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okay i need advice, my best firend stephen( he is a he) and i, got in a fight and he is pissed at me and everything. well he is pissed at me bc is bro's firend put a stupied thought in is head that i used him but i didn't and now we r not talking. i called once after we got into the fight and said "sorry about this and i hope we can be firneds again" but it didn't work :[ but he also likes me more then a friend and i have a boyfriend.
sincerely,confused friend
p.s i'm a girl (link)
what i would do is give it some time for him to cool of a little bit

in a week you could try calling him again and apoligizing and tell him that you never used him and if he really respected you he would believe you
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my boyfriend's best friend (we'll call him..bob) just told me he loves* me. but i love* my boyfriend. but i admit, ive had a tiny crush on bob . wat should i do?!
~thanx in advavnce~

*love as in lik a whole lot (link)
you should look deep in your heart and figure out if you want to be with bob or your boyfriend
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What are Body Shots? how's it done! I rate 5s!!

MEME (link)
a body shot is when someone takes a drink off your stomach or whatever place you want it from
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i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!! (link)
in my opinion i think you should talk to her because shes been through the things that your going to be going through in the next couple years and it would be easier on you if you knew you could talk to her about these things

if you do decide to tell her this might bring you two closer because she then will know that you trust her about these things and that way you two could be open with each other
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is there any way to find someones screen name if you just have there name and address? if so... where??? (link)
yea..

if you go to your buddylist on AIM and go to people
you scroll down to search a buddy and type in the information you have
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hi i need help im not spposted 2 date untill im like 20 !! so shud i date behind my parents bac???? (link)
you should really talk to your parents about that one
20 years old? thats like an age where you could get married
if tha doesnt work then i would date behind their back
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My friend, Holly. She use to be awesome. Were cousons. Now all she thinks about is being a hor. well at least she acts like one. Shes a bitch. What should I do to remind her shes my friend?

ill rate high.
ill make fav columnist.
ill do anything but i need help!
thnkz (link)
spend some time with her and do things you guys used to do to remind her how both of you used to have a good time together if that doesnt work then maybe you should try talking to her and tell her how you miss the old days when you guys used to have so much fun together
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Hey, I have a Samsung YP-T7 MP3 thing. And I did everything then downloaded music, and so I tryed to transfer the downloaded music to the MP3 thing but it didnt work. It said that it needed a licence? And that the songs a had downloaded from Napster,their license were unable to be obtained. I dont get what im supposed to do. So does anyone know how to fix this? The instructions have nuthing to do with this. So I cant look at those.

Also does anyone know of any sites where I can download music FREE? THANKS! I rate 5's (link)
www.limewire.com

i use it its really good

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Gender: male Age: 16
Me and my gf havent exactly been getting along we cant talk much it neva works, we hug sometimes, and we dont do anything else either because there was a problem and we said we'd work it out but obviously not and im a shy guy and i get pretty depressed often and today one of her friends(also friend of mine) told me my gf wants me to stop me getting into depressive moods and make more of an effort to make the first moves or she will dump me. And then her friend also told me that she also liked another 2 guys and she things my gf is just using me.
But when i was 1st goin out with her i have neva been as happy and im not sure i wanna give up on her and thus lose that happiness.
What do u think? am i just being stupid?
and if u think i should dump her please tell me.
How?
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lets start from this her friends might be lying to you about how she likes two other guys and shes using you

you should call her up and talk to her tell her how you feel about the relationship tell her you dont see this going anywhere

if nothing happens after that then maybe you should consider breaking up its not fair to her or you that you two are not happy and you guys should just get to know other people

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what does it mean to "sweat" something? like ex- "i sweat this song" what does that mean? (link)
it means that you really like the song


ok my friend and her friend always gang up on me and are like michelle quit and i ahve another friend but she hates when i hang out with these two girls and i cant stop and i am egtting snottyier by the minute i dont know wat i can do casue these are my bffeaeaeaeaeaeaea
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if your getting snottier and snottier by the minute i really think you should stop hanging out with those friends and stick with the other friend because when you hang out with friends like that nothing ever comes out good
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Ive had problems with my friends..whenever i tell one of them something it doesnt seem like they care too much..how can i tell them? (link)
tell them that them not listening to you really bugs you and it seems that they dont even care about you
if they still dont listen to you then honestly i would stop being friends with them (but thats my opinion)
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Pon de Replay.. love the song. but what the hell does pon de replay mean!?

thanks. (link)
i heard it means just having a good time

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13/f

hey, umm, yeah...i haven't really been sleeping the past 2 weeks...and now, i'm starting to get headaches-like frequently...

this has never happened before, and like i just wanted to know if this is semi-normal or if something's wrong w/ me.

also, i'm postitive that its not like PMS or anything having to do with my period...it just started randomly happening...and plus, i've had it for like almost 4 years now...s0o0o, yeah...help?! (link)
it could be all the stress building up

you really should get some sleep or go see a doctor
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14/f .. would you consider it cheating if someone else kissed you but you weren't the one who kissed them? (link)
if it was a little peck then no but if it was kissing then yea because you were also kissing them back


have you ever had a friend that thinks she can get with any guy and lies to her best friends and u know it and you want to tlel them but you promised!well i need help now and like you cant get her to stop acting like all that. and treats you so mean! o my gosh i need some advice!!! (link)
you shouldnt really have friends like that because all they do is keep lieing and never stop tell her off shes a waste of time shes just doing that so people can think shes all that and stuff like that
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okay heres the downlow. Whenever my boyfriend is around girls he always flirts with them, even if i'm right there. then when i talk to him about he'll either say i never did that or oh i'm sorry i won't do it again, but he never changes! I don't know what i should do. Part of me wants to break up with him and another part of me doesn't! So what should i do!!??

I'm 13,Female (link)
sweety i think you should dump him because if he always does that even when you confront him about it its not going to change its just the way he is
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Hey...I was wondering if I was having normal period pain or not. I have a slight fever, not very high. And I'm having pains in my stomach (everywhere not just in the lower part) and some back pain. I'm getting headaches and after I eat I feel like I'm about to throw up. Plus I'm suffering from a loss of appitite. I should have started by now but i'm a little late. Is this normal? (link)
i think you should go talk to your doctor because having pains in your stomach everywhere, having a slight fever, the lose of appetite and feeling like your going to throw up are not signs of normal period pain maybe it doesnt even have to do with your period
go to your doctor for a checkup

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my mom won't let me get my belly button pierced because she thinks im going to get an infection. My friends mom said she would take me to get it done but I dont want my mom to get mad... should I get it done or not? (link)
in my opinion i think you should respect your moms decision because if you get your belly button pierced you might lose her trust... but maybe you can get your friends mom to talk to her

when you get your belly button pierced they give you a medication to apply for like a week or maybe a little more to decrease your chances of getting an infection

so try to explain to your mom that and if she doesnt let wait a year or two
(but thats my opinion)

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for summer reading i have to write a 5 paragraph essay and in the first paragraph i have to include a thesis statement on the main topic..lol obviously(sp?) but i forget how to do a thesis statement so can someone please help me on what i have to include? thanks soo much! i rate high!

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a thesis statement is when one sentence in the first paragraph gives the reader a clue about what your essay is going to be about its kind of like a main idea
so just give one main idead that you could strongly backup in your essay
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