about

I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

advice

So when a guy is done fingering a girl, does he usually wash his hands?? is this normal??? Thanks in advance!

Yeah. It'd be weird/gross if he didn't wash his hands after.

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Does anyone know if its possible to unlock an iphone to use with verizon without having to pay for unlocking software? Thanks!

It could be possible, but you'd have to have someone who knew how to unlock phones. You can always try buying an unlocked iPhone off of Ebay or something.

But, as far as I know, you'll probably need to buy the software unless you know someone who knows how to unlock phones.

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when your married what hand a guy soppose have it on ? right or left?

The ring goes on the left hand.

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is it actually legal, if your over 18 to smoke weed?

It won't be legal no matter if you're 18, 40, or 7. So no, it'll still be illegal. Age doesn't change that.

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well i jus signed up for one called blogger but i have no clue how to do it lol and are there any other ones that are better ?? thanks in advance !

www.livejournal.com

www.xanga.com

www.tumblr.com

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My favorite time of the season is fall. I love it so much that everytime I go to the store I always buy some little something to add to my decorations, all of which are being stored in a box in my attic. My question is, today Sepetember 1st, is it too early to decorate for the fall season? My family and I just moved in this neighborhood less than a month ago and I don't want them thinking we're odd balls lol. I really want to go ahead and decorate, the inside of my home is already FALLtastic lol, but just not sure if it would be weird. Thanks for any help I can get.

No. Go ahead & decorate for fall! :)

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15-F
I HATE my height. HATE it.
I'm 5'5"
And a buncha people are shorter then me. I feel like I tower over them.
Is there any natural way to make myself shorter?
I doubt it, but I'm really tired of my height.

Unfortunately not. :(

The only thing you can do is wear flats or flip flops or something. Don't wear shoes that add height to you.

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okay so i have to wrtite just a random fictional story, anout anything i want for english. does anyone have some really good plot ideas, cuz i am TOTALLY coming up blank. school appropriate please.

thanks!

Your story can be about anything you want, correct?

Is there anything you wish was different about your life at all? You could write about a story about a dream life but give the character a completely different name. Maybe write about being famous or something.

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how do you actually have sex

If you don't know how to have sex, then you're probably too young to even be asking.

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im cheating on my bf. how do i tell him? im fifteen.

Invite him over and tell him in person. Start out by saying that nobody is perfect & everyone make mistakes. Then just tell him you've been cheating on him.

You have to expect him to dump you though because not many guys are willing to stay in a relationship after having been cheated on. I honestly don't think you're ready to be dating though. If you cannot stay faithful to somebody, then you shouldn't date.

You also need to remember that while cheating may just be some way for you to get over a problem or to have fun, that it really does hurt other people and can actually scar them. Some people don't date for a really long time after because they can't trust anyone with their emotions. So you really need to be careful about what you decide to do when it comes to that.

Just tell him though. There is no other way to do it. However next time you're in a relationship & think you're going to cheat, end the relationship you're in first so that you can do what you want freely without hurting anyone.

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Well I like a couple girls but I like one more but I dont know if they like me a all I can say I'm not the best looking but I'm also not the worst. Any advice.

If you like a few girls, you really need to determine what it is you like about them before doing anything about it. It's okay to have crushes, but liking everyone is a no-no because you can't have them all.

I guess once you determine what you like about them, and then decide who you would like to be with most, you should talk to her (them, if you pick 2 girls) and become her friend. Don't jump into anything romantic too quickly because if she doesn't feel the same, it'll make you feel kinda dumb, and upset. Become her friend and then ask her how she feels about you. :) I'm sure you'll be okay.

And don't worry about looks - not every girl out there is shallow!

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I'm Longer A Virgin, Bhut when I Had Sex For The Second Time and He Was Telling Mhe That He Could See That I Was Wet.! bhut I Wanna Know What It Looks Like.? I Have An Idea Bhut I'm Not Sure

It doesn't have a "look," it's just like looking at water. It's something that you can feel, not see.

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I am obsessed with sucking dick. it's all I think about all day long. I need to get my mind on other things. any advice?

You need to see a therapist. I don't wanna call this an addiction because you're not actually giving oral, you're just thinking about it a lot, but I guess you could call it a sexual addiction.

Either way, you need to seek professional help. It's not a bad thing to like something, but when it gets to the point where it's all you can think about & it's consuming your life, then you need to talk to someone about it so you can get yourself back on track.

