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should i kick her ass?
ok ther is this girl christina and she is mad at me beause i told her that i didnt like her huggin and flirtin with my boy friend and she said she cant be my friend any more bcause i dont trust her she swares she dont like him but i dont well didnt want him to start likein her and then she proswaded him 2 brake up with me and he did(you see they was friends way before me and him were) and thats why he did. but am i the bad guy(girl) here?andi do miss her as my friend and ive tried to be her friend againbut all she does is be her bitchy self soo?
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Well, honestly, don't kick her ass.
Just don't respond.
If your (ex) boyfriend is going to dump you over that, he obvvsss wasn't right for you anyway.
And don't try to be Christinas' friend if she is going to be bitchy towards you for no reason.
By trying, you're letting her know she's in control.
Ingore her.
She'll realize that she caan't take your power away if you don't care.
So the best thing for you to do, is move on.
You'll feel better.
Good Luck (:
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Don't resort to violence. But, honestly if you know for a fact that it is because she wanted him to break up with you that he did that.
1. He has no mind of his own, and you deserve someone better than a guy who can't think for himself.
2. She wanted him for herself. And you don't need her as a friend.
It must be a very frustrating situation, so I hope it gets better. Sorry.
-Teacup
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Look, he chose to break up with you. She doesn't have brainwashing mutant powers so she didn't make him break up with you anymore then she could have made him start liking her AND she does have a point.
If you can't trust your friend and your boyfriend not to fool around behind your back, you got issues and/or poor taste in friends and boyfriends.
You blew it out of a proportion and then they blew it out of proportion even bigger! It was just badness all around.
If you don't find her pleasant to be around now, don't be her friend.
Don't 'kick her ass'. That is unbearably grade school. Nobody handled this well, not her, not you, not the guy. Let it go.
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To be honest with you, I wouldn't even try to be friends with her. But I think it's important to NOT place all the blame on your ex-friend, because ultimately, he made the choice to break it off and he's to blame as well. So for starters, he wasn't and still isn't worth your time. So please, don't waste your time worrying about he broke up with you, he really isn't worth it. He probably did you a favor.
Now as far as your so-called friend, she isn't. If she was your friend, she wouldn't have done this to you. She wanted you to trust her, yet she just proved to you why you CANNOT trust her. Look at what she's done, if she isn't trustworthy, she isn't "friend" material.
I think you're better off without the both of them, it just goes to show how stupid some girls can be over just a guy, visa-versa. Meaning, on your ex friend and boyfriend's part, of course.
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She is a major bitch. It would be a nice sense of revenge on her to kick her ass, and I encourage you to do it, but it is not necessary. Don't try to be her friend. She is obviously a girl with no conscience or empathy. Sorry about you and your boyfriend. She apparently was very into him, but that doesn't justify it. You're not the bad guy; she is. And when it comes to it, that's all that matters.
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