im almost 15 and ive never kissed a guy..am i a loser?
HELL NO YOUR NOT!!!!!!! you just haven't been ready or found the right guy yet. don't feel like you have to do something just to fit in. be your own person. good luck and be careful!
love always,
*~~~shana~~~*
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i was homne alone bored n i want on the computer. i typed in some random webiste and up came porn. it gave me a virus n broke my computer..i dont know what to do and i am afraid my mom will get all mad. i didnt mean to look up porn but if i tell her what i was doing she will go to the site and think i did...help.
dear umm,
the same thing happened to me. so just tell your mom what is going on. it's better to be honest than to let her think that you did it.
*~~~shana~~~*
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my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop
dear i luv2shop,
guys can be very ignorant sometimes. well it shouldn't matter if the guy is hot or not. it matters what's on the inside. be yourself and if
guys still don't like you then screw them!!
(not litterally of course) but you know what i mean. just blow em off. a girls gotta be herself
GOOD LUCK AND BE YOUR OWN PERSON!!!!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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Hey!..i have a really really strong relationship with my best friend...she is like the world to me...she lives right down the road..but now im moving and i think the reason were so close is b.c we have known each other for 10 years..and im afride that when i move we wont be as close....help! what do i do to keep are relationship as strong as it is..i dont no what i would do if we weren't as close as we are now
~XOXO~
it won't be easy. but just remember her agress and phone number and call her like every day. and e-mail her. send her stuff. and just always
be there for her. good luck
*~~shana~~~*
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what are the side affects of birth control? and can i get it w/o telling my mom? if so how...and what is the day after pill and all that? and how can i get it?
hun,
you need to talk to your mom. she would be more grateful to get the pills for you than to get you baby blankets. she will understand.
good luck!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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Hey umm im 15 and im preg. i need to know will i get my period?
dear ugh,
no you won't get your period unless you have a misscarrige. but whatever you do don't get an abortion. plez! well i know that it must be difficult to be pregnant at any age. if you want i can help out some more with any questions or concerns you have don't be afaid to ask me.
good luck!!! love always,
*~~~shana~~~*
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I have a friend who is totally in love with her boi friend and we're both 13...well my prob is that she's thinking of having sex with him and i really don't think it's a good idea at all...what shud i tell her?
dear uh oh,
you can't control your friend but you can be there to support her. just express the dangers of sex. and how it will affect her. also tell her that if she's gonna have sex that she needs the pill. and condoms. not just one or the other. unless she wants to be pregnant.
hope i helped some. *~~~shana~~~*
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I'm 15 years old + a virgin. My best friend has had sex with her bf. My boyfriend isn't a virgin, either. I feel so left out since I've never done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. I'm so curious about it, but I don't wanna do it unless I'm totally in love and I'm ready. I really wanna know what it feels like. What should I do? I dont wanna be known as a little virgin girl for not doing it, but I've never been some1 to give in to peer pressure!
dear should or shouldn't,
just wait. you'll know when youre ready. don't do things that will effect your life just because others are. at least you know that you won't be a pregnant teen mother. no offense to anyone tho. but atleast you won't have the worries of pregnancy until youre ready.
hope i helped *~~~shana~~~*
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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do
16/f
you just aren't ready. listen to your body. just wait until you know that it's time. so just
wait. good luck *~~~shana~~~*
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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!
guys only look at boobs! (lol) well, in my experience the guys do go for the bigger chested girls. there are some who go for the smart kind.
which i wish there were more in this world. but if you would like i do know some breast exercises
that will help round and enlarge them. so if you do just let me know. good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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ok i LOVE my boyfriend and all but i dont know if he loves me back b/c everytime i say i love u on the internet hes like ya luv ya and im like ok... ( i think that) and i always wonder if he likes me or not.
please i could use yalls help on to see if my boyfriend likes me or not like tell sum things like how u can tell that ur boyfriend loves u,
please and thank u!
luv yall... yall help so effin much!
