My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!
You probably won't get them precise. But anyways, numb your ear with ice, then get an earing or needle or whatever, then light a lighter then put the earing or whatever above it so it gets really hot, then yea, you pierce.
-xXoBrianna
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now and we talk all the time on the phone and online but when we get to school we dont talk at all! we haven't even hugged..! and like all we do is say hi or wave and walk away like we're in health and Intro to something together and like everyone always talks but we never do! well me and my friend Sam are going to watch him practice and the kid she likes practice for football so if you have any advice on how to get him to talk to me in school please hurry cause my friend is coming over now! alright thanks!
-I rate high-
Talk to him first.
-xXoBrianna
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okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help!
If you don't like him, don't go out with him. Or if you do, just tell him that you thought he was joking with you or something.
-xXoBrianna
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hey. im starting to go thru puberty and develop my breats but the question is how long will it FULLY take them to develop. theyve been the same for lyk 4 months and there not growing. and no, i kno that they still have a lot more to grow cuz no normal person could have boobs this small. but anyways how long will it take them to develop FULLY. please help!
When your 18.
-xXoBrianna
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My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?
Yes she should name him that if she likes the name. Her ex isn't the only Jonathan in the world.
-xXoBrianna
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Ok well...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and are now expecting a lil girl in october.I have put up with alot these past 2 years with him drinking and a bunch of other stuff and finally i got him to quit alot of stuff he use to do,and hes been doing really good except i see a pattern here.Its like everytime im not around he decides to go somewheres and drink and then gets himself in trouble no matter what.Just the other night a cop brought him here around 3 in the morning and he was drinking!He needs some help and i dont know what to do anymore.Hes going to be 22 but acts like hes 16 still.I love him so much but i dont want the baby to be around this shit.What should i do?? :*-( (Sorry its so long...)
Rehab.
-xXoBrianna
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Hi, OKay I skipped my period for 3 months and then started again. But I am really heavy compared to my normal. Is that normal?
Yea its normal. Don't worry about it, it was just irregular.
-xXoBrianna
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hey , i am going out with a 17 year old guy for about a mouth now and i kno this 21 year old and he likes me and i already went to thrid base with him and i sleep with him and he really fun guy to hang out with and he say s he really likes me . . my boyfrfiend have been to 2nd and somewhat to 3rd and i like him and all but why si that all the time i think aobut the 21 year old guy more then my boyfriend what should id o ?? stay with my boyfriend or go for the 21 year old . . i am 16 truing 17 in dec
please help me . . .
Nicky
Well it's illegal until your 18 if you go with the 21 year old. But, it seems like you like him better so I say go out with him and just be friends with your current boyfriend.
-xXoBrianna
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Hey,
I need some help!! I really like this guy and he knows that I do but one of my best-friends likes him to but she also likes someone else better!! I have liked him for three months and three days today and she says that I have liked him longe and that I like him more!! He still has not asked me out!! I think he is kind f getting annoyed by me cause I like am obbsesed with him or at least that is what they think!! WHat should I do to get him to ask me out?? If you wanna IM me my sn is volleyball092209
You don't get someone to ask you out. Maybe you scare him with your obsessivness. You can't make someone like you, just lay off of him soo much and just act normal. No one likes people that are obsessive.
-xXoBrianna
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i dont kno what to wear on the 1st day of school
i am a very sporty gurl and i dont like to wear that much gurly gurly stuff but i wanna like a sport sexy look for the 1st day and i dont kno what to do with my hair either . i have madd curly hair but i can strightin it but it might be frizzy
i am have with brown hair with blonde hightlights . . ((i have a nice ass ppl say))
what should i wear and what to do with my hair helppp me please !!!
Wear what you like, and no one really needed to know if you had a nice ass or not?
-xXoBrianna
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hi, i need help. I have so much trouble paying attention. If Im very interested its easier but with some things i try so hard to stay focused but i just end up getting spaced out. I also have trouble absorbing information. Like when i read its like im not really reading... like theres a wall between my brain and the book. I get spaced out when i read... especially things i dont understand, like fantasy. I just failed my first test in high skool bcuz of it and it really sux what should i do?
thanx
You might have ADD? Take red bull everday before school, it helps you focus, concentrate, and perform better during the day. It works for me. Or you can go to the doctors or whatever and get adderal.
