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How long does it take until i get people to ask me some questions? (link)
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Just keep answering questions from the pool. Every once in a while someone will ask me a question. A lot of the time it's rooted from a question they asked from the pool. They saw my advice, and wanted to give me more information about their problem.
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can i answere my own questions????? (link)
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Yes, you can. I don't see why anyone would want to though, unless they want to get good ratings the easy way. But that kind of defeats the purpose, doesn't it?
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Whats cotton mouth? (link)
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It's another way of saying "Dry Mouth". Your mouth becomes almost completely absent of saliva, and what saliva you do have becomes foam.
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ok i am in love im sure of it i can imagine getting married to this kid and stuff. but he completely screwed me over. we were going out for a month... i gave up everything for him too like my friends, family, the first guy to give a shit about me, and even skool a little... and then he moved in w/ a friend to go to this skool that would give him a chance. i was happy for him and he made me feel confident that things wouldnt change to much. but well... they did.. a lot. i proly talked to him 2 in 3 months after he moved and i heard all this shit about him cheating right... well i finally gave up and stuff. but i still cant stop wondering about him and the one time i saw him he was at the mall w/ his arms wrapped around another girl and he like ran from me (proly afraid id kick his ass) anyways... i still love him! i kno we could never be together now and that he is a total ass for abandoning me... but i cant help it!! (link)
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Almost everyone feels this way at some point in time. The trick is finding a way to start looking for other guys. I advise you to start talking to some guys more. After which you will start thinking of other guys more, which will lead to desiring to date other guys.
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (link)
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It's another way of arguing who loves whom more. It's a good thing, because you both think a lot of each other.
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i dont know what is wrong with me i can literally jsut finish a meal, and want to eat again.. i have been diagpnised with mild depression does that have anything to do with this? Please help me i think i am geting really... fat.. i weigh 135 pounds and i just hate how i look..
please lend me some friendly advice..
~*~cj~*~ (link)
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Yes, depression can have something to do with it. And 135 isn't too much. Try eating a lot of healthy foods, and then do some exercises. Several of my friends tell me that physical activity is supposed to help make you happier. I'm not really sure I believe that, but it's worth a shot. Take care, I'm sure you'll be fine.
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i dont no what to do anymore my best friend she seems like shes not my best friend anymore.i am in 7th grade, but anyway it seems like she never wants to do anything wit me any more. HELP ME PLEASE. (link)
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At your age, a lot of people change. They start joining different social groups, and sometimes abandon old friends. It's sad, but my advice to you is to try to hang out with your other friends more, or make new friends. If someone is interested in the same thing you are, talk to them about it.
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ok im 14 and going to be a freshman. i really like this guy still that i went out w/ for 4 months (which is a loooong time for me) at the beging of last year. i broke up w/ him cause i found this other guy who i thought i loved he ended up screwing me over, but anyway i hurt this guy a lot when i broke up w/ him. we couldnt even talk to each other for like 3 months. now we r really close friends and we have recently admitted we like each other still. but i dont know if i should go out w/ him because... well... im afraid im going to hurt him again. i have a problem w/ comitment i guess. (link)
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If you have commitment issues, I wouldn't date him. It took him 3 months to recover last time, who knows how long, or if he'll recover this time. If you do decide to date him, make sure it's going to last, it sounds like you don't want to lose him as a friend.
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How do I help a runaway whose parents are verbally abusive, and I thing are overall crazy! Her parents are longtime friends of mine but their style of discipline seems crazy. The child in question ("SUE"), is 17 and is basically a great kid. She's mannerable and has just started to show interest in boys. She was adopted by my friends when she was around 5 years old after being abandoned by her natural mom in a homeless shelter. She has adjusted well overall but I can understand that she has to deal with the past in her mind as well as deal with the problems of growing up. They have changed the locks and told the other kids in the house not to let her in but they tell me she was not put out! What do you call that? THey refuse to let her get any clothes and went to her job and got her last paycheck so she relies solely on me (which I don't mind). I took her home because they tricked me into thinking I could get some items and they blocked the door and took her! I could hear them shouting, calling her names, and now I fear that they have taken her to a receiving home. I am DEVASTATED!!! I hate that they are doing this to her and feel helpless. I also feel guilty that I actually believed them only to be tricked and now she is suffering. What should I do or could I do? (link)
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If they are abusive, I would report them. I would never try reasoning with them again, they sound unbalanced. Try any means possible to get her out of the house.
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Okay, my room has been essentially the same way since 6th grade, and I'm gonna be a senior in the fall. I can't paint or wallpaper my room because my mom's allergic to all the paints and all the wallpaper glues. I also have a bit of a budget problem. My dad's unemployed and my mom can't work because of her allergies. I just can't seem to get a job because there's nothing around here that's hiring.
Anyone have any ideas as to what I could do to this place? My bed has to be against an outer wall...if it isn't, my dad's snoring, like, shakes the bed.
(Laugh if you want; it's funny, but it's also true. It sucks.)
Help me out?
-Siren ^_^ (link)
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Try a collage on your walls. I'm sorry if that sounds stupid, but I'm an artist, so I think it might be cool. I just filled my walls with artwork.
