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Question Posted Tuesday July 27 2004, 9:55 pm

my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already.

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Additional info, added Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:23 pm:
forget about it everyone. we broke up. :`-( thanks for your help, i love you all..

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XoCrYsTaLoX answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 11:01 pm:
you really need to tell your boyfriend that he needs to tell his parents cuz there gunna find out sooner ot later exspecially if there already suspiouse and if they find out on there own then they will get madder then if yall tell them!

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x3sweetbabiigrlx3 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:24 pm:
is he not aloud to have a girlfriend?


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xbella_47 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:22 pm:
well h0ney, y0u can`t keep lyinq t0o his parents.. all i can saii` is qive it time, his parents will learn t0 accept it
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DrAnqel answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:12 pm:
you needa tell this guy that he needs to tell his parents! if they dont approve of you, then you needa get to know them better, maybe the 4 of you should go to dinner or something? it will be a lot less awkward for your boyfriend and his parents if everyone was comfortable with the two of you going out. Hope I helped! -Dr. Anqel

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LilMia811 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:08 pm:
You will have to tell them then. And if they can't deal with it, then oh well. They really can't make you guys break up, even if they tried, you will try to see eahother anyway. So just relax.

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goodgurl answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:06 pm:
r you 2 not alllowed to be dating or wat e-mail me wat you mean at maytuff1@wallmartconnect.com

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Ask_Anything answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:03 pm:
its pretty common. boys tend to have it harder when telling their parents, because they cant express their emotions as well as girls. make sure this isnt an excuse to get out of a relationship he isnt ready for yet... if the relationship cant further on, why not have him ask his parents when it WILL be okay. this could give you a clue to how long you could become really really good friends (practically bf/gf)... but this def. isnt a fun time... and because i know who sent this, im here for anything you need... as i always am. no parents can restrict our friendship, i promise.

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charmed-cherry21 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:03 pm:
I think that maybe you shouldn't tell them but not lie to them either...if tey find out then I would admit it but I usually keep it to myself unless my mom finds out but usually she doesnt and she doesnt care that I have a b/f but good luck

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volcombabe answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:02 pm:
i know how you feel. my mom did the same to me. but after a month or so, we got back together and my mom was lightening up a bit. give it some time, and if nothing works out after a while, maybe it wasnt meant to be. and if it wasn't, theres someone so much better for you, and his parents will accept you. no matter how crazy that seems.

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KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:02 pm:
they are going to find out sooner or later!! so i would just tell them and show them that you guys are responsible together and that they should trust you and that there is no reason that you guys shouldnt be together!! good luck!! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota

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Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:01 pm:
You've gotta talk to them before they figure it out for sure. You and your boyfriend should sit down TOGETHER with his parents and tell them the truth. Ask them not to interrupt while you two tell them your situation, and then tell them that you're willing to break up if they insist you do so (they'd think this is horribly mature and probably wouldn't make you break up!), but that you'd really rather not because [insert reasoning here].
Do his parents just think he's too young? He needs to prove to them that he's mature enough, then.
I really hope everything works out! If you need more help, don't hesitate to ask.
-Siren =)

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