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well im like the luckiest girl ever because i have the cutest, funniest, sweetest boyfriend in the world and i know he really loves me. the problem is, everyone else likes him too... and he's always telling me about it. every other day he tells me "i think sarah likes me" or "john said ashley wants to go out with me". i know he's not making it up, cuz i hear those things too. and i dont really think he's saying it just to make me jealous, cuz he kinda brags about other stuff too (like how his coach says he's so good at football). i think it just makes him feel good that all these girls like him, and he likes talking about it. but it REALLY makes me mad!! i just want to tell him "i dont want to hear about which girls like you!" but on the other hand, maybe i should be glad that he's so open with me instead of keeping it a secret. should i tell him to quit bragging about his fan club, or should i be thankful he tells me things and try not to let it bug me?

"and i know he really loves me." That should be your answer. If you know he truly loves you, what's the problem? You should be glad you know what's going on. That way you won't have any doubts or be suspicious about anything. If he was planning to go off with any of the girls he tells you about & explains how they like him, he wouldn't tell you about them in the first place. Maybe when he mentions another girl liking him or bragging about something, laugh & say "haha really?" & then change the subject. A lot of girls wish they knew which girls like their boyfriend & what he thinks of it. Your boyfriend probably doesn't know it offends you. If it really does bother you, maybe you want to say "Oh I know this guy that likes me" & see his reaction to it. If he gets offended or uncomfortable, talk to him about it. If he doesn't, then you know he doesn't mind you talking about it like he does. Only try that if its really bothering you though. Otherwise I don't see it as a bad thing.

-hope that helped!♥

about how many calories do you think is in a small canoli?

There's approximately 140 calories in a small sized cannoli, but depending what's in it exactly could make it vary. Some cannoli's [even smalls] are around 220 calories.

-hope that helped!♥

yesss thankyouuuu very much but where do i open up the g file ?

Right in the My Computer section. There's a folder that says Removeable Disk G under Devices with Removeable Settings. You double click that & it should open.

-hope that helped!♥

thankss but yeah i do everything right but nothing pops up on my screen my computer doesnt recognize it

It goes into the MMC/SD section of your computer. Then you have to open up the drive it's in [mine's G] & it should come up. It would be easier looking in the manual.

-hope that helped!♥

arite well i lost the wire to my camera for the computer and i was jw how do you get pictures from your memory card on to the computer? i know u stick it in itt but idk what to do from there

It all depends on what type of program you have on your computer for pictures. In most programs, it'll give you the option of uploading pictures on your computer from the card itself. You'll have to look around on the program or find the manual. If not, go to-

Start
My Computer
Removable Disk G [this may change depending on the type of computer/disk you have. If it is not this one, leave one in my inbox with the type of card you have]
Upload pictures

Your computer will basically upload them for you & save them whereever you want them to be saved. If this doesn't work, leave me an inbox with either the type of card you have or the type of program you're using. Try all of those things though. Also, you can google it by typing in the type of camera you're using & asking how to upload pictures on your computer using a memory card.

-hope that helped!♥

when i do pushups why does my lower stomach hurt?

When you're doing pushups, your straightening your back & holding your stomach in, causing your stomach to ache a bit. Push ups are actually good for your abs.

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where can i buy uggs online or at a store for under 75 dollars. if you give me a site make sure its a reliable one that is popular not some random one that is probably fake and please no ebay

If you buy uggs for under $75, they're fake.

http://www.cozyboots.com/

They're a bit more than $75, but not by much. If you don't mind fake ones, here's another site-

http://www.konasports.com/Uggs.html

-hope that helped!♥

Which code do you use to create those hearts?

& hearts ;
use that with no spaces!

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what are the best ray bradbury works? he has so many. which ones should i read besides illustrated man and fahrenheit 451?

I've actually read Fahrenheit 451 in eighth grade. I thought that was a bit weird because it was such a complex book, especially for MS students. Anyway, here's a website-

http://www.raybradbury.com/books/books.html

Everyone has their own opinions, so you can check out some of his best books on that website & read about them. That way you can chose books to read that you think are more interesting.

-hope that helped!♥

Very Straight Hair--Wont curl
Have tried Moouses and Gels-Dont work
Havent tried Curlers or Curling shampoo yet
What should i use that is easy and will DEFINIELTY make my hair curl?
Grad is coming up and im in desperate need
Not just for this occasion, where i could just get a perm, but just for whenever
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!

I would suggest washing your hair with a curling shampoo. Everyone has different hair, so I would suggest going to a local drug store or grocery store & looking for the right shampoo for your hair type. Then after you wash it & dry it, curl your hair with a curling iron. There's a bunch of different brands. You can go to walmart, cvs, eckard, jc penny, kohls, etc. They all have good curling irons. If that still doesn't work, try going to the hair dresser to give you ideas. They always have different shampoos & curlers to try & can give you tips.

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Well obviously I wear pads when I sleep. I wear the ultra long ones. But I put it so it comes about to the top of the lips, & it goes back to about the middle of my butt. But for like the first two nights of my period I always get blood on my underwear in the back. If I move it back any further, I'd get blood on the front of my underwear. My mom told me to double up pads, but I feel like I'm wearing a diaper. Any other ideas?

Doubling up can become uncomfortable & sometimes don't even help. I would suggest wearing old clothes when you go to bed & put a towel down where you lay just incase. Also, you can try layering your clothing so it doesn't go through.

-hope that helped!♥

ok so a couple of days ago i asked a question about a jeans vest from abercrombie.
now i came to the conclusion that its like out of style and the lady must have bought it a while ago before she gave it to me for my birthday
so now my question is
would they let me exchange it even if its out of style?
or would they even let me exchange it?
like the tags on it and everything
cause i dont wanna keep an expensive A&F thing that ill never wear
id rather buy something i woud use..
=/

Yes, they'll let you return it. It doesn't matter if it's out of style or not. As long as you have the tags on it & it isn't destroyed you'll be able to return/exchange it depending on the store.

