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The other day my brother and I saw a music video but we don't know what song it was!


The video had flying lyrics and they were in a forest. We THOUGHT it was Death Cab for Cutie, but I haven't found anything like that by them.


Help!

Was it
Somewhere Only We Know by Keane?

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I would really like a list of what someone should be able to do, know, have already experienced, inappropriate behavior for that age (things they already grew out of and shouldn't be doing anymore), etc by age 13. Lets make the list for 13 year-old boys.

It can be completely random.

Thank you. =)

Most thirteen-year old boys know what all highschool kids know-just in a different way. They see things as more exciting, and sexual and illegal things are impressive. A few boys probably have already been with a girl- making out, but that's all and they'll try to make it sound like they did a LOT more than just kissing.
They think that being perverted is funny, and find ways to trace everything back to something sexual.

They should be starting to understand responsibilities, and how to act mature.
But there's still a lot of 7 year old in a 13 year old...lots and lots of energy and disconcern for school and chores, etc.
Just a few things to add to the list ^^ haha hope I helped!

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i live in randolph, new jersey (07869) and i need a haircut. i usually go to depasquale but they charge $60 (it's worth it, but it's too expensive). i wanted to know... are there any places near randolph / morristown / denville / rockaway, new jersey that i could get my hair cut for a reasonable price? prohaircutters SUCKS. they cut my hair diagonally and i'm always disappointed. any advice?

estetica in randolph is great.
http://www.merchantcircle.com/business/Estetica.Hair.Design.973-895-5010

i used to get my hair done at depasquale but it was just getting to expensive. i'd gotten my hair cut at estetica before, and i decided to see how they would do. i went and they did my hair exactly right, exactly the same as depasquale for half the price.

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Is Phantom Planet the original artist of "California", or did they just remake it

If they did just remake it, who was the original artist

Thanks!

Yes, it is originally by Phantom Planet on the album The Guest.

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There's a commercial that's been on recently with the song "Holy Night". It sounds like it may be sung by children, it's Enya-like, but I don't know who its by and I want to find out. The commercial has the lyrics "peace on heaven, peace on earth" and that part of holy night. What commercial am i thinking of? Who is the artist of the song?

i meant silent night, not holy night.

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My bgf can't date until his next bday (in may he will be 16) but he and i like each other. he hug and have held hand a couple times and kissed once. the thing is we havent talked for like a week and a half partially cause i lost my cell and he txted me and called but i didnt know but yesterday he called my home but i wasnt home and then he didnt answer anyway today we talked a bit and he came to pick up a paper he need for bio i had copied for him cause he forgot it and he came inside and we talked for a couple min. cause its my bday on sunday and i was like lets do sumthing and he said ok and then wanted to know what i want cause he asked me a month ago or so but i wouldnt tell him. i said sumthing that shows you care i think. anyway we hugged saying bye and then i kissed him. well we both kissed each other but i started it cause i looked at him anyway he works for a christian youth center and that why he cant date cause there staff isnt allowed until they are 16 (weird i know) but i feel super bad cause hes not really suppossed to do that if he cant date. its like we are practically dating only without the commitment. what i want to know is why i am doing this. i feel bad after and i couldnt believe i did but i think i did cause i have thought about it many times before. like if we would kiss again. so i just got used to the idea. i totally acted like he was my bf!!! i think its probably cause i want him to know how much i like him and stuff but im so weird! i was going to ask him how he felt if i dated someone else!!! if i did i would probably end up cheating anyways apparently after THIS. i need lots of opinions and will rate each one!!!!!!!!!! Thank you soooo much! and any tips for NOT doing this! cause i wanted to but not actually! just a whim!!! again thanks!!! ;)

there's nothing wrong with "being together" but not technically going on dates and dealing with parents, the whole thing. many of my friends have kissed, and done more, with more than one guy that weren't their boyfriends. have you ever had a previous relationship? has he? if it's your first time experiencing things, try your hardest to talk with him about these issues, and decide what you want with each other. if you feel like he's someone you trust and feel strongly connected to, you can definitely work it out until may arrives. go ahead, kiss him. it's not wrong if you both like each other and know that you're going to be with each other once he IS technically allowed to date.
hope i helped!

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I'm 100% italian so naturally I'm gonna have dark hair. Anyway my hair is dark brown everywhere! I have dark arm hair [gross] but that i dont really care about it's my stomach. I have gross dark stomach hair! It's nasty!! How can I lighten it up or something to make it less noticeable!?

Please Help!!!

DON'T shave it. after a few years, the hairs become stubbier and thicker. you also have tons more chances of getting nicks and cuts, which aren't gonna be that attractive. try nair, and there's plenty of bleaching productsto use. good luck

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So im 14/f and in 8th grade. Anyway, I want to do my hair nicely for the semi at my school thats coming up. I had medium length brownish/blondish hair. Does anyone have any suggestions? I dont want it too casual, but not too formal (as in a regular prom). Thanks! %

haha i have an 8th grade semi too this friday. i would definetely recomend a half up-do. your hairdresser will pin up some hair in the back of your head (you can ask for accesories such as little jewel bobby pins). for the hair that now isn't up, get it into soft waves. it looks gorgeous and should work well with your hair length and color.

