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ok, i have this friend, actually she is my girl friend, her name is kelly, and kelly is really good friends with amy. but amy is one of those people that her mom babies the HELL out of. and my mom keeps tellin me to try to stay away from those types of people cause in highschool and colage they are the ones who end up doing drugs-sex-alchohal (sp) ect... and i really want to keep kelly away from all that. But like i said, they are really good friends. i feel really bad for trying to break up their freindship, but i am affraid if kelly is exposed to all that, then she will too...im just really worried about her. should i go through with my plan to break them up (both friend wise and im posotive amy is atleast bi-if not completly a lesbien) or should i just try to ignore it and nothing will prolly happen. please help!

I think that it is really sweet that you care for kelly that much. Most people don't care about who their friends hang out with. Anyways, I think that kelly might take it in offense because most girls feel that they can be friends with whom ever they want especially if it is a good one. One day kelly will see that amy isn't that good of a person and stop hanging around with her herself. It doesn't seem like the right thing to do but once she realizes it she will see how right you are and it will stregthen your relationship. Just let her learn her mistakes while she still can otherwise she will make the same mistake again in the future. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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Im a 14 year old girl and last year, my cousin broght his best friend to one of my family pool partys. My cousins a year younger than me, but his friend/neighbor was my age. We talked all night and had a great time. We hung out other times too and became best friends. We've been going out for 9 monthes now but my cousin HATES it! At first he was makin fun of us, but he's been trying to break us up ever since. I'm not trying to take my bf away from my cousin, but my cousin thinks i am. I love my bf soo much and i want to spend as much time with him as i can, but i do let them hang out alone sometimes. My bf is getting kinda pissed at my cuz and he'd rather b with my sometimes, but my cuz is soo pissed and he like treats my bf like shit when hes soo nice to him. My cousin thinks i treat him bad, by going out with his friend and it really upsets me, is there anything i can do? Thanks!

Just talk to him about it if you already haven't. IF he still isn't cool with it, then just take sometime between the three of you and you can invite some friends of yours and of your cousins and all hang out together. Just try to be as normal around your cuz as you are with any other of your friends. Otherwise he will need to get over it cuz it seems like you really like you bf. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda

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Ok. First, my sister is graduating this year. Second, im getting ignored a lot lately. Its been really bugging me and i cant stand it. All my parents talk about is my sister and how shes growing up. Im not jelous but it would be nice for my family to acknowledge me once and awhile. I love my sister and im gonna miss her when she goes to college but shes not the only one on the planet right now... should i talk to my sister and parents about it or what??? UGH!

I think it all depends on your family relationship. If you have a good one then go ahead and tell them how you feel. They probably don't even realize that they are doing this and once you tell them they will try to stop. They are only acting this way because they are excited and surprised on how much she has grown. It's not like they are doing it on purpose. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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well since it's spring, and it's getting a lot warmer, I really wanna wear tank tops and halter tops, but I'm really self concious about my back. I have acne on my back, and even though I dont have a lot, I'm really scared that people might see it if I wear clothes that'll show my back. please help me.. is there anything I can do to treat my bacne?

Well I have the same exact problem. I'm extremley self concious about it and I do use proactiv for it. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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One last question Ill stop bothering you.. You dont have to be 18 to buy one at the local drugstore right?

No problem. You don't have to worry about bothering me, thats what I am here for. I do not believe that you have to be 18 to buy one. I think that you will be fine to get one from the drug store or where ever. Hope I helped! Again! LOL.

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Ok.. well first of all my younger brother has a mental disability called Autism. I try rally hard to be nice to him and understand him but sometimes he drives me crazy! But my older sister just doesnt understand him AT ALL and doesnt try to help him and is always mean to him. I try to talk to her but shes just mean to me too... What should i do?

Well if your sister is getting to a point that she is like yelling at him tell one of your parents. You obviously care for your bro since you stand up to our older sister for him. Maybe your parents can help her understand more. Hope I helped!!

