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how to get a guys attention
15/f
i'll be honest i'm not the most prettiest girl ever but i do have a great personality and alot to offer a guy. but alot of guys dont know i exsist. (and the guy i like doesnt really notice me). how can i get a guys attention and to notice me, before i get a chance to show the real me? ya know...something to get noticed first...
thx
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Don't do what the person below me said.
That will NOT work.
The best and most attractive thing a person can have, is confidence. Smile at the guy you're trying to get the attention of, and maybe even give him a little wave. When you're walking past him, don't look shy and awkward. Look confident, and keep your head up. Make sure to smile =]
Or, have a mutual friend introduce you to a guy. Like, have a friend you both know introduce you so you at least get aquainted, and then begin a conversation sometime.
OR, if you really want to get a guy's attention. Just go and talk to him. He won't bite! Just walk up to him and say, "Hi I'm (name), what's your name?" Again, make sure to smile and act friendly (but not too friendly) with him.
-Laura. (15-f)
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wear some low cut shirts, tight jeans. but dont look too hookerish. go to hollister. duh
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I think the most direct approach would be to try talk to him. Just say hi when you see him and see if he says hi back and just carry on your merry way. :D Then the next day do the same and when you do feel comfortable actually talk to him and get to know him and let him get to know you. :)
Although i haven't really specified what you should do to get his attention in any other way the only other thing I can think of is just going up to him and saying, "Oi! Notice me already!" But that would probably not be a good idea. Also, the thing is I don't think anyone should have to change themselves to get someones attention. If guys don't notice you then it really is their loss since they are looking past someone who has so much to offer. It's called ignorance. Most guys feel with their eyes and assume that what girls have to offer is what's on the outside. Also, pretty is only a state of mind so don't think you are any less pretty than the next girl out there. :P
Unless someone else has another way that you can get this guy to notice you it would be kool but personally I think just talking to him would be a really good start. It'll be even more easier if he's at your school (which I assume he is) and in some of your classes since that means you won't be just some random person coming up to him to talk to him. At the end of the day if a guy won't appreciate you for who youo are on the inside then it's a guy not worth wasting your time on. :)
Good luck with him.
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