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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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i know when you have a - and a + you subtract nd when you have a - - or + + you add them but when you have a - + + does it equal a negitave or a postivite? and so my question is is a + plus + postive or negitave and when a - + - is the answer a negitave or a plue and when it's - + + is it a negitave or a positve. WILL RATE 5"S THANKS!

actually it all depends on the problem if it is how you are saying it -++ then the answer would be negative because you got to work from LEFT TO RIGHT. order of operations. PEMDAS.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Maybe I'm just jumping the gun because we're only been going out since Saturday, but it just seems like we aren't even going out. At the dance on Saturday we did; we were holding hands and dancing really close and he had his arms around me when we were just standing around talking and stuff, but at the end of the dance, he hugged me and was like "i'll talk to you Monday".

He asked me before that what I was doing on Sunday and I was just like, "nothing. what're you doing?" and he was like "probably hanging out with branden." maybe he just didn't want to hang out with me? But he didn't give me his number/ask so we don't call each other or anything. We didn't hang out after school either because he said he was going golfing.

We have 1 class together on red days, and 1 class together on white days. We don't even have the same lunch on either days. So, it's kind of hard to get closer to him. Maybe we just don't really act like we're going out right because we're at school, but also maybe he is a little tiny bit shy because on before we were going out, sometimes it'd take him awhile to say something to me, but I knew he'd see me because he'd be looking at me, like at the football game.. So I just came up to him.

helpppp. advice. tips to get closer to him since it's kind of hard because he's busy after school and we don't have many classes together. It'd be easier if atleast we called each other, but I don't think he wants to talk to me on the phone or something. I don't know.

i am probably a bit older then you but i am not sure. but anyways, dont worry about it. to tell you the truth me and my boyfriend talk all the time on the phone and when he meet up it gets kind of aquared and we didnt do ANYTHING when i first meet up with him. my advice is to ask him for his number and call and talk to him. i mean if they guy is busy he is busy you noe when your busy u really dont want people to bother you.

*~Stephanie~*

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i startedmy period a few months ago and just this month i started gettin cramps but the cramps arent like at my lower pelvis its almostlike right there(if u kno wat im talkin about)lets just say at the bottom of my underwear.. is this abnormal or is this how it is sompposed to be????? i need advice??? i rate high

actually when you start your period you will get cramps at different parts of your body. everyone is different. for instance, i usually get stomach cramps. and my mom on the other hand gets head aches, leg pain. everyone is different and so i think it is normal. f this keeps going for a long period of time i think you should see a doctor if you are really scared about it. but i dont think there is anything wrong with it.
*~Stephanie~*

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my friend says that when you finger someone, the person being fingered can being wearing pants but i dont think that is true ...is it true or no ..if its not true how can i tell her?

actually it doesnt matter what the girl is wearing the best way to make a girl feel it and enjoy it would be that the guy unbuttons her pants and puts his fingures in. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay... i have a boyfriend named john. but like the thing is that he lives in cleveland and i am texas. well... the other night to be exact on friday night i made out with my ex and then fucked him. it was my first time so it was only like 5 minutes b/c we had to take a break b/c it hurt so bad but then as soon as my cherry was popped we were done b/c it freaked him out b/c he felt it. i love my ex and i THINK i love john but i'm not sure.i know i love my ex but john i just don't know. what should i do?? i want to still be with john but i also want to be with my ex. i want to talk with john about it b/c it was one of those spur of hte moment things. john has also started talking about getting realyl serious like marriage serious and i am only 14! he is 17. btw... both guys are 17.

first off your 14 (just like me) lol.. you got a lot of years to go be4 thinkin about marriage. you need to clear your head up. you need to sit down alone and think. (serious) you got to think of the positives and negatives about both of them. you got think of who treats you better?? who you want to be with. because if you think about it when you have a boyfriend it is basically sayin "do you see yourself with this guy in the future??" hope this advice helps you and good luck..
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my boyfriend where currently going out for a year at 17 months when he said he anted to take a break.. we currently were doing a long distance relationship .. any ideas on how i coudl get him back.. and we still talk everyday soo far and he still tells me he loves me but he jsut wants to not have a girl firend for his senior year and wants to be more focused on school and baseball and friends.. please help me try to get him back please..
i will rate high for any advise

i think if he loves you he will come back to you no questions asked. mayb he isnt passing his school work and needs to pass to graduate. if he needs his space you need to respect that and give him space. if he doesnt come back to you then you know that mayeb you should find a new guy. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have been talking to this guy on the internet for three months now and we both really like each other. I am a sixteen year old female. My parents don't know about him because they would completely freak out if they found out that I have given this guy my cell phone numberand the state in which I live. I want to tell them but I don't want to have to break up my relationship with him just because they don't trust people. What should I do?

