i know this is kinda wierd
13/F
im trying 2 put in a tampon
maybe im 2 young? i dont no but i got the smallest kind they sell and lubricant (whatever that is) and im trying to put it in im folowing the directions but it hurts and im worried im doing somthing wrong because i stopped and it still hurts maybe its in the wrong hole? i dont know but is it suposed to hurt? and what can i do to make it actually go in and not hurt? thanx!
No worries. EVERYONE has trouble their first time, so dont be frustrated if you cant. Also, youre not too young..many 13 year old girls and younger can successfully put in a tampon.
http://www.ehow.com/how_1185_insert-tampon.html
That will help you a lot!
If that still doesnt work and youve seriously tried a LOT, go to a doctor. You might have too small of a hole to insert it which is only a problem for about 2% of teens. But still, if its really a problem, go to a doctor.
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im going to make this a short as possible lol . alright so ive liked this kid for about a year and about a week ago we were at the same party i got totallly hammered and went back to his house, we had sex. i lost my virginity to him. he told some of his friends they told theres, untill my brother found out. my brother punched the kid in the face, and now he wont even look at me. i dont knowww what to doo, he told my friend he wasnt pissed but i can tell the whole situtation is still on his mind and bothering him. losing my vriginity was a big deal, drunk or not. i would talk to him but i already know that i wouldnt know the right things to say and i would totally freeze up. I NEED HELP.
thanks.
and if this helps you out:
im 16/f.
When you say, "he wont even look at me. i dont knowww what to doo, he told my friend he wasnt pissed but i can tell the whole situtation is still on his mind and bothering him." are you talking about your brother or the guy you had sex with?
PLEASE message me back, because Id love to help. I just dont want to totally mix up the story and give you the wrong advice :]
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I was wondering if you have seen that movie in the past and if so, what do you think of it? If you've seen it, do you think that most days it seems like the only way for girls to get dates with a guy is to have oral sex and risk catching a STD?
I havent seen it. Sorry.
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ok, first of all, why the heck would anyone want to shave "downstairs"?!? are you suppost to? do guy's like it that way or something?
i'm just unsure, you see a lot of questions on here about shaving down there! any advice would be apreaciated,
p.s. i'm 15/f
thanks
I agree with you. Really. I think if theres hair down there, its supposed to be there for a reason! But, a lot of guys like when girls shave down there because most people think body hair is disgusting. Unfortunately, thats the way it is and will be for awhile. Guys like girls that are cleaned up everywhere. But, SOME do like hair..some guys even prefer it and get aroused by it. Thats the hard thing..you never know what youre gonna get..the guy who likes it or the guy who doesnt. SO, do what YOU want. Its your body. I'd at least try it once if you want. Just to see what it feels/looks like, etc before you bash it. Youre not supposed to..its perfectly fine if you dont and honestly I wouldnt do it unless youre a) planning on having sex or b) planning on getting in a bikini that you can see the hair. Its NOT worth it to do it if you dont have a reason.
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how can you get more inbox questions on here?
Answer a LOT of questions all the time and try to keep your rating high. To do this, you must give very good answers and avoid stupid questions. :]
Also, it helps to get your name out there. Become a moderator. Thats probably the best way to get known on this site. Add people you like to your "favorite columnists." And add to your profile that you accept inbox questions.
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hi, well i live in england, and was just wandering, what america is really like? is it like in the movies? because over here, its crap, everythin is grey, all the colours turn grayish, because of the weather(dark, dull windy etc). my uncle came back from new york recently and told me it was amazing, but he had to go so i didnt get to hear anymore. any help?
Just so you know, I'd probably KILL to live in Europe! Especially England. Its beautiful. :] I love Europe. No one likes where they live..honestly. I mean we all want what we DONT have. I want to be you, you want to be me. But, its not possible. Just think of all the great things about living in England. You get to see an amazing part of the world every day. You have easy travel to countries people never get to see in a lifetime (France, Spain, Italy, Germany & so many more.) Its funny you mention that the weathers rainy because I live in America yet I havent seen the sun in FOREVER. Its raining right now! Because its winter. Anyway, America doesnt seem special to me because I live here. Some great things about America are that we have freedom to do whatever it is we want. The "American dream" does really happen to some people. Im not sure how America is portrayed in movies, but thats not very reliable. Im sure England is different in movies, too! I guess what Im trying to say is, we have a LOT of problems in America that arent shown in TV and movies. We have poverty and crime. Were NOT all rich like people think..not even close and the poverty rates are going UP. We are virtually one of the most HATED countries around the world right now and we are also stereotyped as obese which is a real problem. New York City IS pretty amazing..but thats only a small part of the U.S. I would enjoy where you live and when youre old enough, you can try living here. Its a nice place, but then again, so is England.
