, if she chooses not to - it isn't your fault, but it is a good thing to encourage her to apologize. I mean, she must have said something very hurtful and cruel for Maddie to want to bring the police into the situation.
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I started doing 100 squats every night starting last week. (I stretch before I do them, so don't worry). What areas do squats help improve? When should I start seeing noticeable results? (link)
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The areas squats help improve are your butt and your legs. You should start seeing results within two weeks to a month.
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ok so theres this guy who likes me and i like him (i think). Hes 3 years older than me but both our moms agreed for us to date. I just got out of a realtionship that my mom didnt exactly know about and i still like the guy but i dont think he likes me anymore. I have a tendacy to like guys only if they like me. Should I just forget about my ex and move on and take a chance with this new guy? or should I just keep crushing my ex since i dont know if i like the new guy? im so confused. (link)
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I think you should try out the new guy, give him a chance. He could be a really great guy, and you don't want to miss out on that because of your ex. I think the two of you broke up for a reason, and it's probably best if you move on.
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What are some shampoo and conditioners that leave your hair smelling good, even if you shower at night for the next day, cause my hair always smells good when i shower but once it dries it smells kinda not good. Personal experiance please! Thanks! (link)
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My absolute favorite is Bath & Body Works Shampoo and Condition, in Sweet Pea. It smells amazing, and keeps my hair smooth and silky!
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ok ther is this girl christina and she is mad at me beause i told her that i didnt like her huggin and flirtin with my boy friend and she said she cant be my friend any more bcause i dont trust her she swares she dont like him but i dont well didnt want him to start likein her and then she proswaded him 2 brake up with me and he did(you see they was friends way before me and him were) and thats why he did. but am i the bad guy(girl) here?andi do miss her as my friend and ive tried to be her friend againbut all she does is be her bitchy self soo? (link)
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To be honest with you, I wouldn't even try to be friends with her. But I think it's important to NOT place all the blame on your ex-friend, because ultimately, he made the choice to break it off and he's to blame as well. So for starters, he wasn't and still isn't worth your time. So please, don't waste your time worrying about he broke up with you, he really isn't worth it. He probably did you a favor.
Now as far as your so-called friend, she isn't. If she was your friend, she wouldn't have done this to you. She wanted you to trust her, yet she just proved to you why you CANNOT trust her. Look at what she's done, if she isn't trustworthy, she isn't "friend" material.
I think you're better off without the both of them, it just goes to show how stupid some girls can be over just a guy, visa-versa. Meaning, on your ex friend and boyfriend's part, of course.
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16/f.
I met a guy online (very stupid idea, I know.) and well...we started talking on MSN (he's 18) for a couple of months. and then he starts telling me he cares for me. then in a week, he loves me and he has a major crush on me.
I'm like...wait wait...hold up..WHAT? You don't even know me..!
My question is....is it possible to actually feel love online?
He keeps on insisting it and I don't know if he's bullshitting me.
Advice? (link)
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I think you're really only going to get personal opinions, rather than facts - my personal opinion is that you can't. I know people say they do, and maybe some of them do, but I don't understand it at all. You're right to trust your instincts, you never know, you may have a major predator on your hands. I wouldn't talk to him anymore, especially, since I don't believe he's being sincere. Most likely, if you think he isn't tell you the trust, he isn't. Trust your instincts.
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does anyone know anything about working at aerie? (the american eagle store) i might apply there soon. thanks =) (link)
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One of my friends' work there, and she loves it. She runs the cash register and takes care of some stock. She definitely recommends applying there, it's amazing. =)
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how do you know if your a good kisser or not? (link)
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I think it matters most how into it you and your boyfriend/girlfriend is. And it also matters how your bf/gf like to be kissed, since people like different styles and like to switch it up. Here's a quiz I found. =)
http://www.blogthings.com/areyouagoodkisserquiz/
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I want to be popular and have people want to talk to me, and be with me often. How do I become popular?
Male/Female/Any Age is Appropriate (link)
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Popularity
Most people think that becoming popular is difficult, and staying on top of your game, when you do, is even worse. While that can be true in rare situations, it’s actually quite simple to become popular - you just need the right tools, and know how to play it cool. I’m here to help you with all you need to know, so moving on...
