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I am a current student at St. Paul High School and I dont like people who are disrespectful. My birthday is on December 22nd.
Gender: Female
Location: Arkansas
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Age: 17
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ok well sometimes when im talkimg to some guys at school idk how to respond so im like "okay.." like this guy always says that we're tight.. and i keep saying "okayy" and i wanna say something else like funny but idk.. like i've know him for 2 years now but with some guys its a little hard to open up. btw im 13 and a girl. thanks :) (link)
well just open up to him and tell him how you feel and tell him you dont know what to say to him because he is to open to you so you need to be open with him.


okay well i missed one of my good friend's bday parties on saturday. since then i've been busy to the max and i feel really bad cause shes in high school so i dont see her often and i wanna get her a gift.. i mean her real bday was on monday but i couldnt get it for the tons of things i had to do. so whats something thoughtful, nice and not too expensive to get her? she just turned 15. thanks! (link)
get her like some earrings or something like that or you could get her a journal thing other people like those and if it was my birthday i would want one to because i could write my feelings and how high school is and remember it for the rest of my life about how high school was.


My bgf can't date until his next bday (in may he will be 16) but he and i like each other. he hug and have held hand a couple times and kissed once. the thing is we havent talked for like a week and a half partially cause i lost my cell and he txted me and called but i didnt know but yesterday he called my home but i wasnt home and then he didnt answer anyway today we talked a bit and he came to pick up a paper he need for bio i had copied for him cause he forgot it and he came inside and we talked for a couple min. cause its my bday on sunday and i was like lets do sumthing and he said ok and then wanted to know what i want cause he asked me a month ago or so but i wouldnt tell him. i said sumthing that shows you care i think. anyway we hugged saying bye and then i kissed him. well we both kissed each other but i started it cause i looked at him anyway he works for a christian youth center and that why he cant date cause there staff isnt allowed until they are 16 (weird i know) but i feel super bad cause hes not really suppossed to do that if he cant date. its like we are practically dating only without the commitment. what i want to know is why i am doing this. i feel bad after and i couldnt believe i did but i think i did cause i have thought about it many times before. like if we would kiss again. so i just got used to the idea. i totally acted like he was my bf!!! i think its probably cause i want him to know how much i like him and stuff but im so weird! i was going to ask him how he felt if i dated someone else!!! if i did i would probably end up cheating anyways apparently after THIS. i need lots of opinions and will rate each one!!!!!!!!!! Thank you soooo much! and any tips for NOT doing this! cause i wanted to but not actually! just a whim!!! again thanks!!! ;) (link)
all you were doing was showing affection for him and that isnt bad and i am NOT being mean but maybe its to early for ya'll to start into a commited relationship maybe you two should wait and let the religious view take over then go to commitment.


I'm 15/f, a freshman and I need some help.


First of all, I wasn't allowed into my school drama program because the class was completely full by the time I was registered. Therefore, I'm automatically disqualified to audition for any school plays or musicals (My public school is pathetic).

So I met this guy Jason who's the leading actor in the school drama program and the captain of the school Improv Team (currently unavailable for freshman). He's really hot and smart and friendly and a good actor...and he's a senior. Yes, I know I'm a freshman and I don't really have much of a chance because he has female friends following him wherever he goes, and he probably has a girlfriend anyways. But still, I enjoy occasionally talking to him about the school's upcoming theatre events and such when I see him around campus.

Anyhow, about a month ago I started having these drug crashes in class because the dose of my ADHD medication was too high for me. I totally went insane, became very ill (physically and psychologically) and I had to stay home from school for awhile.

I started getting manic highs and lows, and the drug made me say and do all sorts of stupid, embarassing (nothing dangerous, just silly) things without even thinking and I didn't have any control over myself.

So my dad took me to Jamba Juice one day and we were driving through town when I saw him with a large group of his friends in front of a restaurant. On impulse, I opened the car door, popped my head out and screamed "HI JASON!!!" and slammed the door again. Like I said, I was under the influence of drugs that my doctor shouldn't have prescribed and I was not responsible for my behavior. Still, I'm very embarassed.

I'm scared. Does this mean I can never face him again?

