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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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wat do u mean you did it! like wat did you do to it?

tada! i did it!... dude what are talking about? i didn't do shit.

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im thinkin i want a guy thats a year or two older than i am because that way hes not so immature and hopefully not as prude... but then again.. i dont wanna be made fun of or called a whore for the stupid things ppl will assume.. so i guess i could go for a guy my age.. but isnt it more important what i want then what my friends think... please help! i rate well! x0x0x ~*a*M*y~

who cares hwat people think... age is just a number.. if you like him go for him.

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Well for the past 5 years my dog and I have been exclusively seeing eachother, but lately he has been acting strange. He barely notices me, and lastnight i was spying on him and saw him sneaking out the doggie door. do you think he is cheating on me, or has decided to leave me for one of his own kind?

really your dog... my cat did that shit to me too... isn't it a small world?

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hi im 13/m. i think i am a woamn trapped in a mans body. i want to get a sex change and then date other women. so basically i want to be a gay trans sexual. i also like to do it to animals sometimes. i used them for practice. how do i explain about my sexuality to my family?

umm yeah you are screwed

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I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.

Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...

I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.

What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught"

go and tell people... you cant spend the rest of your lives sneaking around... who cares what people think, hes your man not anyone elses and what he does doesn't seem to bother you

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my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl)

so then dont be her friend, the bitch is jocking your style anyway, whowa ntes to be a friend with someone like that

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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..

what do you mean he is expecting it? if you dont wanna do that shit then dont. if he doesnt like ti then too bad

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My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!

dont go for him... it will ruin your friendship with your friend... trust me you dont wanna do that

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I am TOTALLY obssed with this boy named brian.He has a girlfriend,which happends to be a very good friend of mine.She told me that i could go out with him.But then she dumped him and now she is going back out with him.She told me she is going out with him because she doesnt wanna make him feel bad.I think thats weird.So i told him.he doesnt belive me OF COURSE!!How should i make them brake up beacuse of that ?
IM me on aim- Andrea8o6

Well I think it is weird that your friend told you that you could go out with her man. she probably still wants to be with him. dont break them up.

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Im not actually that big... im 5'3 - 5'4 about 135-140 pounds with musclular legs. I just need to loose some waist and thigh fat.

Is there any simple exercises I can do to loose inches in these areas??

go running... run like the wind... run Forest run! .... lol but forreal running really make you loose wight.

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hey im haveing trouble with my boyfriend me and him keep fighting and hes like he loves me but then fights with me can u help me out ?

~diamond~ 17

guys are just stubborn like that... they like to start shit for no reason... dont really stress it.. if it really bothers you, just laugh in his face instead of arguing back... that will really piss him off lol :)

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I had sex 5 days ago, and im still bleeding from it. at first i thought maybe it was just my period, so i treated it as that. my period only lasts for 4 days, so i dont think its that.

Is there something i could have had torn during sex that would cause me to bleed this long?

go see a doctor

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how do i get a music thing on my xanga webiste?

umm... 4real you cant... that shit was annoying so they stopped it... sucks for you huh?

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Hey what is the best make-up for back to school?like what is the best
cover up/foundation/powder
eyeshadow
lip gloss
eyeliner
mascara??????????help!!!plz!!i rate:-]

try avon... i love avon

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wat is a MODERATOR and how do u become 1?? r there certain requirements???

i'm not sure but i heard you have to be really good at baking cookies

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how many sheets are in a toilet paper roll? i always wondered everytime i use the bathroom

i think you need to learn to wipe your ass better you stupid bitch.... sorry i had to act like i didn't know you lol

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There's this one guy who I am completely obsessed with. To be honest, I don't know why. This guy is very..confusing. Like, majority of the time he's real sweet, but then for like 1 week...he'll be the biggest asshole. And, I wish so bad that I could just leave him behind. But I can't, I always think about him, whether he treats me badly or not. What am I supposed to do?

leave him alone he is messing with your head... tell him if he wants to play, go play with himself :)

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okay i went to this camp acouple weeks ago, and met this totallly awesome guy. we ended up liking eachother. we kept in touch for acouple 2 weeks after camp. but then i went away for another week, and when i came back we just never talked. its okay with me. im way into the "play hard to get" thing. but he finally texted me acouple nights ago. then he IMed me on aim the next day. and theres a church festival tomorrow that we are both going to [we goto the same church]...and i dont know how to make it obvious that im still interested cause im sooo used to not being tha one who makes the hints, etc cause i ALWAYS play hard to get...help =]

well if you keep playing hard to get he is neevr gonna know you are interested in him, so go up to him and spark up a conversation

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I need to know who sings that song

" I don't wanna be anything other than
what I been tryin to be lately . All
I can do is think of me as a peace of
------- . I'm tired of lookin 'round
thinkin about what I gotta do or who I'm
supposed to be . I don't wanna be anything
other than me".

It's the song off of 'One Tree Hill'

I sing it... dont i sound lovely?

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okay i love singing and i sing alot... i think i have a good voice.. and so do most of my friends.. i dunno if i should risk it and try out for a talent show. or sing at a party.. im worried ill mess up>... should i risk it.. or just sing when im just with me and my best budies?

if you really think you got it like that, then go for it. Relax and have fun! Good Luck! :)

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