Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do?
Don't worry. Just eat right, take care of yourself, and be friendly. Oh, and pray. It will happen eventually. God didn't want us to be lonely.
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I'm doing an extreme makeover on myself this holiday break and I need to change my whole style,especially my clothes. I'm in highschool and I've been going there dressed up as though this was elementary school. I'm still suprised no one has ridiculed me for wearing overalls the other day. I'm 6 feet tall and I am not model thin. What styly could help?
You know what. Overalls have their place, but usually they make some people just look dumpy. They are definitely good if you need it for work. Just try something new or different and look at how things fit on you in the mirror. Reading magazines, asking friends, and going to the mall are good. I like thrift stores too for zany accesories.
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How can I get the entire United States to convert over to the metric system? We're like the only country that uses idiotic "standard" units of measurement that make no sense, it costs our companies money and it's annoying to learn about two systems in school. I need to launch a huge enourmous campaign to take over the country!
Good luck. I think maybe we didn't spend enough time on it in school. I remember it being one lesson, and then it drives you nuts when you are trying to reason stuff out in science classes. People are just stubborn.
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Why am I black?
You were just made that way. Just try to be the best person you can be, and other people will see you as a wonderful asset.
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Okay like who did it???Why did you take my chocolate????
It looked lonely.
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For the ones who have read the Ex-boyfriend Gone Mad and Dreams Column, I need your advice again. OK, so some of you said that I might have feelings for him. And some of you said that I might miss him. I can't like him!!! Number 1: My parents WONT allow it. Number 2: My parents wont let me see him anymore. Number 3: I have a boyfriend that is true to me and is everything I wanted out of a guy. But the love that my boyfriend and I share...it so different. And I don't want to like my EX because I don't want to be a "slut". Plus I don't want to like my EX because I will just end up getting hurt again. But then, WHY am I having dreams about him EVERY night? And today, I did the "ABCDEFG" thing with the soda can and it landed on "J" which is the beginging letter of my EX boyfriends name. I talked to a physic and she said that I am gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life. What do you think she ment by that? Like, am I gonna be with him as a married couple? Or just friends? Or am I just gonna know him for the rest of my life? What are all of the signs about? Why am I getting them anyways? I need your advice ASAP!
P.S. I will be seeing my EX at a play that he is in because my friend is in the same play that my EX is in. Should I talk to him or not? If so, what should I say? Or do??
Sincerely,
CONFUSED!
Try to focus on what you want. Avoid seeing or thinking out your EX as much as possible. Probably the only reason he is still attractive to you is that your parents don't like him. I have found the more time you spend being or talking with your fella, the more you forget about the other guy. It is not easy, and it will take a long time.
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I have a internal test in a weeks time on organic chemistry and I have realised that although I understand the work at the time I seem to be completly stumped when presented with a question to work through. Does anyone have any good rvision sites or tips?
Or a miracle...
Have you tried talking to some of your classmates? Maybe you could get them to help you understand. Try a study session with someone you trust.
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There's this boy (let's call him...Bug) and I have this friend (lets call her...cool)
Well, I used to have a big crush on Bug last year and I told one person and that one person told a lot of other people (which I don't really care because I wanted him to know) Well...Bug is just so cute, even if he is a jerk. I started liking him last year. I didn't find out he was a jerk until this year though.
My friend, Cool, was at her locker this year, and Bug came up to her (and I was right next to her at MY locker)and Bug was like "Hey, Cool, will you go out with me baby?" and both Cool and I knew he was only joking and being an @$$.
Cool just gave me an embarrased look and then I didnt say anything but big was leaving and he called Cool a HEFFER! and I was just steaming becasue yes...my friend is kind of big but its not something that she could help becasue she is big boned. Everyone calls her the black barney (not to be racist, but a lot of them who cal her that are black too) and it gets me so mad that they call her that. Anyways, I gave Bug such a cold look, and this is when Im pretty sure he knew that I liked him. He looked at me kind of sadly and then when we were walking past each other in the hall...I bumped into him hard on purpose and he just looked at me.
Then all the rest of the days I would just give him such a dirty look and roll my eyes. And Im so mad becasue my friend transferred schools because of him and his friends making fub of her on the bus.
The problem is though....I think I still might like him. He keeps giving me looks (not necessarily looks that he likes me or that hes interested) Its just makes me so confused and I don't know what to do becasue even if I DO still like him......I dont want to.......or at least I think I dont.
Please help me out
Wait until he grows up. If he abuses your friend, he will abuse you later.
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It's obscenely early in the morning, I've not yet gotten to sleep. How do I GET to sleep?
I turn up the earworm in my head, and repeat the lines I can remember over and over until I sleep. Or turn on PBS or read or listen to some classical music.
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What do I do if I think I'm obsessed with sex?
Get another hobby.
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Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're pretty good friends. The thing is though, he's not really looking for a girlfriend right now since he just broke up w/ a serious one. I think I love him and I would wait for him to be ready if I had to. But then there's this other guy... I'm almost 16 (the first guy's 17) and this guy's 20. My parents are kind of sketched out about his age and so am I. I met him at the mall a few days ago and we exchanged phone #'s (not something I do very often). He called me and says he wants to get together. I don't really feel too comfortable around this guy, and I barely know him. Also, if I get into something with this guy, what about the first one? Do i just forget about him? I'm really confused right now. I don't think the guy's a psycho but I don't know for sure. The first one is basically all that I've been looking for.
Sorry for the length, but I really need some help
Thanks a bunch!! ~Pom
Run. Do not hang out with Mr. 20. You can when you get a little older, but I did. And I was sorry. We shared some of the same things, but he was ready to get married (and other annoying bad things) and I wasn't.
