Life is pretty unpredictable and things doesn't always go how you want it too. I've been there and done that but I'm not finish experiencing it all yet. If you have any questions, don't be afraid to ask, I will give you my Honest yet Respectful opinion.
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Age: 28
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Hi guys, if you must know i'm 18. The problem is, i'm in a downward spiral so yes, i need some advice. I know people out there face tougher challenges, but i know my life will get worse too if i don't face 'em. I'm starting to cling onto people to get happiness and my self-esteem is breaking down. It's not even there anymore ! I have a wide family but not all of them can be trusted. Not all. I have lots of friends but hey, i could even count with my fingers the ones who're really true. I'm facing rejection by the ones i would sactifice for. I don't really need guys in my life but i do really love one guy who seems to.. I don't know. We're no longer close and i break down every night missing him. Anyhow, I could no longer stress out due to the fact that i'm beginning to have detrimental heart problems because of the problems i'm facing and i admit my wrongdoings are involved too. I just need an advice on how to be wise and independent in life. I still believethat i can be a good person too, i just don't want to give up. Please help me, i can't go on feeling so messed up anymore. Thanks guys. (link)
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You're 18 now so this is the beginning of life for you. You have so much ahead of you. If you're stressed and depressed and you feel like you can't talk to family or friends. Then talk to your doctor so she/he can recommend someone for you. She/He may also recommend a prescription if needed. Please don't let life issues or anything you may have done get to you, stress you out. Especially if it's making you sick, you have to take care of yourself. You're stronger than you think, you can get through this. Love yourself and don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes in life, no one is perfect, but it's all about picking up the pieces and doing better. Never give up on you, push yourself to do better, to be better. You're smart, independent, strong and wise. You just have to BELIEVE it. If you need counseling, don't be afraid or embarrassed to get the help you need to become a better you. I hope everything works out for you... #BestWishes
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I'm 15 and just got recently into masturbating.. I'm a female. What are any ways to arouse myself more? I would love to be able to orgasm but I don't know how to make myself orgasm, help?! (link)
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You're at an age where you start to become curious about your body and sex. Also with you being so young, I honestly would prefer you to masturbate rather than having sex with boys. It gets to complicated with boys, you don't want to have so many partners by the time your older anyway. Then there's all kinds of diseases out there that young people wouldn't be to honest about. So the safest way is to do it yourself until you've reached a appropriate age. I would suggest that you Google some things like how to masturbate. You have to get to know your body so go ahead and fill around until you get it right. There's really no answer to your question because everyone's body is different. Like I said before, Google a few things, watch some YouTube vids and explore your body.
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Im 14/ f and ive been a selfharming since the beginning of february.. I have been getting better tho! Anyways my mom and I were sitting side by side waiting for my sister and I forgot to put a bandage on my cuts when I changef into a tank top.. she was on the phone and looked at my wrist and thered only 2 visible ones and pointed at them with a questioning face.. I pulled my arm away and went to the bathroom and cried my eyes out.. what do I say? Our cats are declawed. . (link)
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If you've be harming yourself I encourage you to talk to your Mom. She can't help you if you don't share your feelings about what's bothering you. She can't read your mind, so I really hope you talk with her. I doubt she acts negatively towards you, she's your mother, she loves you, she wants the very best for you. You can share what's going on in your life that's causing you to hurt yourself and together you guys can seek help and get you through this tough time in your life. You're so young and full of life and you have so much living left to do. Finishing school, choosing a career, exploring life, having a family one day in the future. You have so much to live for. Whatever is going I promise you that if you open up and get some help you will get through this. You'll realize how strong you are, how beautiful you are, how smart you are, how courageous you are. Maybe in the future when you're ready you can help someone else that may have similar problems and share your story. I sincerely hope that everything works out and you confide in your mother so you two can work as a team to help you get better. #BestWishes
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Hi, so I'm a 15 year old female. My boyfriend rescently went to another state for family issues. He was there for about a week, so we didn't get to see eachother alot, only talk. When he was there he started txting this girl that goes to our school. They sexted and sent nudes back and forth. We kinda went on a break because he claimed that he lost his feelings for me. When he got back we were still on a break/ broken up. He made out with the girl that he was sending nudes to. This was a couple months ago but I still can't let it go. It bothers me so much, were still together now, but he didn't tell me about all this, I had to find out about it. I have no trust in him whatsoever. I was wondering how I would be able to forget this, and regain my trust in him. Because he has moved on from it, I haven't.. And it really bothers me. Thanks (link)
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I'm sorry this happened to you, it really hurts to have someone you care about be unfaithful to you. Your 15 yrs old and the great thing about being your age is that you have your whole life ahead you. There will be more relationships in the future because nine times out of ten you won't be with this person when you're 19 or 25 yrs old. This shouldn't break you. I know that your hurt and you have every right to feel that way but sweetie you don't have to put up with that. Boys that age can like you, but will they stay with one girl? NO they won't. You shouldn't either... You can date, have fun but don't stress about it, you're to young for all of those problems. If he's sexting and kissing another girl then obviously you're not his priority. Because if you were he wouldn't do that to you. Don't settle for things that make you unhappy, don't let ANYONE disrespect you. There is no excuse for what he did, I don't care if you were on a "BREAK", No Excuses! If the shoe was on the other foot and you did what he did with another guy. You really think he would've given you another chance... and said "Oh that's okay we were on a break and you've moved on from it. I will forgive you and move on also". Heck No! He probably break up with you, tell his friends, start rumors, etc: You're to young to have stressful relationship issues... Like I said before Be Young, Enjoy Life, Friendly Date. If you're gonna have a serious relationship, don't settle, let anyone hurt/disrespect you and know your worthy of better. Don't let anyone get you down especially a TEENAGE BOY who will look at anything with female body parts... I hope everything works out for you. :)
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