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I have the smallest penis in the locker room :(


Question Posted Sunday August 29 2004, 12:50 am

My penis isnt as big as the the other kids in the locker room. Does size really matter? What can i do to make them stop making fun of me?


Your pal
Timmy

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday September 11 2013, 11:24 am:
According to the latest Ansel Research Survey; the average male penis when erect is between 5.1 & 5.9 inches long.

Keep in mind that this is the average, the middle between the largest and the smallest, above the micro-penis (below 2 inches in length). The survey states that size varies based on age, time of day, level of excitement and ambient temperature.

What you are born with is what you have. There is no way to enhance, or enlarge a penis even with surgery. Penile surgery is usually done to assist those with erectile dysfunction when there is no other medical solution that will help.

Average Vagina Size

Relaxed
Length 3 1/2 to 4 inches
Diameter 1 Inch

Aroused
Length ("tented) 5 to 6 inches
Diameter 1 1/2 to 2 inches

As you can see by the size chart of the average female vagina. Any penis over 6 inches in length and 2 inches in girth is larger than the average vagina can easily accommodate. A larger penis will cause a woman with an average sized vagina pain during intercourse, especially if the male is not a thoughtful and considerate lover.

It is not the size of a flaccid penis that counts. When erect most will grow into the size of the average penis, which as the study shows is the size a vagina can easily accommodate.

There is an old saying: "It is a poor mechanic who blames his tools."What this means is it is not the tools that makes the mechanic but the man behind the tools that is the mechanic. If you are a kind an considerate lover the size of your penis will not matter to you mate.

By the way; "it is not the tools that makes the mechanic but the man behind the tools that is the mechanic," Is a great comeback for those that are teasing you. First they probably won't understand it. Second by not understanding it they won't know you just put the biggest put down on them that has ever been done to them.

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laynemayhem answered Tuesday September 10 2013, 9:10 pm:
When the penis is soft (or flaccid) it doesn't matter how small it is; it'll grow once you're aroused. If you guys actually sat there and compared erections, you need a hobby. Women will say that size matters, but some women say "its not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean" meaning, you may not have the largest penis in the world, but if you know how to use it properly, it won't matter. To get them to stop making fun of you, try this: next time someone says something about it, say "you would be looking" or "your mom didn't seem to mind" or "I'd be worrying less about the size of my dick and more about how ugly you are"

These may be immature jokes, but if they are immature boys, it'll shut them up.
In the end, everybody is different. Have you ever seen two women with the exact same sized breasts? Some are smaller, some are larger, and they are all attractive, right? Same basic concept. Don't worry about it. :) Plus, your penis will not stop growing until you are at least 23. I'm assuming you have a few more years left.

I hope I helped!

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dreamer1999 answered Tuesday September 10 2013, 8:55 pm:
Well, it doesn't really matter what size your penis is. Bigger doesn't always mean better; remember that! Hope I helped.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday September 10 2013, 7:46 pm:
I assume you are young and so likely still your body is growing and maturing. Not everyone matures at the same rate, same goes for males and females.
The size of your genitals is going to be for the most part hereditary and there is nothing you can do to change that.

Now heres a good question for you, I assume that the other males walking around the locker room are not walking around with hard on's, correct? Point being, you can not judge how big a guy really will get compared to when he is not aroused and all neat and compact. As a female, and a nudist, I have seen it all. A guy who when flaccid had a penis that hung 8 inches long did not get any bigger or longer when aroused and erect, he was still 8 inches and hard.
Then there are others who appear to be 2 inches long and end up the average 5-7 inches when erect. My own husband has large balls but a penis that retracts into them so that even the tip is almost not visible at all.
Those men and women who have extra long penis's and vagina's 8 inches and longer are in the minority. Most are average size. The fact that the guys make fun of you just shows how immature they are and how little they know.
If you feel you are below average when aroused, then the best thing you can do is to focus on learning how to please women by g-spot orgasms. The clitoral orgasm for girls is a more localized one while the other is a full body one. The guys who are giving females the best sex they've ever had are not even using their penis...trust me...I am a female. It's been seldom that I found a guy can please with his penis too.
So many variations are there like what way her vagina is slanted, does the guy curve up,down or is straight or bent to the side plus her length when aroused vs yours are all factors to whether she might recieve an orgasm by your penis.

So hon, if I were a young guy, I would trust what an older female was telling me and focus on learning and studying all I can about the anatomy of males and females, how females obtain g-spot orgasm which will be by how you use your fingers on her, how some women gush and squirt which is female ejaculation, etc... I have run across women who were looking for a friend with benefits, mostly a sex partner and the guys whose name got passed around was the one who could give the women multiple g-spot orgasms, and the guys who had the big ego as far as their penis was concerned and thought it was all about them and they didn't have to do anything but put their penis inside a female to sexually satisfy them, they were the ones who didn't get any females coming back to them, they are the ones who may end up bachelors for life or in a loveless marriage or relationship, not realizing that they are the problem. Knowledge is as important if not more important than the size of a penis.

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theCapn answered Sunday August 29 2004, 12:56 am:
Well timmy,

It is diturbing to me that ur weiner is so small. well little boy, u r just unlucky. u should kick ur father in the balls for passing down his small penis. if u have a small weiner and u still want to look cool, just lie about how many girls uve done. thats what i always do ;) If u ever need ne advice u know where to find it kid

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