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Can you get pregant from dry humping? Like if both people have all there clothes on.
~Eli
No.
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no. i'm not anorexic. and i'm tired of people asking me that! see, i'm reallllly skinny. and short [i think that's part of it.] but still, i eat like a pig, well not really, but i eat normally. it's just that i'm REALLY thin!! it sucks because i have ppl that start rumors at school that say i'm bileemic or anorexic! it's like.. what, so u want me to stock up on McDonalds and get fat or something? i dont know what i should do!!! help!
People always want to know "Why." Why is the sky blue? Why is she so skinny? And, in high school I feel like no one can accept you just eat a lot because THEY do too and they gain weight. Different body types. Youre NOT alone though..we get a lot of questions about this on the site. You shouldnt care what they think. Theyre jealous, insecure and shallow. Who are they to tell you what you are?! Just kindly say, "No, Im not," nicely because you dont want to trash people with anorexia to distance yourself, "Its a SERIOUS disease and Im happy I dont have it. Im fine with my body..sorry youre not." and leave it at that.
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hey, ive been trying to think of something to do for my 16th bday party. i was gonna do midnight bowling, but someone else did that a few weeks ago and i dont want to seem like im copying them. does anyone have a cool, original idea? thanks :)
Hmm well, whats your price range? :]
You can always just have a party at your house. -AKA - not a lot of money! You can transfer your house into a cool club, actually. Ive done that before. Clear out your basement if you have one or garage or any other spare room you have thats big enough for people to dance and stuff. Take the furniture out and hang christmas tree lights everywhere. Put candles everywhere, too :] Turn off the real lights and make it dark-ish in there. Get lots of food and tell everyone they have to dress up to get in. Put on music and everyone can just dance/talk/socialize, etc. Put on a movie in the background without a lot of sound for decoration/something to look at that will grab peoples attention. For example, maybe put on My Super Sweet 16 to inspire people to party? Or your favorite movie or music videos. :]
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I have no idea how to scrunch hair, but it looks so cute, so i wanna try it. can you give me like what you do step by step and tell me which gels and mooses work best and how to apply them?
thanks :)
Ps. i have brown naturally inbetween curly and wavy and bout 2 inches past my shoulders.
THANKS
Scrunching GEL is KEY. I use Pantene PRO-V Style Curl defining scrunching gel. It works really well and you can buy it anywhere! :] So take a shower and wash your hair, then take your hair and put some gel on your hands and push it up towards your head. Do this a few times with all of your hair and then put your hair in a MESSY bun or 2 buns if you have a lot of hair. Then, go to sleep. I never dry my hair when I scrunch. When I wake up, my hair is still wet because of the gel.
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Okay, I am really nervous about getting my braces off. I mean, I am worried that those brown spots will be underneath the brackets and my teeth will look gross. I brush my teeth twice a day with whitening toothpaste for the recommended two minutes and wash my mouth out with listerine. Is that enough? It's really hard to floss!
Mmhm, you'll be FINE! I didnt have ANY discoloration..and I didnt do any of the things you mentioned. :] So, Im sure your teeth will be fine. If not, you can always use Crest Whitening Strips after you get them off.
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what are some really awesome kinda unknown bands that are like panic at the disco, mcr, the red jumpsuits,fall out boy, stuff in that catagory. also some other unique bands like the dresdon dolls (i doubt anyone really knows them though,there from MA) or any underground band. or also some more popular bands that are like that? i really like the music,its interesting. thanks
Boys Like Girls.
Taking back Sunday.
My Chemical Romance.
Dashboard Confessional.
Unwritten Law.
The Starting Line.
Spitalfield.
The Rocket Summer.
Paramore.
We Are Scientists.
Say Anything.
Jack's Mannequin.
Motion City Soundtrack.
Boys night out.
Weezer.
Augustana.
Cartel.
Brand New.
Underoath.
Jet.
Senses Fail.
Mae.
From First To Last.
Copeland.
The killers.
All American Rejects.
Halifax.
The Early November.
Pencey Prep.
30 seconds to mars.
Bayside.
Death Cab for cutie.
Hit The Lights.
Providence.
The academy is.
Hot hot heat.
Funeral For A Friend
June.
Armor for sleep.
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I eat 3-5 small meals a day. Is that bad for me or better than eating 3 large meals?
Better. Doctors are saying eating small meals throughout the day is MUCH better than eating 3 large meals because it speeds up your metabolism and digests food faster if it is in small portions.
