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It's like we're not even going out.


Question Posted Monday September 19 2005, 5:08 pm

Maybe I'm just jumping the gun because we're only been going out since Saturday, but it just seems like we aren't even going out. At the dance on Saturday we did; we were holding hands and dancing really close and he had his arms around me when we were just standing around talking and stuff, but at the end of the dance, he hugged me and was like "i'll talk to you Monday".

He asked me before that what I was doing on Sunday and I was just like, "nothing. what're you doing?" and he was like "probably hanging out with branden." maybe he just didn't want to hang out with me? But he didn't give me his number/ask so we don't call each other or anything. We didn't hang out after school either because he said he was going golfing.

We have 1 class together on red days, and 1 class together on white days. We don't even have the same lunch on either days. So, it's kind of hard to get closer to him. Maybe we just don't really act like we're going out right because we're at school, but also maybe he is a little tiny bit shy because on before we were going out, sometimes it'd take him awhile to say something to me, but I knew he'd see me because he'd be looking at me, like at the football game.. So I just came up to him.

helpppp. advice. tips to get closer to him since it's kind of hard because he's busy after school and we don't have many classes together. It'd be easier if atleast we called each other, but I don't think he wants to talk to me on the phone or something. I don't know.


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SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday September 19 2005, 7:38 pm:
i am probably a bit older then you but i am not sure. but anyways, dont worry about it. to tell you the truth me and my boyfriend talk all the time on the phone and when he meet up it gets kind of aquared and we didnt do ANYTHING when i first meet up with him. my advice is to ask him for his number and call and talk to him. i mean if they guy is busy he is busy you noe when your busy u really dont want people to bother you.

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jeanine278972 answered Monday September 19 2005, 7:16 pm:
First of all... My guess is that your quite young. I would say he's just shy about showing affection in public. Talk to him about a date or something with just the two of you. Your not going to get anywhere just wondering. The best thing you can do is talk to him. He probably does like you, but friends do always come first for most people. If everyone chose a boyfriend/girlfriend over friends, we would get nowhere. Set a day in advance for the two of you to hang out. Then he can't use the excuse of other plans ahead of time.

And if he doesn't want to hang out .. ever.. then he probably don't like you and just wanted a girlfriend.

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