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you can still face him just talk to him and when he does talk to you tell him you are sorry and/or tell him the way you feel. Tell him what is going on with your medication he will understand i know he will. My sister is on ADHD medicine and she does the same things sometimes. Its just a way of life and i know you couldnt help it but maybe he sees how much you care about him.


so im a sophmore and he's a senior.
in high school by the way :)
so, there is this guy, i REALLY like.
and i mean i think he's kinda into me, even though im ALOT younger and all. well only a year and a half, but anyways.
i want him to like me back becuase his x is trying to get back with him. hmmm.
and im not really the slutty type at all so im not going to go do anything like that.
i dunno.
what should i like say to him to make him like me, but be like playfull and flirty, but not like too flirty, you know?
wow that was like a novel :) hah (link)
be yourself around him and if he doesnt like you after that then you shouldnt date him. BUT you have to talk to him, mess with his brain and hope it works.


mkay. so i did them today and im not sure.. it was intense and my body is sore now. i missed most of my shots (dang nerves!) but i did good defense, like always. i didnt try out for the team last year so this was all new to me this year. and i forgot to drink water at first and after running around and doing drills for almost an hour, i was like wheezing. im so dumb i asked for a drink right when they were about to let us get drinks. like i felt really dehydrated and like i might throw up. do you think they'd take that against me.. like i couldnt handle it? when i really just forgot to drink water. and like from that.. like i tried to forget about it before by deep breathing and now like my back where my lungs are kinda hurts. cause im super nervous and they have to cut 7 girls for the team and everyone seems to be a lot better than i am except for like 3 girls. (link)
all i can tell you is exercise and drink water. But extra exercise helps you. They shouldnt hold it against you it wasnt exactly your fault. I mean you didnt know your lungs were going to react like that to all of that pressure right?


My boyfriend always wears a condom and never ejaculates in me... so we're safe right? I know theres a chance but I mean if theres no sperm around me then how could I become pregnant?
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well if he does ejaculate in the condom then you shouldnt get pregnant but if there is a hole in the condom then your screwed.


how do i find nightclubs near me? if i were to look it up in a yellowbook under what headings would i search for?

are they usually for 21+? what about 18 under? (link)
Phone book, probably clubs, yes, no


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Ok well my bf's birthday is comming up and i have no idea what to get him and then i have to buy him something for christmas right after that.
he's not into anything really doesnt do anything so im in desperate NEED of HELP!!

please help me give me ideas. (link)
Get him a liscense plate that matches the color of his vehicle with his nickname on it. OR get him a nice watch. OR some CDs.


If a guy likes a girl, why do their pupils dilate? Is it just a nervous reaction? (link)
It is just a hormone thing kinda. It just happens.


Ok this might sound really weird but i'm a little confused on it ok so is it possible to love someone and want them muchit hurts if you've never even met them if that makes any sense i know thats weird and would you call that obsession (link)
In a way yes but in a way no. If you like someone and you dont really know them then you need to get to know them ask questions, tell them about yourself, and meet them sometime. Phone conversations work to.


OK..
So i've had Sex a few years ago and i guess i'm under age too and none of my friends know... infact NO ONE knows.
The thing is this guy [Sam] at school asked me out and i said yes [i have been out with him before] and it was going well until today at break and i got told by my best friend [that has every lesson with him] that he was gona dump me for this college girl who is really pretty and later that i found out that she has had sex. Now Sam is the knid of guy that would do anything to have a girlfriend who likes action or gives action [e.g sex] so i think that he was gona dump me for someone who has had sex. I dumped him then in the next lesson that i had with him because i didn't want him to dump me. So now i don't know whether i should tell him that i've had sex or just leave it...
But then alot will spill out into the year at school and i will have been the first to have sex... and i'm not poular..
Please help me. I have no idea what to do and i'm just really agry, upset and worried about what i do or don't say...
I'm also sorry that it is long.. :S
Thankyou all in advance. X (link)
I just want you to know that if he is going to do this to you then you dont need him seriously. If nobody knows about you having sex then you dont have to tell them if you dont want to. But if he doesnt already know and he goes around telling everyone about other things then you really dont want to because then the whole school will know and that would definately ruin your life and hurt you really bad. If he wants you only for sex then he doesnt respect you and you deserve much better.




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