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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

advice

If there are any of you who shop at Pac Sun can you tell me what their clothin lines mean?? Like i know billabong is a famous surf team.. But like volcom,and all those others PLEASE!!!

ALL of their clothes are either surf companies or SKATEBOARD companies.

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ok well im 13yr old girl and my boyfriend is 19.is it legal for us to date?or can get get in trouble for anything even though there is no sex involved?

It's illegal. He is endangering the welfare of a minor. Which is what you are. Legal Adult (him) + Legal Minor (you) = Him in jail if anyone finds out. If there was sex involved, there would be even MORE trouble because that is statutory rape (I believe that's how you spell it) which he can be arrested for and serve up to 15 years in prison, if I'm not mistaken. Even though you may be head over heels for this guy, my suggestion is to either end the relationship or keep it on the ULTRA DL.

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iS THiS LEGAL ??

NO! Pirating music or videos is ILLEGAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If you are not paying for it, it is illegal.

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what is a body shot?

Well, depending on which one you mean, it can either be a photograph of a persons entire body, or it's something you do with alcohol. Normally it's done with two people of the opposite sex, or two chicks. Girl lays on bar, other person licks nect and puts sugar on it. Girl on bar puts lime in their mouth and other person licks sugar, drinks a shot of vodka and then takes the lime out of the girls mouth with theirs.

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Is Limewire legal? My friends have been telling me it is, but I'm not so sure.

Any program used to download music and you don't pay for it is ILLEGAL. Your friends are wrong. It's illegal. iTunes and whatever is legal and so is Napster.

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Okay, I don't know what to do. Should I shave my bikini area? I've shaved it before and it was really itchy and painful. I don't know whether it's normal to be shaved or not. Is it?

Yes, it's normal to be shaved down there. 90% of women do shave down there. And yes, it is itchy and painful. But sweetie, beauty is pain. Eyebrow waxes, bikini waxes, squeezing into jeans, tweezing eyebrows. Yeah, being a chick is hard sometimes. But if you shave it every other day and keep moisturizer there, it shouldn't be as bad and you'll get used to it. Use a NEW razor when you do it next time!

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i just peirced my nose myself..how long is it until i can take the earing out of my nose for a while because i cant let my parents soo so im gonna have to take it out when im going to see them. and how should i care for it, i have neosporin on it now so..yeah. thanks.

It takes about 6 weeks for it to heal. Putting neosporin on it IS NOT GOING TO WORK. You're closing your piercing. Keep rubbing alcohol on it. It keeps it clean and open.

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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex


...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am

Alot of times, the first time a girl has sex her hymen (A membranous fold of tissue that partly or completely occludes the external vaginal orifice) will break and causes you to bleed but very minimal. That's what they mean by when you have sex you bleed. This only happens once, but your hymen can break doing anything, riding a bike or a horse, sitting down on a chair, using a tampon, falling... ANYTHING can break it. But often times it breaks when a girl is fingered or has sex.

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I am very concerened. One day i went to my boyfirend house and him and 3 friends were there.and they ad sex with me all 4 of them. i think i am preg nate i got my period tho but like i have sore boobs and morning sickess and whenever i masterbate i like feel ouch al the time. what why uhh im confused!

I would be very concerned if I was you too. My only question is why did you have sex with all four of them? If you got your period, you can't be pregnant. If you were pregnant and got your period, that means that you aborted the fetus. But, there are very few cases where a woman can get her period and remain pregnant. You probably are in pain because of the sex, to be honest and the swollen breasts could be from PMS or from your period, morning sickness is a different story. If you are throwing up in the morning, almost EVERY morning then yes, odds are you are pregnant.

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i've counted up the days after my peirod and i think my boyfriend and i missed my ovulation days by a few days everytime. the last time we had sex and i could have been ovulation would have been on the 2nd of this month. and i took a test yesterday that came up negative. do you think i'll have a positive result later on? or should it have showed up by now?

It would have showed up by now. It takes about 3-5 days to actually GET pregnant (for the sperm to get to the egg and fertilize it blah blah blah) so it would have showed up by now. BUT keep in mind that pregnancy tests are NOT 100% correct. Did you guys use a condom though? If you did, there really isn't much to worry about. It would have showed up by now. But still, wait it out and see if you get your period again, if there is no period, the test was wrong.

