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I'm hurt


Question Posted Friday November 9 2007, 11:20 pm

Ok well my teacher at school said something really mean to me in class today in front of the whole class and I really don't appreciate it. I'm really senstivie.

As much as I want to say "you hurt my feelings!" I can't because that's just being..a sissy, looser?

And she made me cry in class TWICE now and I don't do anything bad!

Is there anything i can do or anything to make me feel bettter form her words?


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katiiiie answered Saturday November 17 2007, 11:44 pm:
Often it is the teacher being the bully.
But as much as you want to yell at her, don't.
I know from personal experiences, that's not the best way to handle things.
The best thing for you to do is to either;
take your teacher aside at recess or something, and let her know how you have been feeling.
Or have a talk with your parent(s), the principal and your teacher.
It is important for you to feel good about yourself.
Even if your teacher doesn't like it, she will have to stop once the principal gets involed.
In the meantime, don't pay attention to her.
Don't give her the satifaction of making you upset.
I mean ..
it's a teacher,
who cares what they say.
Goood Luckkk (:

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LagunaBabe answered Monday November 12 2007, 7:23 pm:
I recommend talking to your teacher after school, and letting her know that what she has said to you, has really hurt your feelings. I'm sure she'll understand and talk to you about it, if not, and she continues to say hurtful things to you - consider talking to your principal or a counselor about it. If she's saying things only to hurt your feelings, that's not what a teacher is supposed to do and she should be told about it.

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Oaspring answered Saturday November 10 2007, 2:48 pm:
yess! tell a guidence councelor or parent to tell the school. they take things like this extremely seriously. if a teacher is embarrasing or saying mean things to you, especially in front of the class, this is wrong and you have to do something about it before it continues or gets worse. just tell the principal or guidance councelor and it will be solved.

hope this helps! xxx

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babyygurLx0 answered Saturday November 10 2007, 1:20 pm:
i think u should talk to your teacher before or after school
and tell her how u feel and that your real sensitive and ud appreciate it if she stop and she doesnt then maybe talk to your principal about it or something.

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hollisterhottiexoxoxoxoxo answered Saturday November 10 2007, 10:46 am:
stop being such a pansy grow some balls and either bitch her out or bitch slap that hoe. duh

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ammo answered Saturday November 10 2007, 4:39 am:
All you can really do is not take them to heart. I know it's very easily said but teacher or no teacher they are still just another person with their own opinion and nothing else. Try not to let her get you down. I will say this though, if you feel you are being bullied by your teacher (which is what it sounds like if she's made you cry twice after victimizing you for no reason) then this teacher has some issues that need to be dealt with.

I think the best thing to do is speak to this teacher alone and explain to her that how it makes you feel when she does what she is doing. Maybe then she will see past her ignorance. You've nothing to lose just by telling her what she is doing is something you don't like siomply becuase that's not what you go into school for nor is it something you should have to put up with. If it doesn't result in any positive results then by all means speak about it to your parents and have them speak to your schools head. If you feel you are up to it you can do this yourself as well and it would then get looked into properly.

This kind of thing shouldn't have to be put up with be it from other students or from any teacher. Having someone hurt your feelings and you wanting to tell them that to stop them doesn't make you a looser at all. The real loosers are the ones who think they are better than you simply because they can make you cry or hurt you.

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