sweetheart00
the all time good way to tell is ask him what color your eyes are. but i think that you should
just ask him what's wrong. tell him how you feel
and just be honest. good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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i love my friend from down the street. WE shared so many things together, ive known him since i was 2. He grabs my one day and tells me he loves me and kisses me softly. I really thought he meant it. The next day my total flirt best friend comes and steals him away. I know he still likes me but it was so hard seeing them flirting. He may like her. I am hurting so much inside knowing that there could be someone else besides me for him. What should i do? i really love this guy.
dear triangle,
my best friend did the same thing last month. i just told her that i hated how she had hurt me and that i was really hurt so go tell your friend how you feel. she'll come around and to
humor yourself go slap the guy. lol
good luck. *~~~shana~~~*
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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!
dear this sounds,
many girls go thro that. just take a deep breath before you go to shower. remember that the girls have the same things you do. so don't be nervous. good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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Me.Boy.my BFF. U do the math. I really like this boy but he likes my bestest bud, but she likes a boy who likes me! Y cant we all just get what we want.? How can I get the boy I like to like me so my bff can have the boy she likes too and everyone is happy?
dear i really,
friends come first. just let your friend be happy then you will. but don't let her push you or decieve you. just be there for her. and if
that doesn't work tell her how you feel.
good luck!!! *~~~shana~~~*
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I'm 15 years old & I have an over protective mom. She makes sure my shirt doesn't show my chest at all and my pants do not show any of my underwear. She barely even lets me out with my friends! I mean, its summer and I wanna stay out late with my friends alot. Its not like I have to study or get up early for school! I just want to have a little more freedom since I'm getting older and have always been responsible and never got into too much trouble. What should I do?
i think you should talk to your mom and just tell her how you feel. i recently did that with my mom and it helped alot. so just try it.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
you are a very in-depth girl. i almost cried when i read this. it's tru how mean people can be. and i am sorry that you are not friends with the boy anymore. you won't find many like you so stay the way you are. you are a beautiful
person. i mean on the inside where it counts. you have givin me the advice that i need.
thank you
love always
*~~~shana~~~*
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Hey theres this girl that im just dying to be with and she knows that I like her. Im 16 and shes 14 but her parents dont let her date guys my age cuz theyre more near her brothers ages. What should i do to get her parents to let her be with me?
well first you all should sit down with her parents and explain to them how much you all like eachother. then if they still disapprove then just start out as friends for a while until her parents come around. good luck.
*~~~shana~~~*
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When i go back to school i wanna have that different look. Ive got a great style and I always get compliments but I wanna put an impact on this world. So tell me things like good hairdo's (cause i can sometimes run out of them) cute fashions and stores and anything to make me different then the year before, you know? I mean tell me your take on the latest shoes, clothes, stores, hair styles, hair cuts I mean ANYTHING. Thanks......... give me good juicy answers pls! And if some of the things are a little expensive I can handle that ;-)
ok let's start this.
clothes- something new that no one has seen before. throw together a bellish-bottom sorta pants with a short t-shirt that's light blu. with a custom denim jacket. just buy a regular denim jacket and glue like studs and stuff on it.
make it yours.
shoes- a trendish yet classy high heel. preferably a toeless, strap on the back kind. you should get a black color. but not too high of heels.
hair styles- a layered around the face with highlights(that will stick out but blend at the
same time) it's always the good choice
stores- just your local clothes store. i live in a small town so i don know much about that.
but if you need anything else just ask.
good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?
i went thro almost the same thing but in 1st grade.lol. just show strut them around and wear shirts that show a little cleavage but don't make you look like a slut. guys will do anything to see a girls breasts. or you could just push them to the side. good luck
*~~~shana~~~*
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Theres this kid nd hes like my brotha i love him so much but he just like randomly desides to hate me madd bad its soo f*ckin stupid he seriously randomly woke up one morning nd desided to hate me i mean wuts up wit that? now he gives me all this bullsh*t bein all b*tchy nd sh*t nd its soo shady i mean like seriously we used to be like best frends wut is up wit this!! why would ne body do sumthin like that! i swear to god i didnt do ne htin to deserve the shit htis kid is givin me!! i need some help here.. :'(
well he's probably just maturing. when guys mature they try and act all cool cauz they think that it's attractin girls and crap. well they don't know this but they are complete idiots when they do it. so just give him time and he'll come around.
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