all i have to tell you is this isnt a good idea. trust me i have eben through it all. all it does is lead into trouble. you dont noe who this guy really is. he can be a rapper acting like a 17 year old. Never trust a guy liek that. but if u want to you can meet up with him but NOT by yourself, take a friend or soemone you trust with you to go and see him. i hope this helps and good luck.
*~Stephanie~*

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if you havn't had your period yet and you have sex can you still get preganat?

like you havent been through pruberty at all. i dont think you can unless you can start your period soon. if you mean time of the month and hasnt come and you have had sex. then yes there is a chance you can be pregenant.
*~Stephanie~*

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whats poping a cherry?

cherry popping is when you have sex and in a girls vigina there is liek extra skin and when the dick goes it it basically rips the skin and it is caleld popping your cherry.
*~Stephanei~*

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all of my friends, even people younger than me have kissed a guy/girl. i havent! i only kissed little boys that i babysit. lol PATHETIC!!! dont be like "dont worry, my first kiss was when i was 20 or 14" or something. i want to know how i can make it happen soon to a cute guy nd dont say "it will happen when your both ready" cause that doenst help me!

ok i understand where your coming from. maybe you should try getting a guy that you like a lot ot go out with you. dotn go out with a guy just for is his looks. i mean he can be the hotest guy ever and eb a jack ass so go for the guy you liek adn if you both like each other then you can make the move and kiss him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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can you get a disease by kissing aand making out like only makeing out witht he tounge and nothing else?

all you have to do is if soemone is sick or not feeling to good DONT MAKE OUT WITH THEM. if they have werid things on there lips DONT kiss them. yes there is but it isnt likely for you to get something as bad as aids, stds, and stuff like that

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hey
on my homeowrk i have to find the mean for a set of data. i forgot how to do this. does anyone kno?

that is really easy. to find the mean of a group of numbers9data) all you do is add all the numbers up and divide them up by how many numbers you have. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it actually possible for your cherry to pop without having full blown sex? because the real story was my friend had to go to the gyno. and she tried some things but never had sex with a guy, as in a home run, and if so, does the gyno. say anything to parents? i rate high.

actually you can pop your cherry really easly doing stuff you regulary do. abotu the gyno.. everything should be kept confidenatually because the gyno has no right to tell her parents if she doesnt want to tell them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay well i just got my haircut and i hate it.. i told this lady not short and no bangs and she made itshort with bangs and i hate it!! but all my friends are like its so cute and the guy i like told me it looks great, but i was just wonderin... do guys like it better if a girl wears her hair up or down??

i would say down. i know when i had my hair down when i saw my boyfriend he wouldnt leave it alone...lol.. if the guy you like likes dfown then leave it down. but each is different some like it up and some like down. it all depends..
*~Stephanie~*

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okay... can you get stds from someone like for example if they dont have one? any names? i know its a weird question

if they dont have it you cant get it. the most common way to get STDS is if you are sexually active.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it posibble that you can be on your period but still be pregnant??

it can but rarely happens.
*~Stephanie~*

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i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc.

first base is kissing and holding hands
second base is makin out
third base is touching each other
forth base is having sex

*~Stephanie~*

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My ex boyfriend was cheating on me, so I kind of exposed the truth about him cheating on me to all my friends and now hes really mad at me. I feel bad that I dumped him and exposed his "secret" because the truth is, i still like him. But don't you think i have the right to be mad at him? Because he cheated on me, lied to me, called other girls behind my back, and blew me off in the hall last friday....

I'm so confused. Should I call him?

hun, if i was you i would have done ALOT more damage then you did. dont call him back leave it alone. if he cared about you he wouldnt have cheated on you. so leave it alone and find a new guy to crush over.
*~Stephanie~*

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well see i got a boyfriend and i care bout him so much and it will be our 7 month anniversary on the 16th but there a problem...he's been put away in a boys home for almost most of ur relationship..and it kill knowing i cant see or talk 2 him at all...i saw him twice this whole summer and it sux....but i really care about him and i've known him since the 2nd grade but i dont know if i shuld break it off or just stick it out until he cumz home...which is in like 2 or 3 months...well im 16 and im a female....WHAT SHOULD I DO???

if you love the guy you will put up with the distance. i am in the same sistuation as you except i live 20 miles away from my boyfriend and i can barely see him becausde of my parents. i think you should fallow your heart and if you REALLY love this guy you will wait for him no matter how long.
*~Stephanie~*

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why do people ask such dumb questions on here!?

because some people are slow and dont always understand everything and then need it repeated to them a couple times.
*~Stephanie~*

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