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mom against having sex
I'm going to be having sex soon with my boyfriend. I've tried to talk to my mom about it but she thinks I'm too young and I should wait until I'm absolutely ready. I feel ready and I usually tell my mom everything. She's someone I tell my most private things to and I want her to help me get birth control and be there for support. How can I get my mom to understand I'm very serious about all this? I could never have sex without her knowing I'm sexually active! (I'm 15 and a virgin)
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its good that u share evrything with uir mom, but i think she is right u are a bit to young, but if u are really seriose confrount her again and tell her u really like this guy, but ur mom also hass to trust the guy, so help him out and tell ur mom that u really trust him as well
michelle
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You're very lucky to have a mother you can talk to. If you are seriously ready for sex, I recommend using a spermicidal condom the first time and then tell her about it. Once you have made the decision and become active IN A RESPONSIBLE MANNER she will concede most likely and help yu get birth control. You really should use condoms, anyway, birth control or not, to protect from the spread of STDs.
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If your mom doesnt approve you should wait. It could ruin your whole relationship with your mom which is way more important than sex. I think your too young too.
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convince her that you feel that it is time for you to di it and not be a virgin
morgan
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i think your mom's rite but if u feel that ur ready try sitting down with her and like ask her when she stopped bein a virgin and stuffz (cuz i know my mom lost hers at that age) and that like ull be super protected and careful...
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Convince her that you are truly ready.
-xXoBrianna
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i know exactly what ur going through hun.. all i can say is talk to ur mom... tell her you feel like it's right and that you think ur ready and you really want to.. but i think one thing u need to be asking urself is if ur in love.. if ur in love babe go for it but otherwise maybe waiting is a good thing and if ur not sure.. then ur not in love.. hope i helped
xoxox-kenzi (please rate)
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It's hard for a mother to approve of something like this, and there's really nothing that you can do to change her mind. Just let her know how much you appreciate the fact that you have such an open and honest relationship, but you're sure that you are ready and you're gonna do it. But you'd rather know that you can still go to her with questions on this issue.
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okay well she probably thinks 15 is toop young. it kinda is. but if you're gonna do it, you're gonna do it. so she should just get you birth control. but if she wont, just tell her there are ways you can get it without her, like at planned parenthood, cuz you can.
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Ah! I SO know how you feel! I tell my mom everything, too. She's my best friend, and it's great that you have that relationship with your mom. She went with me to my gyno appointment to get birth control.
She doesn't approve of my sexual activity, but she's not stopping me 'cause I'm safe. She thinks I'm too young, too. I'm sixteen.
I think you should sit your mom down and really just TALK to her. Explain to her that you feel really ready to have sex, and give her my li'l saying: "Age is a state of mind, not being." I truly believe that, and she might go for it.
Tell her you really want her to understand how serious you are about this, and you want her to know you're going to become sexually active and all that.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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