-hope that helped!♥

does anyone have the lyrics to the new single by the goo goo dolls .. "before it's too late" i really want them. thanks

http://artists.letssingit.com/goo-goo-dolls-lyrics-fiction-before-its-too-late-jgtqz11

Next time use google!

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19/F

I just started work in the middle of nowhere... I'm a couple hours' drive from the nearest doctor, and I don't have a car, so I can't go. That's why I'm asking here.

Symptoms:
- Painful urination
- Urgent need to go, but only a little bit comes out
- Only happens while I'm working!

I don't think it's a UTI, because those affect me all the time. What could it be?

Also, if it is a UTI, what can I do to clear it up? I've been trying to drink tons of water to flush my system out, but I'm not peeing any more. I don't have access to cranberry juice, either.

Thank you!

None of us are doctors here, so as soon as you are able to go to the doctor, go. You should always be more safe than sorry. Although those do sounds like symptoms to an UTI, it could be something else.

http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003145.htm

Follow that article. It has all the possible symptoms & diagnosis. For UTI's, the best would be cranberry juice, but since you don't have any, that could be a problem. Here's a website-

http://kidney.niddk.nih.gov/kudiseases/pubs/utiadult/

It could be a coincidence that it only happens at work, but no one knows for sure. Like I said before, it would be a good idea to go to the doctor asap.

After checking those websites, you can narrow it down to what it might be. If your symptoms become worse, I would suggest talking to your boss or another coworker.

-hope that helped!♥

i just plugged my ipod into my computer to update it and the screen froze up. do i just leave it alone until it turns off or what do i do?

Is it at the 'Do not disconnect' screen? If so, go into the iTUNES library & go to File, Sync Ipod. If you do not see sync ipod, your ipod isn't connected & you can unplug your ipod & follow these steps-

http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=61705

If your ipod is connected to the computer & has the 'do not disconnect' screen, follow these steps-

http://docs.info.apple.com/article.html?artnum=93492

If you have any other questions, you can leave one in my inbox or browse the Apple website. Also, there's a manual that comes with your ipod in the box.

-hope that helped!♥

difference between jealousy and envy?

I don't think there's a huge difference. Jealousy & Envy go hand in hand basically. Here are the correct definitions-

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/jealousy
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/envy

If you check out the thesaurus [on the same site] they are each others synonyms. Basically jealousy=envy & envy=jealously.

-hope that helped!♥

i've been dieting and now i'm a size 1--how do i maintain my weight? any websites with suggestions of calorie intake would be great. thanks

Definitely maintain your weight. A size 1 is fine. It all depends on your age, gender, height, & weight. It also depends on how athletic you are. Generally, I'll say 1700-2000 calories would help you maintain.

http://www.freedieting.com/tools/calorie_calculator.htm

Fill all of your information in there. It's a lot more accurate & can help you maintain it.

-hope that helped!♥

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?>

Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, you might have to just break things off. This probably is really difficult for you, since he was the one you lost your virginity to. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who cheated? In a lot of cases, once a cheater, always a cheater. He basically destroyed the trust in the relationship. Without trust, a relationship can rarely be successful. You shouldn't stay with him just because you had sex with him though. You'll get hurt down the line, especially if he cheats again. No one on advicenators can tell you what you should do. It's your decision, he's your boyfriend. Just know that you do not want to get hurt again & regret dating him/breaking up with him. Difficult decision, but it's one that has to be made sooner or later. Talk to him about it. Be defensive, do not just give in to what he says. Give him a chance to explain, but don't just go along with it. You have a right to be mad/upset & be angry at him for it. Even though he did take your virginity, that does not mean he gets to take your pride with it. Stand up for yourself & talk to him about it. Explain how you feel & hopefully you both can work something out. There's nothing wrong with being friends.

-hope that helped!♥

ever wonder why Abercrombie & Fitch clothes are sooo expensive? after all, they look similar to American Eagle clothes...although, i've heard that abercrombie clothes have to be expensive because they don't have child labors as to american eagle does...

I personally dislike Abercrombie & Fitch. I like American Eagle way better. They have a variety of sizes & you don't need to be xs. I think it has to do with the label. When Abercrombie first came out, their pricings were a bit expensive, but nowhere as near as expensive as they are now. Since Abercrombie is popular, especially with kids & teens, they know they can up their prices & people will still buy them. Unfortunately, it's basically a popularity issue. I know a lot of people that buy their clothes & the clothes aren't even that cute. I've also seen people wear Abercrombie shirts that look exactly like shirts in regular department stores & they buy the Abercrombie shirt just because it says Abercrombie. It's all a label thing. There is controversy going around because in other countries, they used children to model their clothes. You've seen some of their clothes, pretty revealing & not something a kid should wear. There are child labor rumors going around also. If you ask any representative for Abercrombie & Fitch though, they would say that their material is way better than a lot of clothing stores & how great their jeans are. I'll stick to American Eagle.

-hope that helped!♥

hi!I just like to ask what will i do if i had this guy friend that i have a crush on and I'm afraid to let him know that i have feelings for him becuase he might pretend that he like me as well and i'm also afraid that he would just act the same way like before coz before his so "chick boy" what should i do?..

Tell him. Why? Because you don't want to be wondering years later if you told him how you felt if you guys would've worked out. Trust me, you don't want to regret not telling him. Even if he may not like you, at least you'll know & won't be wondering. Plus he is your friend. He most likely won't be mean about it. You guys can still be friends after. He may even like you.

-hope that helped!♥

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