-xXoBrianna
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ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself
help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2
OMG it was almost the same with me except my ex told me he was gonna kill any one I went out with or liked and myself. And he was serious. If you don't like him, dump him. He probably doesn't have enough ball hair to actually kill himself. He'll get over you. Good luck hun!! I'm here for you if you have any other questions, drop one in my box.
-xXoBrianna
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I'm going to be having sex soon with my boyfriend. I've tried to talk to my mom about it but she thinks I'm too young and I should wait until I'm absolutely ready. I feel ready and I usually tell my mom everything. She's someone I tell my most private things to and I want her to help me get birth control and be there for support. How can I get my mom to understand I'm very serious about all this? I could never have sex without her knowing I'm sexually active! (I'm 15 and a virgin)
Convince her that you are truly ready.
-xXoBrianna
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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.
1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?
2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)
3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)
Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.
1. Yes, deff. tell her, now is a better time since she's pregnant.
2. No you shouldn't let him stay with you, what if they have sex again and she becomes pregnant? You never know. Plus, they won't be together forever.
3. Let her raise it, it was her mistake. You can help her alot though.
Sorry to hear about all of this and good luck.
-xXoBrianna
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Okay, I'm gonna obviously make my own decision about this, but I'm curious as to what y'all think. I'm 16/f, if you wanna know.
My boyfriend and I have been...experimenting lately. In the beginning of the relationship, we'd both said that we weren't into oral, but all of a sudden he wants to...y'know, give it a try. I mean, he wants to try it on me. I originally refused because I thought it would kind of obligate me to give it to him, but he said that wasn't the case. (I'm really, honestly not into it, and I always feel like he does more for me than I do for him.)
Also, the thought of kissing him afterwards kind of...bothers me...
Should I let him or not? I mean, it's kind of an...interesting...idea, but nngh - I dunno. What d'you think?
Let him.
-xXoBrianna
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My 12 year old cousin is going through puberty. She has always been a tomboy and she's disgusted with the whole process. To make matters worse she is developing rapidly (she's already a C-cup), and she started her period. She is normally a very happy person, but has become very depressed. She wears layered clothes and big sweatshirts, in the summer, to hide the changes of her body. Is there anything I can say or do to make her transition any easier?
(I've already tried telling her that it's normal and all girls go through it, but that didn't help.)
Let the weirdo be.
-xXoBrianna
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Hi well I already have a boyfriend but I bumpped into this other guy and he is so hot but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend.
I don't want to break his heart!!
THe other boy likes me and we talk but if My boyfriend found out I'd break his heart!
what do I do???!!! plz don't erase this because I need total help!!
Hmm let's see, go with the one you actually like.
-xXoBrianna
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do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes?
That made me laugh, thanks.
-xXoBrianna
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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..
i rate
LOL, alright sorry that made me laugh. Normal kissing is just a peck on the cheek or on the lips, and french kissing is using your tounge =P
-xXoBrianna
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ive been datin this older guy for 2 1/2 weeks....
wen we first started datin i was so excited..i really liked him!!!!!!
now i found a toatally different deppresed side of him....its startin to piss me of bc he trys and gets people to feel bad for him......
now evrytime we meet its always one of his friends on one of my friends is wit us..(i dont like to be alone wit him)its usually his friend brian who comes wit us
...ive known brian a lot longer than my bf and ive always had a crush on him....now spendin more time wit brian i like him a lot...and i just found out that he likes me...
but my boyfriend is odd, even if i cheated on him he'd neva break up wit me.....
i dont want to break up wit him bc he's so awsome and he's like my BROTHER (another reason i dont want to date him)...
how do i get him to dump me and stay friends...and dont tell me to tell him how i feel.....(it doesnt work!)pleeeeezzzzz help me!!!!!!!!
Hmm, just tell him that you just want to be friends. Or he's not your type or whatever.
-xXoBrianna
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