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comebacks
ok well sometimes when im talkimg to some guys at school idk how to respond so im like "okay.." like this guy always says that we're tight.. and i keep saying "okayy" and i wanna say something else like funny but idk.. like i've know him for 2 years now but with some guys its a little hard to open up. btw im 13 and a girl. thanks :)
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Lots of girls have that problem.
If you can't be yourself around your friends, what else can you do?
Buddy up to this guy.
He obvss likes you.
But if your too stiff, you might lose your chance.
Guys aren't that crazy over girls that are insecure.
Just let lose when your around him.
He will deff respect you for that.
Who knows, you guys might end up dating.
Good luckkk (:
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This has lots of different stuff that should help you. At your age, and really, at anybody's age, you tend have trouble opening up to people right off. I used to have this problem with everyone, but now, since I've started working with more people, I've learned to just open up from the beginning - it comes naturally now. I'm sure it will for you too, you just have to push yourself to do things out of your comfort zone.
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well just open up to him and tell him how you feel and tell him you dont know what to say to him because he is to open to you so you need to be open with him.
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Sometimes it can help to repeat back a little of what has just been said to you. That way a guy will know that you are listening and understanding what he is saying to you.
For instance if he says:
"and I really like going to the park to kick a ball around"
you could then say back "so you really like going to the park - so do I"
Try not to repeat back parrot fashion or too much.
It is called reflecting back and can work well.
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Be comfortable. Like if someone says "we're tight", like hip-bump him and go "like spandex!". It's funny and cute. It's okay if you feel uncomfortable about it at first, just get used to it. Like the spandex thing. That was an easy one. Find something cute to compare it too, like looking at sassy T-shirts from Forever 21. (I got the spandex one because I thought of a shirt I saw that said "I'm tight like spandex" on it.) T-shirts have some really witty and cute things on them, you can just browse through websites and look at them. I know it sounds weird, but it works!
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