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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body ... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

Wear regular jeans, a black t-shirt if you have, black eyeliner and if you have a spiked/studded bracelet wear that too =) But to be honest, it's really not a huge deal what you wear because you shouldn't let what other people at the concert think about you bother you at all. You're just going there to watch your boyfriend and his band and have fun! You could also just wear your regular clothes. Not all people who listen to punk music necessarily dress to fit their taste in music, so I'm sure there would be a few people there who are wearing an Abercrombie or American Eagle shirt or something.

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ok so im the one who was curious about abortion even though there is only a very slim chance i can be pregnent (the boy could have gotten ejaculation on his hands, im not sure then he fingered me)

well, someone mentioned the morning after pill. i can just walk into plan parenthood and they will just give it to me? can someone tell me how it works?

Well, you have to buy it and it's just like taking an asprin. However, I must warn you that the morning after is not a safe pill even though it has been out on the market for a few years now. It killed 2 girls that I know of so far (not ones that I knew personally but I heard about it on the news). Taking the morning after pill messes up your reprodictive system and it may cause you not to be able to have children again. If you walk into planned parenthood ANYWAY, they have a gynocologist there and they will check you out for FREE and give you a pregnancy test for FREE, so instead of going as far as thinking about the pill, just go to planned parenthood and get checked out there.

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"my whole life has changed
since you came in i knew back then
you were that special one..."
--omg that song popped into my head and i like love it but i cant remember who sings it and the name of it! please help!

It's by Ginuwine and it's called Differences

Oh, hey...
Oh, yeah, oh, yeah
To you
Mmm...mmm...mmm...
Oh, yeah, babe

My whole life has changed
Since you came in, I knew back then
You were that special one
I'm so in love, so deep in love

You make my love complete
You are so sweet, no one competes
Glad you came into my life
You blind me with your love, with you I have no sight

Girl, you open me, I'm wide open
And I'm doing things I never do
But I feel so good, I feel so good
Why it takes so long for me finding you

This is my story and I'm telling you
It's not fiction, it's surely a fact
Without you right here having my back
I really don't know just where I'd be at

My whole life has changed (My whole life has changed)
Since you came in, I knew back then (Ooh...oh...)
You were that special one (You were that)
I'm so in love, so deep in love

You make my love complete (You make, make my love
complete)
You are so sweet (Oh, oh), no one competes
Glad you came into my life (Ooh...)
You blind me with your love, with you I have no sight

I analyzed myself, I was buck wild
Never thought about settling down
But all the time I knew I was ready
But not with all my friends around

But girl, I put you first now (I put you first now)
You made me, helped mold me (Helped mold me, baby)
Turned me into a man, I'm so responsible
And I owe it all to you

My whole life has changed (My whole life has changed)
Since you came in, I knew back then (Oh, oh)
You were that special one (You were that special one)
I'm so in love, so deep in love (Oh, oh, oh....)

You make my love complete (You make my love complete)
You are so sweet, no one competes
Glad you came into my life (So glad you came in)
You blind me with your love (Blind me, baby), with you
I have no sight

{God has blessed me} God has blessed me, baby
Girl, He was good to me when He sent you
{I'm so happy, baby}
I'm so happy, I'm so happy, baby, oh, yes, baby
{Share my world} Come and share my world, baby,
oh...whoa...yeah. yeah
{I'm so in love} I'm so in love
I'm addicted to your love, baby, yeah...

My whole life has changed (Oh, yes, I am)
Since you came in, I knew back then (Ooh)
You were that special one (You were that very, very
special one)
I'm so in love (You were that very, very special one),
so deep in love

You make my love complete (You make my love complete)
You are so sweet (Yes, you did, baby), no one competes
(No one competes, oh)
Glad you came into my life
You blind me with your love (Come on), with you I have
no sight

My whole life has changed (My whole life has changed)
Since you came in, I knew back then (You made a
difference in my life)
You were that special one (I knew you were that
special one)
I'm so in love, so deep in love (When I first laid
eyes on you, babe)

You make my love complete (You make my love complete,
darlin')
You are so sweet, no one competes (No one competes,
baby)
Glad you came into my life (No one, no one)
You blind me with your love (No one), with you I have
no sight (Come on)

My whole life has changed (Oh...whoa...whoa...whoa...)
Since you came in, I knew back then

