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hi; i'm haleigh and an eighteen year old college student at keiser university with a major in crime scene technology. i'm naturally blonde, i'm not super skinny, and i'm way too pale. i almost always screw things up and i'm nowhere near perfect. i've begun to accept myself for who i am and i'm not going to change for anyone. i was born in ohio and there are times that i miss it there. i love animals, i have four cats and two dogs. i hate spelling errors and chances are i'll correct you if you spell something wrong. my favorite television show is ncis and my favorite movies are rent, twilight, and jawbreaker. i don't read very often, but my favorite series is the twilight saga. i love the internet and i'm probably online more than i should be. i've been single for almost two years, and i hate it. my major celebrity crush at the moment is michael weatherly. i've been through more than anyone my age should have to go through, and there are very few people that i will tell about it. i can come off as a bitch, but if you get to know me and don't lie to me, i can be an amazing person. trust doesn't come naturally for me and it's hard for me to let people in completely. i'm just an average teenage girl trying to get by. if you want to know anything else about me, just ask!

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i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!

please help!!

-britski-

Try painting it Hot Pink and Splatter black on it...Or just paint one wall black and splatter it with hot pink then do the rest of your room hot pink...

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Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :)

Dance, Karaoke

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I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss?

NYI

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Hey I was just wondering what kind of shampoo's work the best, I wanna have a nice, straight look with not that many frizzy's if its possible.. lol thanks!

I use Pantene Pro-V Sleek and Smooth

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There have been questions about hickeys on here, but what exactly are they?

Little red spots you get when a guy kisses you or sucks your skin(like kissing)

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i had unprotected sex a week ago and now i have my period...could i still be pregnant?

No because you would miss your period if you were....

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I am twenty one years old and have been married for over a year. My husband and I recently discovered that we are pregnant. Though it wasnt planned, we are both very excited and happy about it. So is everyone else... my friends, my family, even my mom. Everyone, except for my father.

When I told him the news, he was completely shocked, which I could understand. I called a few days ago to see how he's doing, and he said some very mean things that made me pretty upset. I dont understand this reaction, because he also got married and started a family at a young age.
Its been about two weeks since we broke the news to him, and he just seems to be sad and disappointed in me.

I just want my dad to accept this and to be happy for us, but at the same time I dont understand why I am so strongly seeking his approval.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

I think that your Dad is being immature because he should be happy for you, you are his daughter and you are about to have a baby of your own and I think that he should get overhimself and be happy for you
Congratulations!

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can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something?

It is probably PMS

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ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him?

No because then he will probably break up with you but if he asks I would admit it....

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my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already.

I think that maybe you shouldn't tell them but not lie to them either...if tey find out then I would admit it but I usually keep it to myself unless my mom finds out but usually she doesnt and she doesnt care that I have a b/f but good luck

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I don't know what to do..im not fat.. but im going to be someday if i continue my eating habits... i wake up in the morning and I say okay no junk food 2day.. but by the end of the night im eating a bowl of ice cream.. or i hate a whole bunch of peanuts or sumthing.. i try to maintain my wait by drinking alot of water but im afraid thats not going to be enough to keep me the way i am... I bike ride with my friends sometimes... and i only go to the gym when my mom wants to but she hardly goes... i dunno what to do.. how i can tell myself that im not going to eat junk food and actually stick with it!.. plus i think i eat out of boredum.. how can i stop that...( i mean im sitting in front of the tv and i automatically go into the kitchen for food)

I do that too but I try to stop myself when I do...

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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?

Not if you are in love..my dad is 52 and my mom is 37 so...

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Okay lets start with this...we moved down from ohio to florida 2 years ago....okay anyway my moms best friends brother who was my moms first love died on thursday unexpectedly and they were supposed to come down here and now they probably wont and so we were going to go up there but my mom can not figure out a way for us to...my moms car will over heat so we can't take it my grandparents will not let us take their car because they say we trash everything and we do not have enough money to blow on a rental car or airplane ticket and now I will not be able to see them again till like next summer and i have been looking forward to them coming down here for a yearr and now they are not even coming and we can't figure out how we can get somewhere half way or all the way.
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Haleigh Ann

Thanks everyone for your advice but we went to priceline.com and got cheap tickets

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I was wondering if you'd add me to your site?? If you want me to do the same then just ask! I'd be happy!

