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Can normal Nair 4 minute formula be used on the bikini line? or do you HAVE to have a special kind (link)
nope it can be used there :)


I believe I have OCD. I was reading online to look up some symptoms and I seem to meet them all. I am 14/ f and I was wondering how I should bring it up with my mom. I am going to the doctors on Monday for a physical so I can play sports so how should I ask my mom to bring it up? (link)
a lot of people have ocd, and you can have it in many different ways. like me, i dont like having doors open idk why. you should just talk to your mom, and she should be able to understand


my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice? (link)
its nice; shes helping you.
you dont need to be offended


Can normal Nair 4 minute formula be used on the bikini line? or do you HAVE to have a special kind (link)
You can use nair for the bikini line too. It usually says where you can use it on the back.
Good luuck!


ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f (link)
First off, change your password. Something she can never guess. Write it down where only you can see it incase you forget and don't save it on you myspace. So when your mom tries to sign onto it, she wont be able to. Chances are she'll come asking you if you changed it. You can start then by saying "I changed it because i only want ME to go onto my myspace." and just let her know how you feel about it.
Let me know how it goes.xox


Hey, guys, can you help me pick out a new screename to make? I like very original screenames, usually with no numbers. But 0's are okay for o's. Right now my screename is just my name. Idk if this helps, but a few of my interests are Skateboarding brands (any, but volcom especially), Ashley Parker Angel (His Songs, so don't suggest ashparkanggirl or something like that). My friend suggested "volcom baby.." (with a number) and I like that but idk if I want a number.

Anyway, any help is fine, even different, original screenames, are fine. Anything funky & different. Thanks! (link)
1)x volcombaby7
2)xoLetUGo13
3)burtonbaby762

Sorry if i wasn't much help!!


my one friend wants to help me with my imperfections..i mean she hasn't said it but i know she wants to.so should i be offended? or should i think its nice? (link)
You should be happy that you have a friend that is willing to help. Me and my friends always help eachother and tell the truth..and sometimes the truth hurts but its a lot better when you hear it from your friends. It doesn't mean their trying to be mean; but being a good friend and helping you. If you don't want her to help you with your imperfections, just let her know.
Let me know how it goes.xox :+)


ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f (link)
um.. i would recommend making a new account. lol. just delete all your friends and stuff and make your own account but dont tell your mom. and i would recommend deleting your history after checking your new account cuz there is still a way she could know. if you dont want to make another account, change your password.

you can also tlak to her about how you wanted your myspace to be "yours" and you'd think its better if she got her own..

hope i helped


I have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now (a year and a half on and off) and I really love him. I have talked to my mom once before about birth control (once when we had been dating for 2 1/2 months, once when it was 5, then once again when it was 7.) It's nearly eight months now and I really wanna get on birth control. But my mom's scared that by doing it she's giving me permission to have sex and do whatever. I explained that if it arises, I just wanna be as protected as possible. I feel weird having to be the one to always bring it up, but I want answers now! My boyfriend is away in rehab for 2 months so I figured now would be a good time to bring it up. How can I talk to her about it and get her to see my side?

I rate high, thanks! (link)
well...next time you pass by a doctor office or a pharmacy,just say mom listen before you say no listen to my side of the story...da da da(your side)...and then just wait if yes tell her thank you and this is NOT premission to do those things...if no just get really really ticked off and hide in your room and stuff till she breaks(it workd for me ;) thz 4 ratings


93 S-10 blazer H/O Vortech v-6 3k miles on rebuild, great power, no noises, has rough (not stalling) idle. New fuel pump/filter/ plugs, wires, cap, and rotor. 21 mpg avg. Any thoughts? Timing was set also. (link)
well how high is it idling? actually... if it's a rough idle it's probably because it's idling it a low RPM range. when you redid the timing did you make sure to turn the distributor cap in the proper direction to try and line up the firing order properly? i know chevrolet distributors have to be turned just the right way clockwise to make things right. now when you redid all the other stuff with the engine rebuild did you rebuild the fuel injectors and the throttle body? a rough idle is usually a sign of an engine running too lean and not enough fuel getting into the engine. i say check your injectors and throttle first then come back to me.