Checklist in Becoming Popular
1) Be friendly to everybody - not just a certain clique/crowed.
2) You need to be outgoing, doesn’t mean you still can’t be a little shy or even a lot really, what I mean by “outgoing” is to be able to walk up to people and start a conversation without feeling awkward.
3) Talk to three different people everyday, until you’ve met everyone in school/work/etc.
4) Try to find interesting things you have in common with people, and then introduce that fact in a conversation. You wouldn’t believe how much you can talk about one thing, when you have two people who both like it.
5) Get involved. Whether you’re at school, work or wherever you are - there’s always that chance to move up the totem pole, and you want to be at the top. So try your absolute best in everything you do, it will show people how determined and successful you are. People will want to be your friend because those are good qualities.
6) This is sometimes the hardest step for people, but one of the most important if not THE most important - open up to people. You have to show them who you really are, if not, they probably won’t want to be you friend. Don’t try to act like someone else because others can see that, and they only want you to be yourself. Otherwise, you’re not really “friend” material.
Here are some wonderful links I’ve looked up, that should give you a sense of what being popular really is and the steps involved in it.
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing-Outside-of-School
http://www.ehow.com/how_2090260_be-outgoing.html
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I am a 16 year old girl who has trouble finding and keeping good friends. This has been a problem since mid-elemetary school. I feel lonley and bored a lot and really wish I had some good friends. How can I make more friends and be happier? (link)
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Most people think that becoming popular is difficult, and staying on top of your game, when you do, is even worse. While that can be true in rare situations, it’s actually quite simple to become popular - you just need the right tools, and know how to play it cool. I’m here to help you with all you need to know, so moving on...
Checklist in Becoming Popular
1) Be friendly to everybody - not just a certain clique/crowed.
2) You need to be outgoing, doesn’t mean you still can’t be a little shy or even a lot really, what I mean by “outgoing” is to be able to walk up to people and start a conversation without feeling awkward.
3) Talk to three different people everyday, until you’ve met everyone in school/work/etc.
4) Try to find interesting things you have in common with people, and then introduce that fact in a conversation. You wouldn’t believe how much you can talk about one thing, when you have two people who both like it.
5) Get involved. Whether you’re at school, work or wherever you are - there’s always that chance to move up the totem pole, and you want to be at the top. So try your absolute best in everything you do, it will show people how determined and successful you are. People will want to be your friend because those are good qualities.
6) This is sometimes the hardest step for people, but one of the most important if not THE most important - open up to people. You have to show them who you really are, if not, they probably won’t want to be you friend. Don’t try to act like someone else because others can see that, and they only want you to be yourself. Otherwise, you’re not really “friend” material.
Here are some wonderful links I’ve looked up, that should give you a sense of what being popular really is and the steps involved in it.
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Outgoing-Outside-of-School
http://www.ehow.com/how_2090260_be-outgoing.html
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how do you pronounce lynyrd skynyrd?
is it leh-nerd skin-erd? (link)
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(Pronounced 'lĕh-'nérd 'skin-'nérd)
EDIT: I got it from Wikipedia. =)
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has anyone been to a world fair? what exactly is it? no links (link)
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"Expo (also known as World Fair and World's Fair) is the name of various large public exhibitions held since the mid-19th century. The official sanctioning body is the Bureau International des Expositions (BIE), translated in English as the International Exhibitions Bureau (though sometimes rendered as the Bureau of International Expositions). BIE-approved fairs are divided into a number of types: universal, and international or specialized. They usually last between 3 and 6 months. In addition, countries can hold their own 'fair', 'exposition', or 'exhibition', without BIE endorsement.
Today, world expositions are the third largest event in the world in terms of economic and cultural impact, after the FIFA World Cup and the Olympic Games. They have been organized for more than one and a half centuries — longer than both the (modern) Olympic Games and the World Cup. The first Expo was held in The Crystal Palace in Hyde Park, London, in 1851 under the title “Great Exhibition of the Works of Industry of All Nations”. The “Great Exhibition” as it is often called was an idea of Prince Albert, Queen Victoria’s husband, and was the first international exhibition of manufactured products. As such, it influenced the development of several aspects of society including art and design education, international trade and relations, and even tourism. Also, it was the precedent for the many international exhibitions, later called “World’s Fairs”, which were subsequently held until the present day.