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Okay sure and plz add me too

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do u hav ur period at all when ur pregnant...like u dont gt ur period all nine months? or juss one missed period?? how much r abortions and where do u get thtem done?? *IM NOT PREGNANT!! i thought i was about a year ago bc my period was late and i got it and turned out i wasnt pregnant..but i was s0o0o desperte and i idnt know wat ot do so i was juss wonderin how much it wulda costed and if u wulda needed a parent wid du to do it*

I don't know because i don't believe in abortions read this poem and you will see partialy why

Six weeks old today mummy
A birthday gift to me
A Pair of Big blue eyes thru one day i would see
Where are we going mummy
with the rain splashing down
When it hits the sidewalk it makes a funny sound
BANG thru big white doors
With people dressed in green
If they hurt you mummy just run away and scream
Help me mummy they are tearing me apart
There goes My big blue eyes
There goes my little heart
I love you mummy believe me I do
But the worst thing is I thought you loved me too

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Haleigh Ann
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What are some good sex website that show you like positions and ways to spice it up?

Just try a google search

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i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!

Just tell her how you feel and if she truly is your best friend she will understand...

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Okay herr it goes.. My best friend is haveing a swimmin party at her house. On the same day i get my peroid. It would be my 2nd period ever so is therr a good chance i won't get it cause i'm not on a regualr cycle.. or ami most likely to get it? i'm a pad wearer.. i'm swichin to tampon in bout a year or so..so i really done wanan try 1 but i have to go kuz she's my best friend.. wut do u all think..
Signed,
Help!

Help,

I know what you mean I have had my period for almost 2 years but I can't wear tampons and it sucks but I would ask your mom what she thinks you should do

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What is neglachay? Is it like lingerie or undergarments?

Yeah Womens lingerie

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sum1 said that my questions wouldnt get dleted but they are therez no second pg after i had so many sum 1 plz tell me wuts going on. under your questions i dont think thats supose to get deleted!!

I don't know do you mean the questions you asked or the questions you answered? Here is the list of why questions are deleted
Answers to Questions That We Delete
Here's a list of the most common questions that get deleted, along with the answers we would have given to them had they made it. Most of the questions are just flat-out annoying or innappropriate, others are repeated so often we can't stand them anymore.
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1. I wrote this poem tell me if it's good!
Please do not post your poetry here. If you need advice on how to be a poet or launch your poetry career, that's okay, because this is an advice site. But it's not an opinion site. Try going to Your-Poetry.com or search for poetry forums.
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2. who are you voting for in the election?!
Questions about political beliefs, our favorite colors, or where we live have nothing to do with advice. We'd suggest posting on MisterPoll if you just want lots of opinions on something that has nothing to do with your life.
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3. am I fat?
that's a question for Am-I-Fat.com! There's also this simple Am I Fat? Quiz For Teens that might help you out.
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4. there's this guy/girl I like. what should I do?
Well, if you think even a little bit that they might like you back, tell them about it. Nothing really direct, just, "I think you're really cool and wish you were my boyfriend/girlfriend because we'd have a great time." If you're not sure, or too chicken to tell them, just try to be the best friend you can be and go with it. Being friends is pretty cool all the time, and it keeps you open to all possibilities.
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5. how do I know if this guy/girl likes me?
Are they willing to carry on complete conversations with you? Then they like you enough. Really, the other person's emotions never matter as much as your own, which you can control.
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6. how do I change the size of my boobs/legs/butt/whatever)?
most of that is related to the DNA you were born with, so there's no way to change it, sorry. No magic cream makes your boobs bigger. No magic pill will give you a bigger penis. If anything does both, we're a little worried. Chances are nobody cares anyway. Girls don't care about penis size, guys don't care about boob size (unless they're shallow assholes). If you're 14 none of that stuff is going to stay the same until you're like 22 (I'm serious) so keep hope alive and concentrate on improving your mind instead of dwelling on appearance.
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7. how can I be better at kissing/french kissing/masterbating/giving head, etc.?
There are a million other websites on this. Try searching for whatever you want to do, like if you want to give good head, search for "how to give good head". If you're insecure about your kissing skills, search for "be a better kisser". Again, it's not one of those issues you should dwell on a whole lot. Anyone your with should be so happy to be getting head or kissing you that it doesn't matter



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