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im 15 and i have a girlfriend and i slipped my penis into her vagina and took it out... can she get pregnant. (link)
if you didnt let sperm in her, no chance of pregnancy


ok so like 3 days ago i was with this boy and we somewhat had sex but he didnt really stick it in. i mean i didnt want him to get hard cause we had no protection so he didnt and he barely stuck it in. we left. then yesterday there was a couple dots of blood down there and this is that time of the month for me. then i put a pad on and i have not leaked i mean its clean. completely. everyone keeps asking me if im pregnant and i say no but i dont know what to do. (link)
your probably most likely not pregnabt. you normally get pregnant betwen periods (or, 2 weeks after your period) maybe your period is a little late. just in case, you should take pregnancy tests/ask a doctor.

but even though your probably not pregnant, theres a chance


Can somebody please list any way you can think of to prevent throwing up and stomach aches? (link)
you cant relly prevent it, but you can take medicine that can HELP not getting them as much.


whats that song that goes "she is everything you want shes everything you need, she is everything inside of you that you wish you could be, she says all the right things & exactly..etc" lol i dont even know if those are the right words but me and my friend were singing that in art the other day and i was wondering what it was called lol
thanks (link)
Vertical Horizon "Everything You Want."

these are the correct lyrics:

Somewhere there's speaking
It's already coming in
Oh and it's rising at the back of your mind
You never could get it
Unless you were fed it
Now you're here and you don't know why

But under skinned knees and the skid marks
Past the places where you used to learn
You howl and listen
Listen and wait for the
Echoes of angels who won't return

Chorus:
He's everything you want
He's everything you need
He's everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
He says all the right things
At exactly the right time
But he means nothing to you
And you don't know why

You're waiting for someone
To put you together
You're waiting for someone to push you away
There's always another wound to discover
There's always something more you wish he'd say.

Repeat Chorus:
But you'll just tight
And watch it unwind
It's only what you're asking for
And you'll be just sit tight
With all of your time
It's only what you're waiting for.

Out of the island
Into the highway
Past the places where you might have turned
You never did notice
But you still hide away
The anger of angels who won't return

Chorus:
I am everything you want
I am everything you need
I am everything inside of you
That you wish you could be
I say all the right things
At exactly the right time
But I mean nothing to you and I don't know why
And I don't know why, why I don't know.

[[http://www.geocities.com/gmedina_2/everythingyou.html]]


ok soo i want to get highlights really bad. my hair is like, meduim brown and boring i want to get like, a lighter brown or a chestnut/red color. thing is, my mom wont let me. she does, so i dont know what the big deal is. i guess its because they're too expensive? so i was wondering if there were any kinds you can buy that are inexpensive and easy to do and come out good not all crappy and gross? also, how can i convince my mom to let me? thanks (link)
if you buy them from groceries stores, do garnier. theyre only like 5-8 dollars; not too much. if you do it correctly, theyll turn out nice.


I started my first period when i was 15 years old and i am now 18 and in between those time periods, i have only had at least 5-6 periodd. but during the early years it was very heavy. The only thing that I think that may cause the delay is me being overweight. what is wrong with me? and what can i do? (link)
you can take pills to regulate your periods. keep in mind that in can tka e up to 2-4 years to have a regulated period. ask your doctorwhat kind of pill is best for you


Is it normal for the thought of touching your own vagina to gross you out? (link)
yea its COMPLETELY normal :)


There is a pic of mine that I want uploaded on my advicenators page. I have resized it as small as it will go which is a 3 1/2 x 2 which is a wallet size and still I get the message: You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded.
What can I do to fix this? (link)
dont resize it uploading is screwed up on here.
upload it onto a photobucket, tiny pic, yahoo photos, etc, and then do the url link. you caan keep it biggish that way


I'm almost 15, and I want to get a summer job this summer. Any companies that hire at 15? (link)
mncdonalds and burger kind do, as well as other fastfood restauransts, so do libraries, and then you can perform neighborhood services such as babysitting, yard work, and other jobs


okay.. so my hair is curly/wavy by nature
so when I go to school I always straighten it in the morning.

BUT now we have this school fieldtrip thing, means we go camp in tents for 5 days.

normally I was my hair everyday, But if I now was my hair I get curly/wavy hair because I can't bring my straighter along.

ARE there ANY other ways of straightening your hair without using an straighter or blow-dryer.. because I can't use like.. 'machines' if that makes sense..

REPLY PLEASE I RATE 5'S FOR ANY GOOD ANSWERS!!

FIELDTRIP IS TOMORROW
thanks!! (link)
you can buy a battery powered straightener. they are hard to find.

there are also some products that will alow you to keep your hair straight for a few days, but im not sure about 5


would you be able to give me a few good modeling agencies? (link)
Dear Friend,

I'm sorry, it's so hard to say not knowing your specifics. Try Googling your city name and 'modelling agencies'. I'm sure a fair few will turn up, and this way you'll have a wider range of choice.

