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My bgf can't date until his next bday (in may he will be 16) but he and i like each other. he hug and have held hand a couple times and kissed once. the thing is we havent talked for like a week and a half partially cause i lost my cell and he txted me and called but i didnt know but yesterday he called my home but i wasnt home and then he didnt answer anyway today we talked a bit and he came to pick up a paper he need for bio i had copied for him cause he forgot it and he came inside and we talked for a couple min. cause its my bday on sunday and i was like lets do sumthing and he said ok and then wanted to know what i want cause he asked me a month ago or so but i wouldnt tell him. i said sumthing that shows you care i think. anyway we hugged saying bye and then i kissed him. well we both kissed each other but i started it cause i looked at him anyway he works for a christian youth center and that why he cant date cause there staff isnt allowed until they are 16 (weird i know) but i feel super bad cause hes not really suppossed to do that if he cant date. its like we are practically dating only without the commitment. what i want to know is why i am doing this. i feel bad after and i couldnt believe i did but i think i did cause i have thought about it many times before. like if we would kiss again. so i just got used to the idea. i totally acted like he was my bf!!! i think its probably cause i want him to know how much i like him and stuff but im so weird! i was going to ask him how he felt if i dated someone else!!! if i did i would probably end up cheating anyways apparently after THIS. i need lots of opinions and will rate each one!!!!!!!!!! Thank you soooo much! and any tips for NOT doing this! cause i wanted to but not actually! just a whim!!! again thanks!!! ;)
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all you were doing was showing affection for him and that isnt bad and i am NOT being mean but maybe its to early for ya'll to start into a commited relationship maybe you two should wait and let the religious view take over then go to commitment.
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there's nothing wrong with "being together" but not technically going on dates and dealing with parents, the whole thing. many of my friends have kissed, and done more, with more than one guy that weren't their boyfriends. have you ever had a previous relationship? has he? if it's your first time experiencing things, try your hardest to talk with him about these issues, and decide what you want with each other. if you feel like he's someone you trust and feel strongly connected to, you can definitely work it out until may arrives. go ahead, kiss him. it's not wrong if you both like each other and know that you're going to be with each other once he IS technically allowed to date.
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and he cant date either because of his strict christian parents. I think you should just forget about the fact that he can't date because that shouldnt matter if you want to be with someone then you can make it work. Even if hes not allowed.
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