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How long do you wait for a pregnancy test? If its an at home one.. About a week?

I would say so. I think about a week that or few days should be fine. Hope I helped!

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I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo

Well I think that it depends on what type of person you are. You want to be friends, but you don't need her. Is she a good friend than other being blabby? If she is then just tell her that stuff you tell her you would like to keep private. And if she isn't just stop talking to her, but not completely off. Keep that line of communication open. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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i got this ex that only asked me out cuz of a bet and we ended out liking eachother i wana be friends with him again and we dont talk at all any more what do i do

FORGET THAT LOSER!!!! (He really asked u out again) He's a dumb butt. He's nasty and he looks like and orge. Probably shrek's bro. You know that I'm only saying that because I know you, but anyways it depends on you. Do you still like him enough to go out with him again. plus, u have to realize that you have not been talking to him in a long time. You went out and then stopped like cold turkey. Now all of a sudden he wants you back. plz, LoLo get real. Plus I thought you were taking a break on all of this BF stuff. But anyways it depends on your feelings and on your trust factor. You never know, it could be another bet. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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Hello,
I am going to weading with my boyfriend on Saturday, He puts his arms AROUND me and i put my arms around his neck, we are always close as close can be and nothing can fit in between us.. Well is it stupid to put my head on his shoulder? jw... Do guys like or hate it? Just wonderin.. Let me know ive done it before but i realy dont know if he liked it...


Ohh by the way im a 13/f and hes a 15/m

Thx

Well I think that it is absolutely adorable!!! I would love to dance like that with my special guy!! If anything just ask him. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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ok, i enjoy thinking up movies...im fourteen years old, and everytime i watch a movie, i take into perspective camera angles, acting types...im more than likely going to be a film director when i get older...but anyway.. is there anyone who knows someone or a site that i can find out more about what all i need to do with this idea, like i know writting and stuff, but i would like to find out if anyone knows anyone with contacts so maybe i can get an email address to a good director (like Ridley Scott or Randell Wallace by any chance) so that i can contact them about my idea, and maybe even make it into a movie... thanks a ton, ill post the name once there is a chace it will be made! thanks a ton!

I don't know any good directors, but there is a game that is coming out soon that allows you to make your own movies. Me wanting to become an actress and all am getting so excited that it is coming out soon!!! The game is called Movies or The Movies. I've seen it described as both. Sorry I couldn't help more!!
~Linda

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Ha, this is a really weird question, but my friend and I were talking about a show that we used to watch when we were younger on Nickolodeon. In this show, the characters were always using the phrase "Don't hold your breath!" Neither of us can remember what show it is from!! I believe that the two characters were African-American brothers, but am not for sure. If you have any idea what it is please answer!

Fili and Kili

KEENAN AND KEL!!!!!!!
YUP YUP!
Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx!

I used to be the shy girl in my class. And now in high school everyone is like, "What happened that that quiet girl, Linda?" lol. It's hilarious. I'm still kind of shy until I get to know someone, but after that it is history. Just start to talk to people and Don't STUDDER!! lol. And speak up don't speak quietly because some of those people may want to actually hear what you have to say. You also have to have thick skin and don't care what people have to say about you!! Hope I helped!
~Linda

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Well, I have this HUGE problem. I started to be friends with 4 girls, named; Jess, Rachael, Chelsey, & Mary. Well, ever since I started hanging out with them, everyone's changed, and started to hate Mary, (supposebly they've hated her for a while, but they just never told her) Mary always cuts people down for no reason, at all! It really makes me mad, she'll pick on homosexuals and people who aren't PERFECT. But she isn't either. She'll say that all these popular guys like her, when she's not popular at all, and they wouldn't pay attention to her. Well, we got into a fight the other day because I was "ignoring" her all day. I seriously don't know what to do! When I'm around her it's always like I'm not paying enough attention to her. I'm her only friend, and it makes me mad, because I feel like I'm losing my 3 best friends, and I don't want that to happen. I don't want to be Mary's friend, but I just don't know how to break it off with her. Help? Please.

