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Member Since: November 17, 2007
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Last Update: November 17, 2007
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all the guys in mygrade hate me. they think im a whore cause i dress slutty but i dont mean to. I have no idea what i am doing wrong! i am so sad. please just help all you can (link)
Wear bigger tops.
And longer pants.
Join clubs, get more involed.
Once you open up to some guys,
they will see there's a nicer "non-slutty" side of you.
It also wouldn't hurt to gain more girlfriends.
Goood Lucckkk (:


Ok well my teacher at school said something really mean to me in class today in front of the whole class and I really don't appreciate it. I'm really senstivie.

As much as I want to say "you hurt my feelings!" I can't because that's just being..a sissy, looser?

And she made me cry in class TWICE now and I don't do anything bad!

Is there anything i can do or anything to make me feel bettter form her words? (link)
Often it is the teacher being the bully.
But as much as you want to yell at her, don't.
I know from personal experiences, that's not the best way to handle things.
The best thing for you to do is to either;
take your teacher aside at recess or something, and let her know how you have been feeling.
Or have a talk with your parent(s), the principal and your teacher.
It is important for you to feel good about yourself.
Even if your teacher doesn't like it, she will have to stop once the principal gets involed.
In the meantime, don't pay attention to her.
Don't give her the satifaction of making you upset.
I mean ..
it's a teacher,
who cares what they say.
Goood Luckkk (:


ok well sometimes when im talkimg to some guys at school idk how to respond so im like "okay.." like this guy always says that we're tight.. and i keep saying "okayy" and i wanna say something else like funny but idk.. like i've know him for 2 years now but with some guys its a little hard to open up. btw im 13 and a girl. thanks :) (link)
Lots of girls have that problem.
If you can't be yourself around your friends, what else can you do?
Buddy up to this guy.
He obvss likes you.
But if your too stiff, you might lose your chance.
Guys aren't that crazy over girls that are insecure.
Just let lose when your around him.
He will deff respect you for that.
Who knows, you guys might end up dating.
Good luckkk (:


ok ther is this girl christina and she is mad at me beause i told her that i didnt like her huggin and flirtin with my boy friend and she said she cant be my friend any more bcause i dont trust her she swares she dont like him but i dont well didnt want him to start likein her and then she proswaded him 2 brake up with me and he did(you see they was friends way before me and him were) and thats why he did. but am i the bad guy(girl) here?andi do miss her as my friend and ive tried to be her friend againbut all she does is be her bitchy self soo? (link)
Well, honestly, don't kick her ass.
Just don't respond.
If your (ex) boyfriend is going to dump you over that, he obvvsss wasn't right for you anyway.
And don't try to be Christinas' friend if she is going to be bitchy towards you for no reason.
By trying, you're letting her know she's in control.
Ingore her.
She'll realize that she caan't take your power away if you don't care.
So the best thing for you to do, is move on.
You'll feel better.
Good Luck (:




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