The main attractions at World's Fairs are the national pavilions, created by participating countries. At Expo 2000 Hannover, where countries created their own architecture, the average pavilion investment was around € 13 million. Given these costs, EU governments in particular are sometimes skeptical about participation as tangible benefits are often assumed not to outweigh the costs. Effects are often not measured, however. An exception was an independent study for the Dutch pavilion at Expo 2000. This research estimated the pavilion (which cost around € 35 million) generated around € 350 million of potential revenues for the Dutch economy. It also identified several key success factors for world exposition pavilions in general."
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can you get meningitis from touching turtles? (link)
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From my understanding, you (more than likely) will not get meningitis from touching a turtle. However, you can get Salmonella from it, I believe.
http://health.yahoo.com/infectiousdisease-overview/salmonella-infection/mayoclinic--16A05EDE-E7FF-0DBD-11CCBD03A1FF6AC7.html
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I'm making a scrapbook and I would like to know where I can buy um.. a 3 ring binding .. thingy XD
You know these?
http://img.en.china.cn/image/10/00/03/54/48/1001798256_1_big.jpg
Any stores you know of? A website I can check out?
Thanks! (link)
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They have those at Staples and Office Max.
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i was in the bathroom peeing and my underwear had this gob of white.. wtf is that? (link)
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To the previous columnist - it is not "cum," there's a difference between discharge and cum. What you are having is called discharge, which is totally normal, all girls get it.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/discharge.htm
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on buzznet what is a page header image
is it the image that is above the entire profile?
love,
NancyDotCom™ (link)
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Yes, that's exactly right.
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all the guys in mygrade hate me. they think im a whore cause i dress slutty but i dont mean to. I have no idea what i am doing wrong! i am so sad. please just help all you can (link)
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When it comes to these situations, the best thing to do is ignore them. I can understand why it bothers you, it's kind of like a situation I was in - where everyone judged me because of how I dressed. I took a step back and looked at myself and realized that I really did need to tone it down (I recommend trying that). And what I did, other than toning it down, was let everyone know who the real me is. Once they saw who I really was, they treated me the same way no matter what I was wearing. It was actually a good situation I was put in, otherwise, I don't think I'd be as popular with people as I am now. And by popular, I mean I've grown a good reputation now - and that's the way to go. =)
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ok well sometimes when im talkimg to some guys at school idk how to respond so im like "okay.." like this guy always says that we're tight.. and i keep saying "okayy" and i wanna say something else like funny but idk.. like i've know him for 2 years now but with some guys its a little hard to open up. btw im 13 and a girl. thanks :) (link)
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This has lots of different stuff that should help you. At your age, and really, at anybody's age, you tend have trouble opening up to people right off. I used to have this problem with everyone, but now, since I've started working with more people, I've learned to just open up from the beginning - it comes naturally now. I'm sure it will for you too, you just have to push yourself to do things out of your comfort zone.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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15/f
ok my breast are a size A and im very fustrated i be wondering when there going to grow or if there going to grow my mother wheres a C cup so i shouldn't have a eason why there so small they been this size for over the past 2 years now and if they grown i havent noticed but any ideas on how to make my breast bigger plz no injections, no gels, no pills thanx (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.natcure.blogspot.com/2007/11/increase-breast-size-naturally.html
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okay everyone knos christmas is going to be here pretty soon. and i still dont kno what to get my parents. i kno im going to get them a card, and im probably going to put my money towards a big bath and body works thing with the big things of lotions and stuff for my mom. and im not sure what to get my dad. and i dont want to ask what he wants cause then he knos hes going to end up getting it. so i was thinking like something along the lines as like a gift card out to dinner. and he loves the apple store but we live about 1 and 1/2 hours from an orlando store and i cant drive so that would be pretty hard to get. so please give me some ideas what to get him! thankks so muchh in advancee! =]] (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://festivals.iloveindia.com/christmas/christmas-gifts/christmas-gifts-for-parents.html
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