If she really is your friend then she can handle the truth. When she talks junk about other people, just tell her that it makes you uncomfortable, you can still try to be her friend, but just tell her what you don't like to hear what she has to say. Tell her to keep it to herself. If she doesn't change then she will slowly drift off. Trust me. I've hung around with people that talk and act mean towards other people and I am now free of their stupidity. lol.
Hope I helped!
~Linda

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SRY THIS IS LONG ILL RATE A 5 TO ANY1 WHO ANSWERS IT!!!

okay..im really confused and have no idea what to do...im stuck between 2 guys...the one guy i went out with for about 8 months and we recently broke up about a month and a half ago...well all of a sudden after a month of not talking to me he calls me and says he misses me and wants to get back together with me...the other guy i went out with about a year and a half ago...we have been good friends ever since we broke up...and he recently had a gf but broke up with her bc he liked me and wants to go out with me...i dont know what to do bc i like both of them sooo much and it's so hard...i thought it was going to b easy bc the one guy i thought we werent going to talk to again...SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!

Well obviously you like both guys and i personally think that you should get with the one you went out with a yr and a half ago. This guy seems like he still likes you if he still wanted to be friends with you and didn't just drop you like cold turkey. lol. Thats wat I think you should do. The other guy just says that he wants you again, sure thats great and all but he hasn't even tried to reaquaint himself with you. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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this guy has liked me for practically two years now, but hes so shy and he never did anything except tell me he liked me. well now we've got this big dance coming up and i think hes gonna ask me. the only thing is that he is kinda weird and listens to all those really sick songs by sublime..no offense to the fans out there..but he is still really cute and mysterious..and really nice..do you think i should give him a chance? i rate...

I think so. Just give him a chance. It sounds like you might like him a little at the same time. I think if he ask you, you should definetly go with him. Besides the music he likes, judge him as the person and how he acts with you. And try to see through his shyness. I hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



13/f

Well, to tell you the truth. I'm 15 am I haven't had my first kiss or relationship or anything! But I believe that when you get to a certain point in the relationship, when you both feel comfortable with taking that one step forward, then that is the time. And about telling your mom. It depends on how good your relationship is with your mom. As long as she doesn't get mad or anything then you should be fine. I hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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I am writing a graduation speech that is entitled "Looking Back" and I am having trouble finding quotes. Ineed quotes about choir, school in general, and friends. Please don't tell me to google this, I really don't have time. If it's May 10, 2005 or after, please do not answer this, you will be rated an automatic one if you do. Also, this is a dialogue speech, so if that matters...Please cite your quotes so I can credit these people in my speech.

THank you so much!!

Well I think that you should go to
Firehotquotes.com
they usually have really good quotes about anything!! I'll check to see if there is anything good there for you! Hope I helped
~Linda
I checked and there is one that I like in particular!!!

In high school, it seems that everything is about which group you belong in. Those people in the groups all mirror each other. They have their differences, but even these are slight. We, we are different. We are the Outcasts. The things we have in common are few, yet our friendship is the strongest. I'm glad we found each other, because I never have to worry about being anything but myself in front of you, you just accept my faults and we move on.

Let me know what you think!!

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my entire forehead is acne scars, what can i get for cheap that will get rid of them? and does anyone know cheap face washes or anything to prevent acne without drying out my face really bad?
thanks!

Well Pro-Active worked for me. If you don't want your face to be too dry then wash it with Pro-Active once a day. Thas what I do!! I hope I helped!!! I'm sorry that it's not the cheapest face wash, but it is something that worked.
~Linda

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There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait?

I think that you should wait a little bit longer adn just talk to him more. Try to make him get a little more comfortable around you. Then when the time comes KISS AND TELL. LOL. And maybe you can even ask his sister to hook you up. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda

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