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Masturbation tips?
I'm 15 and just got recently into masturbating.. I'm a female. What are any ways to arouse myself more? I would love to be able to orgasm but I don't know how to make myself orgasm, help?!
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Hi there. You seem to be getting some mixed & varied messages from your replies I think? Firstly, important studies & exams are always going to coincide with the time a girls's feeling 'Hey...I've got some properly womanly needs going on here...how do I handle it?' There's no reason at all why you can't be a good student AND enjoy yourself of course. It's not a case of masturbating making you fail exams, don't worry about that. Secondly, watching video clips and reading tips may help, but only up to a point. Women quite often talk about 'reaching' rather than 'having' an orgasm. You might not think changing one word makes much difference? But what it means is that, no you're not likely to find one magic move that makes you climax. And it also means that every time you feel horny and masturbate, you COULD reach it. Really it's about letting the pleasure build up and up, giving you a mental feeling that you're expecting something great to happen, and building up a more physical, muscular tension from your waist down. It's the release of this tension (enjoyable, not stressy tension) which is your orgasm. You need to identify which areas give you the most phsical pleasure when they're stimulated and all you need are your fingers. What does this 'discovering yourself' stuff actually mean? It's about finding out what works for YOU. How long? Touch lightly, or press a bit more firmly? What sort of 'speed' (it's not unusual to feel the urge to get a quicker and a bit more intense as you feel something coming). Learning about your responses, and the pattern they follow. When things start to hot up it's essential that you really 'let go' and just go with the feeling. Meaning you'll need to know you aren't going to be disturbed suddenly or unexpectedly just at your crucial moment, so choose a good time. It is a 'moment' at the end, the peak your set out to reach. I doubt there's any woman who doesn't enjoy it, and I'm sure you can't wait for yours, eh? But remember a lot of the pleasure does come from the path to reaching it, you can enjoy a pleasurable and satisfying session masturbating WITHOUT reaching orgasm, and definitely without reaching it every time. Using your imagination/fantasy is a key area too, rather than just concentrating on technique. Let your thoughts run as free as you like while your enjoying yourself. When everything starts working together you should find you start enjoying those orgasms you're looking forward to. Also, the fact that you haven't quite managed to 'finish off' to your satisfaction at 15 isn't unusual or anything to get stressed about. It takes a little time and practice for a girl. Friends might be mistaking little 'peaks' of pleasure for full-on orgasms, and tell you they 'have them all the time when they masturbate' while you're expecting something more? And us blokes, well we climax every time we masturbate. It's just the way we're built? What I'm trying to say is that you can't get that 'WOW' feeling of release unless you work-up the tension first. If you see what I mean. Hope you've got something out of our little chat. Have fun!
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You're at an age where you start to become curious about your body and sex. Also with you being so young, I honestly would prefer you to masturbate rather than having sex with boys. It gets to complicated with boys, you don't want to have so many partners by the time your older anyway. Then there's all kinds of diseases out there that young people wouldn't be to honest about. So the safest way is to do it yourself until you've reached a appropriate age. I would suggest that you Google some things like how to masturbate. You have to get to know your body so go ahead and fill around until you get it right. There's really no answer to your question because everyone's body is different. Like I said before, Google a few things, watch some YouTube vids and explore your body.
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Kitten Lover is an idiot and if you can use this website you can certainly use google. Go google "Masturbation tips for women" and you can spend the next five years working through a small portion of the millions of hits that search will generate.
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Want my advice? You should be studying not masturbating. Honestly, if you want a job when you're older, the climate is tough at the moment.
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