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Do girl prefer it when a guy doesn't show his boxers..or does (but not in that oh-my-god-half my-arse-is-hanging-out way). and do girls prefer designer or not *-).
I like when a LITTLE boxers show up. But, not your whole ass sticking out please. Turn off, turn off, turn off! When I say little, I mean it. Like an inch. I dont care about designer. As long as their cute. AKA no spongebob boxers or something of that nature. :]
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Hey everyone :D,
I'm Hailey, and im 15 years old (freshman in highschool)
I need advice on my love life lol. I like a boy named jake that goes to my school.. but hes a Senior. Hes 17. I don't know what to do.. Do you think that a freshman dating a Senior is wrong? And if you think its okkay, do you have any advice on how to get to know him. He goes out to lunch and i dont have any classes with him, occasionally I see him in the hallway and i start up some kind of small talk untill we get to our classes, but it usually doesn;t branch off from there. Any siguestions? Thanks a million! i REALLY appreciate the help!! :D
hailey,3
Its OK. If youre ready for it. If youre going to try to actually have something with this guy, KNOW the risks. He's older. Seniors have more experience usually in things like SEX, drugs, drinking, etc. Which means he MIGHT pressure you to do things. Also, he's going to college probably next year. So, know that, too. Ask him for his screen name. Or suggest you hang out this weekend.
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how do you make holes in your jeans
do you just cut them or what? ;/
I rub sand paper and bricks on my jeans :]
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HELLO EVERYONE! I need some help, I want to enter my school pagent but I don't know what I want to do for my talent. I don't play any instruments, but I really want to win. I want to be original though, and I know of this one girl that's going to sing, and she can sing, I can too, but i don't want to sing. PLEASE HELP ME Find something to do.
I would write a poem.
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Okay, well... I guess you can say I`m one of the go-to-girls in my school. A lot of people look to me for advice, and i`d say I have a lot of freinds but, few of them are with me on making the right descisions, my school, my grade; its so stupid! everyone`s two-faced, no ones honest... everyone in my grade [and I`m a Freshman] has done drugs, drinks on a regular basis, and/or has had sex or done something sexual. when I was in eigth grade, I had some amamzing teachers with whom I connected so closely with. They were like family; they always encouraged me to make the right descisions. well I am I mean, I`m not a goody-goody, I mean I flirt with guys and I mess around but I`m not even considering loosing my viriginty. && when it comes to drugs & alcohol? no way! thats just stupid. its trendy in my grade to get fxcked up and look like a mess. I don`t wanna get into that, not smoking, not drinking, not drugs. Its hard though when everyone thinks you`re a p*ssy because you won`t do the stuff they want to. I need some encouragement, or even advice, please.
Okay, well I cant say I feel EXACTLY the same as you do..it would be hipocritical for me to say I agree when I do some things you listed. However, I only do it a little ONCE in awhile. I HATE when kids in my grade brag about how "fuckkeedd up" they got this weekend or how many beers they drank. It seems like thats all they want to talk about. Ive heard girls have conversations with eachother about how much throwing up when you drink a lot sucks. Also, drugs PISS me off. I hate when people talk about doing serious drugs, like cocaine! It makes me so angry that kids are doing this to themselves and their parents. I feel terrible when I see kids that feel like they have to do it. But, its even worse when they have to brag about it to everyone in class. My opinion? Youre smart. Youre mature. You need to forget about stupid people..dont try to preach to them. They'll learn those things are STUPID and BAD...the hard way.
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so i have to give this 10 min speech. and i have no clue what topic to do. so far ive thought of
school dress codes
off campus lunchs
abortion
how technology is changing life.
but i feel those topics wont be good enought to last me 10 mins.
it can be either a persuasive speech or a informative speech.
please help me.
its part of my final.
and its due of friday january 12th.
online bullying.
body images.
eating disorders.
addictions. (drugs, alcohol, etc.)
UNKNOWN/new addictions (computer addiction)
drinking age.
driving age.
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Okay my little brother is sooooo anoying! He comes in my room bugging me to death! Then when my friend is over he comes walking in saying can I do that to? He just won't leave me alone what do I do?
Talk to your parents about enforcing your little brother. Tell them they NEED to help you keep your privacy. I know its hard having a little brother, but try to be patient with him. Also, if he's old enough - talk to him! Tell him you love him, but youre a teenager and you really need space of your own..privacy and sometimes, just time to yourself. Tell him you respect him when he wants to be left alone and that he should do the same. And remember to be nice to him and spend time with him..that might be why he bugs you so much. :]
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