Your other friend may come around after a month or so depending on how long the relationship was.
There are nice guys your age, you just need to find them.
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ok ive never had a boyfriend and i really want one but i think its because peopl ethink that im fat... i really dont know what to do because ive tryed everything to loose weight but it jst wont happen and i have so many thing going on in my life and i just want someone whos there for me please help me......
Ok. I'm fat. People love me. Find someone who likes you for who you really are. There are people who prefer persons that are a little chubby. I would quit focusing on what other people think, and work on being healthy for yourself and your future.
Try to make healthier choices. Eat fruit instead of candy. Think about what you are eating and how much you are exercising. A simple 15 minute walk once a day will at least increase your endurance.
I feel ya. I have been fighting it all of my life, but there has always been friends or someone special for me.
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Lately I've been chatting a lot with this guy. He's a friend of a friend. Anyway, it's been about 3 months now and we have loads in common. We decided to go see a movie together(not a date) next weekend. Trouble is, he's very smart, and when I'm chatting with him I always feel like I'm too stupid for him. When we meet, I'm afraid it might show even more, that he might start talking about things that i don't have much say in and he'll find me unworthy of his time and won't want to be friends anymore. How should I act, or should I plain out cancel the meeting and just stay friends on msn?
Ok. All of the below. And...read something. The news, Newsweek, msn.news anything. It will give you something interesting to discuss and debate. There is always something nutty or exciting going on in the world, and reading extends your vocabulary.
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I keep seeing signs everywhere that read, "You are a brain in a vat." Is this the central computer trying to tell me that the world around me is just an illusion? Or is some philosophy major just messing with my head?
A duck.
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Me and my best freind really like eacother alot. We have a history of 'relationships' in the past, but it was middle school, and I don't really count it...But anyways, back to the present. He was my date to homecoming (which was a month ago) and at the dance, he told me he still liked me. Well, i've always liked him, so i thought everything would be cool and work out. A week passes by and he says nothing. I confront him, and he tells me he wants to wait for his license. Well, he now has his license, and has for a week. But he still hasent done anything. He acts like he likes me, and I'm posotive he does, but i'm tired of waiting. Hes told all his friends (mostly girls, that ask him whats going on between us) that he was going to ask me out this week, but guess what? HE HASENT. What should I do? (And no, I dont want to be the one to ask him out) Thank you!
Go out with someone else or ask him.
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I've been living on my own for a while but now I'm thinking about moving in with a girl I work with, because frankly I'm bored living on my own. Will I get sick of the roommate thing really fast or what? Before I always thought roommates where what you got if you couldn't afford to live alone... I can afford it, I'm just lonely.
I understand completely. I miss my roommate because the house seems so HUGE. Having a roommate is a dance between what you can deal with and what they can deal with. I find if you ask lots of questions, you have a better idea of their living habits. Make some out ahead of time with a friend or parent. Ask them what their pet peeves are, where the heat stays, and their rules about cleanliness. You might also ask when you can have the house to yourself too. You have to work together to make the house a happy place; this includes chores such as laundry and dishes.
You might also consider getting a pet or planning parties at your house for friends instead of a roommate. You can volunteer. You can foster sit for abused and lost animals. You can visit nursing homes and just talk to people.
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is it really bad that i think i'd rather go on a ski trip over thanksgiving than go home to see my family? they drive me nuts.
I understand. Since my family was divorced, I hate the holidays. Maybe you can make a deal with your family. If you go somewhere Thanksgiving, then you will definitely be home for Christmas. It worked for me.
Best Wishes.
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How does one keep their voice in good condition during the three-month span of everyday musical practice? {ie, practice for a musical}
I'm aiming to a lead role and I want to know how to keep my voice intact.
Whatever you do, don't whisper or clear your throat by making noise. It is in effect slamming your vocal chords together. If you strain your voice and it doesn't get well after a day or two, see a doctor. If you must clear your throat, suck in some air. The others below me are on the money as well.
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my best friend for over eight years (i'm only 13) doesn't wanna be my BFF no more. i don't really understand. she said it has something to do with me acting too smart around other people. what the fuck is going on with her???
Forget her. She is either going through a phase or its over. It happened to me when my friend decided to be popular. I didn't want to be like those people because I thought it was stupid. Even best friends come and go. Sorry.
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Just so you know, I will be ETERNALLY GRATEFUL if you answered this, I REALLY need help on this matter...
There is a boy in my school. He is studly and flirty and *appears* to be a good guy. I used to admire him (NOT as a crush or anything, just as a person), but now I'm not so sure. This year, we are both freshman and happen to be in most of the same classes. He is kind to me and I apperciate that, but a few weeks ago he asked me what the homework in French class was. I told him and he asked me to see my workbook so he would know what pages to do (keeping in mind that this is the class right before French!) me, being the idiot that I am, gave it to him without question and he eventually gave it back. I was expecting it to be over but it wasn't. At least twice a week he would ask me for my workbook and I would continue to give it to him. One day, though, I was absent and hadn't yet gotten the homework for French and he asked me for my book. I explained that I wasn't there to get it and thus didn't have it done. He looked at me and there was disappointment in his eyes and voice, but that's not what threw me off. What really got me going (although I didn't show it at the time) was the fact that he said: "oh... it's ok then" as if he were FORGIVING me for not doing my homework so he could copy it! I'm angry at him, but I'm afraid if I tell him off then he'll do something nasty (spread a rumor, make fun of me, etc). But then if I don't tell him off, he'll just keep taking advantage of me! What should I do?
Don't let him have your notebook. Period.
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