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So, my guy and I went ring shopping today and picked out rings.
The problem is gonna be my mom. He gave me an antique ring on valentine's day almost two years ago, and I've been wearing that one, but we picked one that will be sized to fit my left ring finger. Basically, we are engaged, but we're keeping it quiet until about halfway through college, when it'll be more acceptable to my parents.
This ring kind of looks like an engagement ring, but it's not a diamond. That's the only thing, though it is a single stone, which is symbolic enough. My mom is extremely against my getting married young (we're planning to get married in four or five years, so there's no rush at all, but my mom wouldn't understand that). I'm 17 and he's 19. I'll be 18 in October. Anyway, my mom's gonna freak out when she sees the ring on that finger, and essentially a wedding band on his.
What do I say to her?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down for stupidity.
Thanks in advance. =)

Tell her it's a promise ring. Tell her that you both went out to buy eachother promise rings. A promise ring isn't an engagement ring, it's a ring to symbolize your relationship in a different way. It symbolizes that you two are happily together and that you both promise to stay together and be faithful to eachother. Another thing you can do is to put it on your middle finger (if it fits on that finger) and say you bought it for yourself. My boyfriend bought me a promise ring which looks more like an engagement ring and I had it on my left ring finger and people started saying that I was engaged. I'm 16, and that's young to be getting engaged. So now I just wear it on my middle finger and wear other rings on my ring finger and my thumb. So anyway, you can either tell her that it's an engagement ring or that you bought it for yourself. Best of luck to you!

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if i call a suicide hotline, can they get my number nd like call the cops or sumthing?

Yes they COULD but they won't. They pretty much talk you through things and tell you that everything's gonna be okay. It's like talking to a therapist over the phone basically.

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hey is there any way to delete feedback thats really rude so it doesnt show up on your site? or do you just have to wait until they become old? thanks!!
~*jaimee*~

Go into Edit answers, and then delete your answer. Submit it and then the feedback will be erased. Unless you were a Level 2 or Level 3 mod, you wouldn't be able to do it any other way.

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hi im 13 and i bought this one thong and i havent worn it yet because if i wear it it will have to be washed and if it gets washed my mom will see it and if she does i think i will bein trouble because i dont know if my mom is alright with me wearing thongs. Everyone wears them in my school but idk if my mom will be alright with it and im afraid to ask her. What can i do to wear one without getting in trouble?

Wear it, and after you've worn it wash it in the sink with regular detergent and then have it dry in your bedroom, like in your closet and then you can keep wearing it and your mother will never know unless you bend over infront of her and she sees it hanging out.

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If I finger myself, could I get pregnat? Or could I bleed or anything. I've never fingered myself in my vigina so I'd like to know the main side affects.

I rat high for accurate answers ;)

Your fingers don't contain sperm, so it is IMPOSSIBLE to get pregnant from fingering yourself. Yes, you can bleed if you break your hymen, which is a membranous fold of tissue that partly or completely occludes the external vaginal orifice. So it's like a layer of skin inside your vagina and when you break it, it bleeds but very little.

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Okay, so my boyfriend's mom is moving away soon, and she and I are the same size, so she's been packing up a couple of boxes of clothes to give me. I appreciate it, 'cause she has awesome style and we have similar tastes, but I feel like I should give her something in return. At least something to remember me by.
I love her like a second mom and I'm gonna miss her like crazy.
What do you guys think I should give her? I can knit, but somehow I doubt she'll want a scarf in Florida, lol.
Ideas? She's artistic, she loves colorful things, etc...

For some reason, artistic people LOVE plates. If you go to Pier 1 or even Marshalls and find her a really nice colorful plate set, she would like it. It's also like a house warming present. You could get her nice colorful mugs also. They shouldn't cost that much. Like 3-4 dollars at the most maybe even 6 or 7. But if you get her 4 or 6 of them, it should be a nice gift for her. My two cousins are very artistic and they LOVE plates, my friend collects colorful plates. So, me knowing artistic people, get her plates. Good luck!

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ok how come guys like never call girls?like i dont get it ..its not that hard ..but they allways say they will and never do it..dont say its becuase they dont like you b/c ik cases where guys are liek in love with girls but still dont call..please no stupid answers! 5 to anyone who answers unless its a smart or stupid answer

Because boys are lazy as hell! It takes too much damn energy out of them to pick up the phone and dial 7 or 11 digits. Either that or they're too busy staring at the computer screen or playing X Box or PS2. And another thing, boys have a tendancy to forget things quite easy. All that staring at a TV or Computer screen kills their brain cells.

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