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what does it mean when you have like a peace sign infront of your mouth and you stick your tongue out?

it's oral sex/eating out a girl.

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When I'm running I always get cramps. My boyfriend said i drink too much water before but i don't drink any at all. Any explanation? It could be that i don't have enough potassium. I'm not sure though, any suggestions on how to run, breathing? Anything to keep away the cramps? Thankkkyou, I'll rate.

i agree with the too much water thing... drink some but not more than one bottle. I had that problem... then i started doing sit ups before i went out and it worked for me (stretch your abs after you do). hope it works for you!

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What Do I Wear To A Valentines Day Party? Thats Not A Dress? Thanx!

you could wear nice jeans, a red dressy top and a black or white blazer if it's dressy or just a red top with something that most people are wearing.

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okay so your making out with a guy and what not.. how do you let him know you want him to go under your shirt.. without actually saying it? cuz i mean come on that'd sound kind of stupid. the more answers the better!

thanks much.

put his hand on your boob over your clothes and see if he tried to go under... see if that works with him.

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Hey. I'm planning on getting married in September. I have yet to buy or even look at wedding dresses. I have no idea what size to get or anything. So, I need yalls help. :] There arn't any stores around here that sells dresses, so I'm pretty much confinded [sp] to online.

I'm a size 0-1 depends on the brand.
I'm a 32a cup...if that matters.
I don't want a short trane, but one without a one at all will be fine.
I love ones with lots of beading and such.
I doubt I can get one this cheap but it would be amazing to have one under $250.

Anyways, I just need some websites that sell cheap but nice gowns.

Please don't say Ebay. I've checked them.

Thanks.

camille la vie has dresses. i was buying a dress for a formal and there was a lady that was also very petite trying on a wedding gown that was really pretty. www.camillelavie.com

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I'm a female teenager and I had sex for my first time yesterday and down there is in a little bit of pain, is that normal?

yep, it's normal.

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I live in New Jersey. With a Provisional License at age 17, am I able to drive out of state (particularly into NY) legally?

Some people tell me they can, and some they cant. What do you guys know?

Thanks, Adam.

I'm almost positive you can but just during the day.
what part of NJ are you in?

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so i have no idea what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. we both splurged for christmas soo i spent around $250 on him then. im not made of money lol especially since i spent all that and havent been workin alot lately soo i dont know what to get him thats reasonably cheap [maybe $30-45 max] but is still good. im thinkin about makin him a cake and i cant do the picture of us in a frame deal [my computer wont print the pics right]. he'll be 17 and hes not into sports but he plays guitar and is just learning to play the keyboard and he likes the Fender brand [i already got him a Fender hoodie & shirt for christmas] and he likes funny stuff like the stupid/"guy" humor kind of thing. any ideas? btw concert tickets are not an option k thanx. 16f.

the cake idea is good. it costs like under $1 to get a picture printed at walgreens so you can try that. i would try spencer's to get something with guy humor... you can find something inexpensive there. you could make him a buildabear and record something funny so when he presses the paw he'll think of you.

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my mom's birthday is coming up in a couple of days so i'm probably going to take advantage of our day off tomorrow to go shopping & get her something. unfortunately, i don't know what to get :\ i know, i know this is your typical question..but my mom is realllly hard to shop for. please don't say 'make her something..it's the thought that counts' or 'help her around the house' or 'buy her a giftcard.' sure, all those things are nice, but they're not for my mom. lol. for the past couple of times, i've gotten her a fossil watch, pearl necklace, clothes..just stuff like that. she doesn't need a back massager-she's got one of those. lol no food items. no pots and pans. so can anyone pleassee help me? if it helps, i'm 16, female and i'd really appreciate it if anyone puts their dime in:) thanks

i bought my mom a jacket she really liked for her last birthday. it was from target and it was about $50. maybe today, go shopping with her and go into the stores that she likes. take notice of what she likes and looks at and then go back another day before her birthday and get it for her.

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I hatee studying! I know rightt.. who doesn'tt? Like i'm at the point wheree like i'm not gunna do it! && i know i have to! Is there any way to make it fun.. ohh yeahh it's spanish if that helpss.

thankss

write your vocad words and a definition out a coupletimes to get it to stick or make flash cards or make up a song about whatever you need to learn. at least look over it a bunch and you should do ok.