Happy hunting,

Ainsley.


does anyone know a website BESIDES tinypic.com or how to get where i can put two pictures on top of eachother like this

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=15585195&MyToken=bb642810-cb0d-4bc0-9a8c-9a0f220d48f7 (link)
if you have paint, you get 2 picstures you would like, and you change the borders by using the mouse to pull them down more. then pull up the screen of the otherone you would like and do select all, copy, and go to the other one and do paste. this might be a littl ehard, so if you want me to walk you through it, just leave a quiestiomn in my inbox


how can you play "hard to get" with a guy i mean i kind of know the concept of it but i really dont know how to do it! like could you give me examples or something that would be playing hard to get!? thank you! (link)
when he looks at you, if yourplaying hard to get, then you look over at him, kind of look him up and down, so that he sees your eyes moving, and then smile slightly and turn away


if you could change/improve anyhing about your school, what would it be? im doing this for a research class so responses are appreciated =] (link)
lunch time. some rules as well, such as the cell phone poicies, and at my school, vending machines are only open after 2:30


how would i start modeling?.. i know i need a portfolio but how do i come about that.. do i pay?.. how much is it? do i just go to a place where they do professional photography like glamour shots?..
and for acting.. how do i start that.. is it wise to get an agent? how much would that be.. im thinkin of taking acting classes.. i take drama in highschool

**how do i know what is and is not a scam** (link)
Dear Friend,

Signing with a modelling agency is the best way for you to find work. A reputable company will organise a shoot, and prices will vary depending on the organisation. I'm sure you'll be able to use your judgement to determine whether something is a scam - investigate everything thoroughly, and ask for recommendations from past company models. If your place of choice has nothing to hide, they'll be more than happy to provide you with contacts.

Acting classes are a must if you'd like to break into the industry. Getting an agent without skills would be useless - you'll be wasting time and money searching for and employing one. Enrol in a course, be comfortable with your surroundings, and when you're happy with your skill-level, find a rep.

An acting agent will require a portfolio as well - you'll most likely be able to use the same photos the modelling agency takes, so order doubles.

Love,

Ainsley.


I'm going into highschool this year and I'm starting to really think of what I want to be. Problem is, I have no idea what I want in life. I'm into traveling, working with/entertaining people, current events, writting, basically anything having to do with learning new things and meeting new people. I want to have a good, steady income but I don't care about being rich. Any ideas of professions that would fit me?
- thanks (link)
Dear Friend,

It's great that you have a clear idea of the type of work you'd like to be involved with, especially at such a young age.

What are your thoughts on a career in journalism? You could easily combine writing with any one of your interests, and specialise in a certain field. Travel, entertainment and political reporters are always in demand.

Work hard,

Ainsley.


ok soo i want to get highlights really bad. my hair is like, meduim brown and boring i want to get like, a lighter brown or a chestnut/red color. thing is, my mom wont let me. she does, so i dont know what the big deal is. i guess its because they're too expensive? so i was wondering if there were any kinds you can buy that are inexpensive and easy to do and come out good not all crappy and gross? also, how can i convince my mom to let me? thanks (link)
Dear Friend,

L'Oreal offer a relatively inexpensive line of chustnut colours, but if this is your first time using dye, I'd suggest you try a salon treatment. They'll find the best colour for you, and you can match that on your second go.

I doubt it's the money that worries your mom, as much as it is the "My little girl is growing up" reality check. Have a chat with her about it, and ask what her worries are. Chances are she'll be more receptive to the idea if you reinforce it in a logical way.

Love,

Ainsley.


is the song "the little things" by good charlotte still in? (link)
l o l any song you like is still in. i like a ton of songs from the 80's :) if you like them then theyre still in

hope i helpd// i love that song


ok i recently started going out with this guy that i don't like, well actually I just like him as a friend. He is really funnny and sweet a bit cheesy but overall really sweet. He kissed me the other day and one of my friends saw, she thinks it's kinda cruel for me to be going out with him if I don't like him and also cause two of my other friends liked him and one still kina does. What do you think I should do? I don't want to upset him because he is a really great friend and an even better boyfriend (link)
you could just tell that you dont want to ruin your friendship with him by going out with him becuase youve heard stories about friends going out and when they break up they dont talk anymore. tell him that if you guys break up you dont want to have an awkward relationship. he might feel the same way. but break up with him soon, you dont wanna lead him on.

hope i helped


My friend is REALLY shy..and she wants me to help her get over it..and i have an idea..I'll take her to walmart and we'll just kinda walk around while my mom shops for groceries and she likes to sing and has "stage fright" so i figured what better way to kinda bust her out of her shell by walking thru walmart singing. The reason i say this is because she is shy singing infront of people..even with one person she gets nervous..i was hoping to get a second opinion on this..would this be too hard on her? i figured i would have her sing for me a little bit then maybe for my parents (or go around the block singing) and then take her to walmart..i'm open to suggestions if anyone thinks they have a better idea! Thanks! (link)
She could by shy because she's unsure of her performance. Many people fear being bood or rejected. I'd record her singing and play it for a group of people. She'll feel better knowing that they loved it. Your idea is very good, though.




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