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I'm confused.
Okay so, me and this guy like eachother but we're not going out because we have before but eh doesn't want to go out because well, he's afraid of the "break up trouble" if you catch my drift. Anyway, he basically NEVER talks to me, and we don't hang out like we used too, I think I don't like him anymore but I don't know how to tell him.
Me and his good friend were talking about it and he doesn't know what I should do either but he told me that this guy does like me. The guy that likes me, tells me he really likes me and stuff, but I mean seriously, how can you like someone if you NEVER hang out. Trust me, I try to but all he says are things like "Hey, cool cool, yeaah, sweet, well bye" and thats it. I don't think I like him anymore but I feel so bad. =/. Plus he talks to a lot of other girls all the time, and he has like secret handshakes, sayings ect. with them but he basically ignores me. Anyone have any Ideas how I can? Please helpp.
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As much as you probably don't want to hear this, I think it might be best to just shy away from this one. If he isn't making any effort to talk or be with you, then you shouldn't make any effort back. From my experience, when it comes to a guy not making any effort, it unfortunately, means that he doesn't want to talk to you or be with you - so save yourself some time and find one who does. There are plenty of guys better than him, out there.
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It's hard to tell if you want more or less with this guy but the solution is the same. Move on. If he doesn't want you then you are free to do what you want anyhow. If he does, he has to step up or lose you. Either way it is the answer. You'd be surprised how many guys will want a relationship if they know they will lose a girl otherwise. Fear is an incredible motivator.
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i don't think there is a need for you to tell him..i really don't..i mean..if he ever asks you out..even tho you said he won't, just say that you aren't attracted to you and that you have moved on.But just to tell him you don't liek him would crush his heart. SO really he can still like you but i do't think you need to tell him that you do't like him unless you have to. Nothing is wrong with that. Good luck with everything
~sealgirl~
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