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i donno what to do
ok im really in love with htis boy jon we talk on the phone a lot and we go ot the movies together and i have told him that i love him and he says he likes me to but he likes another girl and he doesnt wanna go out with neither of us cuz he doesnt wanna break eachothers heart but he has almost broken my heart because he wont go out with me i have been crying over him and i know that he is the one but i just dont know how to get him to go out with me! i am much prettier than the other girl but he just doesnt see how much im in love with him ... iv tried moving on but he is just ther and i want him so bad.. how do i get him to fall in love with me or whatever cuz i dont know what to do.. help me someone
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I am sure that you know that you have to respect his decision .If he doesn't want to be with you, then that's that . IT MAY SOUND HARSH, BUT IT'S TRUE . Atleast, he's trying to spare u and this other girl from getting hurt . This means that he does care about u, but he is also inticipating another girl which he isn't sure about . You may think that he is the one 4 u now but, u have the rest of your life and plenty of men who are waiting 4 young women like yourself . It's not going to be easy , but it's a bit obvious that he doesn't want to be with U . AND U SHOULDN'T HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR HIM TO BE WITH U BECAUSE IF YOU HAVE TO DO THIS 4 HIM, THEN
(1) HE'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO ACCEPT YOU 4 U.
(2) HE DOESN'T DESERVE U IF U HAVE TO CHANGE YOURSELF 4 HIM.
(3) SOMTEIMES THEY LIKE U LESS WHEN YOU REALLY AREN'T BEING CONTENT WITH YOURSELF WHEN IT'S OVER A GUY . THEY MAY FIND IT COOL, BUT IT REALL IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS .
SO ARE U GOING TO WAIT OR MOVE ON . REALLY, THE ANSWER IS ALWAYS LEFT UP TO U . I THINK U NEED TO MOVE ON, BUT i THINK U
SHOULD FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!
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If you are in love with a guy before you even have a relationship, then you are going to scare the poor guy away. You need to hold onto your emotions a little more. Guys don't like girls that want a commitment after the first date, of after first sight for that matter. Being obsesive about someone is not healthy. And you can't make someone fall in love with you. If he doesn't want to go out with you, then he is not the one for you. You deserve someone that is in love with you as well.
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You can't change anyone like that without manipulating them. And I would never advise someone to do that. Sorry. You already did the best thing you could do by telling him how you feel. I know how hard that is. Hopefully you'll find some confort in knowing I am going through the exact same thing with a girl I like, except she started dating the other guy a couple of weeks after she said she wouldn't date either of us. And the other guy is in no way better than me, just like the other girl isn't as attractive as you. Everyone has different tastes. I think you should just try to think of him less, and try to think of other guys. I know it's very hard, this girl I'm talking about is one of my best friends. He has already told you he likes someone else, so I definately wouldn't pursue him. He sounds like a great guy though.
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