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should i have sex?i am in love and we have kissed,and we love each other like mad.he is crazy,and all my used friends to nag me aboutdumping him,but now they want us to sex!i would love to,but all my friends nag and are putting preasure on me too!help!from;desprate house wife(to true!) ps im21and a gorgeousgirl!

Your friends do not control your relationship. If you want to have sex with your boyfriend, then do it because you WANT to - NOT because your friends are TELLING you to.

However, I think that if you're so conceited & so into yourself, you shouldn't even start a family. Self obsessed people should not try to take care of others.

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so basicly i have an issue.
me and my parents, mostly my mom, have never gotten along. I am a slightly stubborn teenager, and i don't like addmitting i am wrong if im not. My parents are pretty strict and unreasonable with most things. and when i talk to them about it they never understand what i am trying to say and just don't seem to get just how redicules they are being. We fight all the time, and i am pretty good at defending myself, but all it gets me is more fights and trouble. What always happens is we yell at eachother for a while, and ten ignore eachother, and eventually forget about it. but noting is ever acomplished and they never admit they are wrong. Yet they expect to admit when i am wrong, and they yell and me, but expect me not to yell at them. And they just have way too many rules and things i should and shouldn't do that its imposible for me to be perfect. but compared to all my friends, and all kids really, im a pretty good kid, i put up with all of there shit, and they still give me the responsiblities of an adult and the freedom of a two year old. any suggestions on what to do becuase i really cant deal with this anymore?

Don't you think you deserved to be screamed at?

They yell at you, and you are to listen to them - not yell back. When they are talking to you, shut your mouth until they're done. Talking back & having a smart mouth is what's getting you in trouble. Listen to what they have to say, and when they are done, then you may talk. Do not talk back, do not scream like a baby, and listen when they say something to you.

You cannot expect freedom when you are acting like a baby about things. Another thing, it's their house so it's their rules. If they want to have millions of rules (whether you like the rules or not) they can have them because you are under their roof & they are the adult & you are the child. They don't have to make things easy for you if they don't want to.

There's nothing wrong with parents who look out for your well-being. I understand where you're coming from, but chances are I'm older than you, and I'm pretty sure I am, and I've played this game with my parents. You can either behave & respect them, or you can act like a brat when you don't get your way & kiss all your freedom goodbye! :) Pretty simple.

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i went to this party about two months ago and missed one period and now i should get my second one but its not coming either, im sure we used a condom & i am on birth control.
why is this happening??

The condom may have broken. Stress can prevent your period. Birth control is only around 99% effective.

I suggest you take a pregnancy test. Anything could've happened.

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can a woman contract hiv or aids from a man just by the penis going inside of the vagina, and nothing at all comes out of it?

Absolutely.

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I was fingering my girlfriend today, she orgasmed, I took my fingers out (two), and there was some blood on them, just a little. She said it didn't hurt and was actually surprised to see it. I figured it was because I was going a little rougher than usual. Her period isn't for a couple weeks.


Anyway, just wondering if that was normal/common/whatever.

You probably just popped her cherry or scratched it a little. It's normal.

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My boyfriend of over 4yrz cheated on me, he was drunk and kissed another girl...Do you think I should forgive him??? He been crying and is truly sorry he said, and he said he was drunk and it didnt mean anything at all..I found out becoz the girl told me..this was over 1 month ago...Now he is not friends with her and wants nothing to do with her at all.( they used to be really good friends) thats all that had happen a kiss.

This really isn't our decision. The only thing we can do is give you some insight. In my opinion, I wouldn't take him back.

Your boyfriend obviously cannot be trusted. He cheats on you, and uses alcohol as an excuse. Who's to say he hasn't done this before? I'm not saying that he has, but it could be a possibility.

I think if you really love your boyfriend & can honestly forgive him, then go for it. But if it were me, I wouldn't do it. Drunken thoughts speak a sober heart.

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So I need help for when I next dye/cut my hair =D
I currently have this:
http://img269.imageshack.us/i/img4277e.jpg/

But, I loved my hair before
Which looked like this:
http://img17.imageshack.us/i/img3915n.jpg/

So, shall I have a full fringe or keep it as a side fringe?
& should I keep it red or dye it black?
Thanks :D

I think dying it black but having the red underneath would be awesome. Do the full bangs. I like both hairstyles, but the bangs going straight across looked really pretty on you. :)

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