I have this swimming party on July 24. I weigh 147, 5'1, so im chunkey, or "fat". Well, I want a flat tummy. I will feel way much better. You know. Well this is what i have to loose weight, (my idea)



100 crunches, 100 calf phrases with 10 ilb. weights. go up by 5 every day.


eat only grilled chicken & fish. Salad, fruit, and drink water ONLY. Walk 15 minuetes after every meal. Smaller porportions. Skip exercise for only one day, that day only eat fruits & veggies.


So, does everyone think this is a fine plan? Thanks!


-Also. I want it to be REALLY flat. You know? soo, i meen im willing to do anything extra, i just dont have a bike and i CANNOT run. Thanks! (link)
sounds pretty good. you should be able to lose about 10-15 pounds at least. its almost imposible to have a flat stomach, so you have to practice sucking it in. like beauty pagents have to suck it in also and theyre like stick thin. if you want to be really flat stomached, i would suggest doing 150 crunches, going up 10 every day. (and take breaks, drink lotsss of water)


How often should I change my razor? I have the pink venus and I shave like 3 times a week. Four at teh most, 2 at the least. But in the winter, I only shave like once a week, sometimes two. So how often should I change it? (link)
it depends. you should change it when you dont feel its as sharp anymore, and your legs arent as smooth after shaving. about 1 month.


Hi i am looking for a good job where you sit on a computer a type all day and get good pay. All my friends say accountant is that job but i dont know so whats a good job for that. heres some jobs people have told me.

Accountant
Mortgage
Finacial
insurance

but if you have any more please tell me. And tell me whats best out of all of them. remind you that i dont like to stand up in front of crowds and give a speech so no job that requires that.


Thankz Austin (link)
a receptionist does a lot of typing. they also answer phones though. same goes for a secretary


What are some good ways to flirt with a guy but not making it seem desperate? Thanks!!! (link)
laugh and smile a lot. especially laugh ALWAYS at his jokes, then he'll feel special. and always look into his eyes


I'm a female, 13 years old, and I wear 34b for a bra size. Is that big or average for my age? (link)
thats about average


Okay. So In september Im going to go see Kenny Chesney in Concert!! Which Im super excited Ive seen him 3 other times and this time im going with my boyfriend! WHICH ive always wanted. Someone that enjoys country music as much as I do. Im starting to go tanning as much as possible again since i just got a new job. but I know i want to wear somethin EXTRA cute. i think like the whole dress with cowboy boots thing is cute. but a dress for a concert? ehh. & i want it to be girly not a plaid shirt with jeans and boots. cuz its still gonna be hotter. I know ill get my hair and makeup done and i want the look to come together completely. Any Ideas?

THANNKS! (link)
you could always wear a long shirt/tunic, with jeans (a lot of celbrities use this look) anyways, then you can wear boots (you can tuck your jeans in, or leave them out -- whichever you prefer)


Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what? (link)
well, there are 3 other people that are going, so sit next to your best girl friend and another guy. if he comes on to be like what the fuck is your problem?


13/f

My mom and I are both 32A. I've been growing since I was 9, and my mom started growing really late. Does that mean they won't grow anymore? And also, do breasts go on the maternal gene or paternal gene? (link)
you should keep growing up to about 20 (some may be longer or shorter, it depends on the girl). also it can be a maternal or paternal gene, or a combination of both


My neighbor asked me to mow her lawn for $25. I mowed the front yard and the sides of the house and got $15. Now all that's left is the back yard.

I tried to mow it today and I looked down at my feet and ants completely covered my feet. So I took off my shoes and ran home, slapping my feet to get them off.

Should I tell my neighbor that I won't mow her backyard anymore?

15/f (link)
you shouldnt tell her that you wont mow it. then shell tell other neighbors your unreliable or something. just wear pants and closed shoes. also, mention to her the ant problem, or buy some raid yourself


well, i have an ash blonde hair color. it's blonde but it has like this touch of ash and it's a very uncommon haircolor. like not that many people have it. I LOVE MY HAIR! but, recently i just was wondering what i would look like as a brunet. like, a light brown/medium brown hair? but, i'm afraid to use hair dye because what if i never get my ash blonde back? is there anything i can use that won't harm my hair as much.l i hear celophane might work and henna. but, i wanted to get the opinion of others before i went ahead and did it because i
just want to see how i look like with brown hair, i want my blonde hair back after (link)
you could use color pulse hair dye. it washes out in 8-10days, and you can see if you like it that way :)




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