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Well... when yearbook orders went out I missed the deadline :(
Its the end of the year and yearbooks are coming out soon.

Obvioulsly i don't have one for people to sing..
so what are some non-lame ideas for a place for people to autograph (not a shirt or anything.. like a replacement yearbook without the school...)

14/f

that happened to my sister one year, and her friends put together about 10 pages. on the pages there were a few pictures, and lots of space to sign. so maybe just get together with your girls a make that, it'll be fun and you won't have all the endless pages of other grades and teachers, just the people who matter most. hope i helped!

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ok well summer's coming and i really want to lose some of my fat. i'm around 145 and i was hoping to be around 130. i'm not in a rush or anything but i have no idea what workouts to do. so any ideas would help and can you give me some foods that i should AVOID. thanks in advance!

it's so important to completely strip saturated fat, sugar, and high fructose corn syrup from your diet. restrict yourself when you see that cola or candy bar! cardio workouts are great, such as bike-riding or running 30-60 minutes daily. squats are great for butt, lower back, and abs. stand with your feet shoulder length apart and well-squat! crunches are still classic and work great for all abs-but make sure you do twisting crunches (left elbow to right knee, right elbow to left knee) and try doing crunches while kicking your legs out as if you were pedaling a bike. hope i helped!

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my boyfriend wants to have sex.
im cool with it, except for the fact that i have bad tan lines from my bikini.
i LOVE to lay out by the pool and therefore have tan lines. going to a tanning bed is out of the question.

what should i do? im self conscience about my tan lines.

DON'T worry about it. he'll be having too much fun to notice or care. he might even find it super hot...it'll be fine!

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I would really like to listen to some new dance, trance and rave music.

Could anyone recommend any bands?

Thanks, xxx

you've probably already heard of benassi, but seriously- anything by them is awesome and addictive. looove them.

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how do i get rid of these scab things in my head?i only have like 1 idk what it is what shampoo should i use?

I have the same thing actually- It's jsut cause by winter dryness and all that fun stuff.

I've been using Head and Shoulder's-Dry Scalp and its working really well

Hope I helped!

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ok when i try to use my apple gift card for itunes it says this acount has not been used yet for itunes store. what do i do?

You click the redeem button, it's near the free song.


If you're having problem with the code, you have to take the actual card off the gifting part and scratch off the silvery stuff. That's what happened to me- i was putting in the incorrect code.

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15/f me and my boyfriend of went on a break as of yesterday because i keep breaking promises to him. I need some way to prove to him that im not going to do that anymore.. someway to get him back. please help im desperate

don't make promises you can't keep in the first place. and don't be desperate...it was your own fault you broke the promises. it depends who he is and how exactly he feels. if it's meant to be it'll work itself out.

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mmy moms telling me to write a christmas list so she can get me stufff. and i dont really know what i want. i already have cell, ipod, so not those. Some of my list are Make up thing from sephora, juicy Couture accesories,flats. What else shouild i write?? Thanks

There's a genocide in Darfur.
There's children dying and starving in Africa.
Homeless people are freezing in the cities.

Maybe you should donate - money, clothes, food. You have more than you need to live, unlike millions of the other people in the world! Learn not to be so self-centered.


That's my advice.

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Am I missing something? Do most girls lose their virginities by the time they're 16? I'm just amazed, because when I was 12, NOBODY was having sex, or even kissing... and now I hear about 12 year olds having sex! I'm 18, so I'm not THAT old...

I'm just curious...

ew yea there's girls in my grade who have lost at there virginity (7th grade) and i personally think its nasty..i mean dont you wanna save it for a guy that you really care for? guess not...most of the 6th and 7th grade sluts at our school just hook up all the time but not much else..

8th grade is a whole different story im not even gonna get into that. and theyre only 13 and 14.

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Hey i took your advice and finnaly talked to her even though she was ignoring me and it turns out that someone told her i called her a bitch wich ididnt so she was mad sorta about that but mosty cause she didnt know what i was doing by the way the friend was kathryn so now you know who i am:) luv ya thx 4 the help :)

no problem! luv ya more

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well i think you do somewhere in your brain but you have been told lies about me so if i told you u wouldnt give me advice youd accuse me of being the bitchy one(which i wasnt!) :) but im sure you know if you just think about it

hey again! i stil dont know who this is but i dont realyl care. lol i wouldnt change my opinions if i knew who you were, either. your "friend" is being soo obnnoxious i bet shes not seeing that great friend in you! *winks*

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hi its me, the sexy legging wearer. well there are some peopke who make fun of me cause i took ur advise well im nots girl but whats woong with wearing a bra and carrying a purse i no ino lipstick mite be too over done but y do kids have to be so meen i mean whats the dif grls dont have to wear bras all the time i mean camis are awsome but scince guys never wear them i thought i show try it and gice it a chance and it did hide my boobs and pressed them down to my chest and i did get all the girls attention which believe me is never bad news I NEED UR HELP!!

p.s what color eye shadow would go best with my personality??

rainbow..all the way babe

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