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I understand all the pain you go through. I see the tears I see the pain I see it all, don't hide behind a fake smile because it'll get stuck.
E-mail: sabrynalstatt@gmail.com
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Age: 14
Member Since: May 28, 2013
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hey sabryn, its me julia.Im up to 1000 visitors omg!!!!!!!!!! :# any way my q is.... why are you so beutiful and awesome and why do I love you so much :3 (link)
Because I'm amazing. I love you too!!!!! Oh!!! Congrats on the 1000 visitors. :))))) your one of my friends that can see past my flaws and I highly appreciate it!!!!!!


Please tel the way to die? (link)
Ok. First, of all that's a bullshit question to ask. Your too worth it. I don't know you but I know your life is important as anyone elses'. The only death advice I give is dying of old age. You need to be mature about this decision. You are way too valuable to at least one person to just end your life. Be reasonable please. I'd like to know your story. Inbox me anytime. Hoped I helped.


I know this is a weird question, but I'm going to try.

How do you tell the difference between just acting like another gender and actually wanting to BE another gender? I'm a bit confused with my gender myself and am hoping to know how to tell the difference.

Thank you! (link)
Well, that depends on your sexuality. If you're a girl and acting and looking like a dude rather than being and acting like a complete opposite gender is confusing but I think you'll figure it out on your own. I'm guessing your a girl, so if you feel like a girl stuck in a boy's body or if you're a boy and you think your stuck in a girl's body.


I am a 24 year old lady from south Africa and I am using trigestrel pills en I missed 1red pill so what I wanted to know is should I continue with the pill or should I take two pills?.and whenn can I take da pill,at my usual time or imidiately (link)
Thanks for inboxing me! I would advise you to take one immediately because even if you missed one you don't double up on them because they could do negative effects to your body. Take the one that your ready for next, but don't take two at the same time. Hope I helped you!


My penis isnt as big as the the other kids in the locker room. Does size really matter? What can i do to make them stop making fun of me?


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Well, it doesn't really matter what size your penis is. Bigger doesn't always mean better; remember that! Hope I helped.


Im 14f and have known I was bi or gay all my life, and im comfortable with it.my best friend...ive had a crush on her for years.she knows I do, but it hurts sometimes, I really like her shes straight.im cool with our friendship.its amazing, but how can I stop you know...likeing her in that way so muxh? Cant get over it. (link)
Well, I would say that if you honestly really like her than I have no reason why you should stop. If it's a crush that has been going on for so long than I think that it will be very difficult to get over it. I honestly personally wouldn't mind if that happened to me; If it really bothers you liking her so much I suggest not spending time with that person but i honestly wouldn't do it. She might be very cool!


I want this on my phone and was wondeing the name of the app!!!! (link)
Well, I have looked for the app as well and I couldn't find it on the App Store.


i have lost my virginity how i can get it back? (link)
That's your problem. You can't get your virginity back because you've lost it already. Not much help you can get.


What dies 69 exactly stand for ? (link)
I wouldn't laugh at you. The term 69 came up during my math class. 69 stands for a sexual position during intercourse. When a girl is sucking a guys penis; vise versa the guy is eating out the woman. Understand?


I know i'm not crazy & I don't want people to think I'm crazy. I hear voices talking to me & I feel like there's an evil spirit around me. I hear loud evil noises & when I was 10 years old, an evil spirit even said my name. It scared me but I didn't tell anyone cause I know they wouldn't believe me.

The doctors don't believe me, my parents don't believe me, they think that this is all in my head & that I just have some mental disorder. I even see evil spirits around my house moving around on the walls.

When I was at my grandma's house I heard something evil whispering to me & I go scared and shook for days

I can't sleep either, sometimes I have sleep paralysis. I'll be awake in my room & freeze up, then start hearing voices. I can't talk or move either. I hear voices all day.

I don't understand why nobody believes me or thinks that evil spirits are real. The doctors I went to told me I have psychosis. They just want to tell me it's all made up & I'm being delusional. These voices & spirits scare me. They are always around me & I hear them. These are demons trying to get me!

I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. No one will listen to me or believe me. I believe these voices are REAL

How do I get rid of evil?? (link)
Well,you can't get rid of it by just telling it to. When doctors and your family think your nuts about seeing spirits and hearing paranormal noises than I would suggest you have a "entity" in your house hold; or other words your grandmother's house. Rethink to why their in your house and try to figure out what it wants. It may not be evil. It may a be a spirit that hasn't left the house yet. A spirit that hadn't simpl moved on from their past life.


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I don't think it matter whether you have dimples or not because you're beautiful no matter if you have them or not. -Sabryn


I am sooo ugly , how do I make myself prettier ? Im a female 14 (link)
Okay. First of all, You saying your ugly is your first problem and you need to fix that. You have to believe your beautiful before you can make anyone else believe it. There's no product out there that compares to true natural beauty. You need to realize that bitches are going to hate, but you just have to let it go. Just ignore it. I will tell you again...THERE'S NO UGLY PERSON IN THIS WORLD! NOONE! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! When you say your not, that makes you look bad and makes you feel bad because you don't feel good about yourself and if you can't do that then you can't trick anyone to think your beautiful with any makeup or any product because nothing compares to natural sincere beauty!


I'm13 years old so I can't use tampons yet, and whenever I use a pad, it always leaks after like five minutes. What other methods are there. Also, what is the best way toget blood stains out of my underwear? Thank you! (link)
Yes, you probably have a heavier flow than other girls. That is completely normal too. Try wearing more absorbant pads; shouldn't be leaking anymore.


So I have a party tomorrow and I'm on my period but I HAVE to wear white jeans! I've tried tampons but I tend to tense up so I don't think I should use them. My white jeans are a bit see through and I'm scared that I might stain them. What can I use or do so that I don't stain them?!?!?! (link)
IF you tense up when using tampons try using thicker or more absorbant pads. I use the Playtex pads like nighttime kind. Even if they are for nighttime you can use them for any time of day. They would help your problem. You can buy them at almost any grocery store. -Hope I helped.


Disadvantages of master bite (link)
The disadvantages or let-downs towards male masturbation would be pre-mature ejaculation and masturbation is addictive so be careful but also have fun. -hope I helped.


Where can I buy a solid gold whistle? (link)
You could buy a solid gold whistle at Sears or you could look on Ebay for what you're looking for. -hope I helped


How to make my boobs big (link)
Well, not so seem mean ,but it's true. Your boobs can't grow with any product. Although, if you want the appearance of your breasts to seem larger; I'd suggest putting socks or round objects in your bra. Stuff your bra. No one will even know you have socks in your bra.


15/f Hi so I like this girl right and umm how can I start talking to her and ask her if she's gay??? (link)
Ok Hun, first of all in girl form gay is called being lesbian and if you really like her you have to be honest and just go for it.


Im 16 a girl i love porn :/ n i love to masturbate is it bad a girl my age to masturbate (link)
God. Heavens yes. There's people out there who masturbate at age 9 don't worry.


can you take 2 pills at the same time if you missed it the day before (link)
No, if you missed the day before than you take 2 more to even it out it will effect your hormones even worse than missing your pill.




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