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okay. my boyfriend and i have been together for about ten months & tommorrow hes coming to my house while my parents are at work. now, we've done this many times. but all we've done is like, fingering. & im not scared to give him a handjob but i feel so .. unexperienced. like i'd mess up. but i dont want him to feel like hes the one giving all the pleasure.

help, please?

have him show you what he likes.... it's worth the moment's awkwardness in the end. i can give you a website if you'd like but i don't know who uses your computer, etc.

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say for my sweet 16, i wanted to go out for dinner with about 6 of my close friends .. since it's my birthday party type thing, would i have to pay for dinner or would they pay for their own food? what's appropriate and not rude? if it's not necessary that i have to pay then that'd be great =] not to sound cheap but dinner for 7 or 8 people can get kind of expensive

You would have to pay for everyone... sorry.

you could have your friends come over to your house and eat a fancy dinner. have your mom pull out her china and nice table cloth and sit in the dining room. have the invites say its a formal party or have anoyher fancy theme like paris or something. order catering or have your mom make regular food and decorate it like it comes from a fancy restaurant. if you need anything else, lemme know.

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I was just wondering , what would be a good present to get a boyfriend for valentines day? Cause i never know what to get them. Hes soon to be 14 and i would really like some ideas. Thanks!

cookies, a teddy bear, a handmade valentine, cologne, a picture frame.

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Hi all. I'm soon to be interviewed regarding the link between drinking a lot, and taking sexual risks. This might mean going further than you wanted/planned, not using protection, etc - but only while you've been drinking.

My interview is going to be specifically about teenagers, so I thought I would ask the younger people on here for their input. Do you think there is a link? How strong do you think it is?

Thanks for any help you can give.

against common belief, i don't really think there is a strong link between the two. there might be some, though. A lot of people i know drink and get people drunk to do things... not just spur of the moment and often times "i was drunk" is just an excuse. some people take a shot and say they are "so drunk" and do somthing they can't do regularly. Everyone i've ever drank with can tell you they've never done anything sexual because they were drinking so that's just what i see.

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does anyone have any tips for making out? like fun places to be or maybe new positions to be in? the same old same old is getting pretty boring

touch each other everywhere, go somewhere where you will be alone, roll around, go in the woods on a blanket, try doing it like the spiderman kiss... just have fun with it.

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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.

What does everyone think of this plan?

-Jordan

I know a girl that did that... he never liked her after. he just took the blowjob and got a different girl. even if he did "like you" it'd be for the blowjobs... not a relationship. it's not worth it.

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Yes i know it's only January 11 but i'm already thinking of Valentine's Day. i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months. i'm trying to think of what to do for valentines day for him. i want to make him something because i'm a crafty person. anyone have any ideas of cute things to do? i have an idea of one thing im going to do ( it's a scrapbook sort of thing) but any others? thankss!

the scrapbook is a cute idea. you could put together a craftey things with some reasons you love him. make him a valentine with stickers and glitter too.

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My boyfriend wants to finger me. I don't really care if he does or not but I'm just nervous because I never got fingered before.
I shave down there but i don't shave the whole area I leave the middle. From a girl's point of view do you guys shave the whole thing and if yes, step by step direcions would be helpful.
Also where the thighs sorta begin (near the vagina area) should I shave that too? Please don't tell me "do whatever is comfortable for you
Also I'm still a virgin so is there a chance while he's fingering me, my cherry could pop? If it does what do I do at that moment?.

it'd be good if you shave your bikini line and most of it (at least a good trim). that's the most common i think.
there's not a good chance that help pop you're cherry. ask him to use one finger (vs. 2) or just rub your clit if you don't want to fell pain/have that awkward moment. don't be nervous, you'll be fine.

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what are some good places for tote bags? like i wanna use one for school to hold some of my books for school. i'm looking for one that has pockets inside and is sturdy. big enough to fit like 2-3 binders. and is cute! also everyone has them from like hollister, american eagle... but i want one that like no one else has! thanks so much =]

I use a big very bradley and a gold one from victoria's secret. you can try hot topic (they have some not-goth ones too) or a department store.

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i dont know if this fits in this category but oh well.

im allergic to codeine and i dont know what pills have it in them.

can someone give me a list of pills that have it in there like does ectstasy and xanex have it in them?

i think vicoden does but im not sure.
so can someone please do this for me.

usually drugs that are actually prescribed for you are 1. not something you are allergic to and 2. usually listed on the label.
if you are asking about this many of them, you are probably using them for the wrong purposes. don't do it. that will do more to you than a reaction to one you are allergic to in the long run.

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