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How do I get over a guy?!? I thought I didn't like him, so I pushed him away. Now everytime I talk to him, I think I want to be with him. idk what to do. (link)
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Well, I know how the guy feels. It would be helpful if you told him how you felt. I've been in his shoes before, and I would have wanted nothing more than for the girl to tell me how she really felt instead of making me guess. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, or is in a relationship, at least then you can start to get ovewr him.
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ok what is the in color for hair? blonde or brown ? i am a blonde right now but it is a died blonde some ppl like it and some dont i think i look a little better as a blonde but i dont know cuz i did have brown hair with blonde highlights but i have blue eyes and i think the blonde brings them out more but i just want to know what is the in color for hair? (link)
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I prefer darker hair. But it really depends on your face. Without seeing it, I can't make an accurate opinion.
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I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused. (link)
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He might be dating someone this soon to make you jealous, guys are a**holes like that. You guys dated for 9 months, so you shouldn't have any regrets.
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Alright, there's this guy who goes to my friends Church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well a few weeks ago at a concert my friend Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time... All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something.) Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him...and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type. So my friend kind've just left it at that. Well lately I've been noticing him looking at me more and stuff. Like one sunday he turned around and I didn't notice this but my friend Andrew told me Collin was checking me out. So what I want to know is do you think he likes me and... if he does why did he completely turn the tables like he did.. Why did he tell Crystal one thing and Aaron another??
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Well, if he said that he isn't your type, it means he's afraid to make a move. He likes you. He's more comfortable saying it to a guy friend than a girl he doesn't know very well on the internet.
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Hey thanks for your advice =)
it's just so hard.. have you dated someone that long? I mean do you know how it feels to go from a year and something and then to just be lonely? (link)
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I haven't had the privilege of a long term relationship in several years. I've just been breaking hearts and getting my heart broken. It seems like every girl who seems to like me, I don't feel the same way or I find out when it's too late. Every girl I fall in love with doesn't feel the same way. Recently, I started to develop feelings for some of my best friends, but 1 said that because we're best friends they fear damaging our relationship if we dated. The other girl is the one who lied and started dating the other guy. Which question of yours did I answer, I answered a few that concerned love.
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I'm 16 years old and technically a virgin.
I have tried to sleep with my boyfriend but he keeps losing his erection and we used a condom each time we tried.
His penis has definitely come into contact with my vagina whilst unprotected but there was no penetration or attemt at it.
I don't know exactly when my period was due but it is definitely late.
I'm hoping that it's just exam stress or something (I finished my exams 10-06).
Please tell me I'm not pregnant.
What should I do? (link)
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I don't think you are, but since ejaculation can occur at almost anytime, and you're not sure of the date, there's a slight chance. I would definately take the test to make sure.
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im 14 and i really want to have a baby. every where i look all i can see is babys. i no im to young but can ne 1 help me plz (link)
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I would get a pet. Babies are a handful and require a hell of a lot of attention, so not only suck up every little bit of social life you have, but also get in the way of work and school.
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ok im really in love with htis boy jon we talk on the phone a lot and we go ot the movies together and i have told him that i love him and he says he likes me to but he likes another girl and he doesnt wanna go out with neither of us cuz he doesnt wanna break eachothers heart but he has almost broken my heart because he wont go out with me i have been crying over him and i know that he is the one but i just dont know how to get him to go out with me! i am much prettier than the other girl but he just doesnt see how much im in love with him ... iv tried moving on but he is just ther and i want him so bad.. how do i get him to fall in love with me or whatever cuz i dont know what to do.. help me someone (link)
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You can't change anyone like that without manipulating them. And I would never advise someone to do that. Sorry. You already did the best thing you could do by telling him how you feel. I know how hard that is. Hopefully you'll find some confort in knowing I am going through the exact same thing with a girl I like, except she started dating the other guy a couple of weeks after she said she wouldn't date either of us. And the other guy is in no way better than me, just like the other girl isn't as attractive as you. Everyone has different tastes. I think you should just try to think of him less, and try to think of other guys. I know it's very hard, this girl I'm talking about is one of my best friends. He has already told you he likes someone else, so I definately wouldn't pursue him. He sounds like a great guy though.
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I have this one friend who is really hard to be friends with but i love her and she's great to have around. The thing is, she doesn't mea her sorryz. Like, she'll ignore me, i'll tell i don't feel good being ignored, she'll say sorry, and go back to ignoring me. And please don't tell me to make any drastic measures like stop being her friend. (link)
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That's probably just the type of person she is. If it really bothers you, tell her it bothers you. Maybe what you were saying didn't interest her. If it just kind of annoys you, accept it and hope she grows out of it.
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how do you know that your really in love? and how do you know its love when you find someone and tell them you love them? (link)
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There are different meanings for the word love. You love your friends, your parents, and your boy/girlfriend in different ways. Many people confuse love for a crush. When someone feels a rush of feelings and can't stop thinking about someone they see but don't know very well, then it's a crush. I don't believe in love at first sight, but people have fallen in love with the person they're crushing over. Usually, if you find yourself constantly thinking about a person, and you love who they are, and if you didn't have feelings for them you'd still probably be their friend, you're probably in love. Most teenagers date whoever they crush on because of the way they look, or if they have something in common. But when you fall in love, it's something entirely different, and much stronger. You'll know it when you feel it.
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