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Cousin
Im a 14 year old girl and last year, my cousin broght his best friend to one of my family pool partys. My cousins a year younger than me, but his friend/neighbor was my age. We talked all night and had a great time. We hung out other times too and became best friends. We've been going out for 9 monthes now but my cousin HATES it! At first he was makin fun of us, but he's been trying to break us up ever since. I'm not trying to take my bf away from my cousin, but my cousin thinks i am. I love my bf soo much and i want to spend as much time with him as i can, but i do let them hang out alone sometimes. My bf is getting kinda pissed at my cuz and he'd rather b with my sometimes, but my cuz is soo pissed and he like treats my bf like shit when hes soo nice to him. My cousin thinks i treat him bad, by going out with his friend and it really upsets me, is there anything i can do? Thanks!
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Just speak to him, tell him hes just gonna have to accept it and grow up and stop being a brat about it! Hope I helped!
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dude hes so jealous he thinks your "takeing" away his friend and you like your bf more than him,and your bf likes you more than him! everyones saying to talk to him about it,but that is harder to do then just have to give someone advice about it! They say bloods thicker than water and maybe you and your cuz could hang out! [[maybe you can find your cuz a girl friend!!]]
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I think you should talk to your cousin.. maybe he just needs to mature a little bit more. i would leave the cuz alone but still talk to him. i hope this helps you!!!!!
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Talk to your cousin. Ask him why he's being such an ass about this. He needs to know that you love your bf and that he loves you and that neither of you have a problem with that fact that your bf is friends with your cousin. He needs to know that you don't care if they spend time together and that you understand that sometimes they want to hang out without you around. He also needs to know what your bf thinks of this. If he continues to treat your bf like shit and acts like an ass then he won't want to hang out with him. You are not doing anything by going out with his friend. You're not keeping them from being friends you give them time to hang out without you around so you are doing absolutely nothing wrong. Talk to your cousin and have your bf do it too.
Good luck and I hope things work out.
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Just talk to him about it if you already haven't. IF he still isn't cool with it, then just take sometime between the three of you and you can invite some friends of yours and of your cousins and all hang out together. Just try to be as normal around your cuz as you are with any other of your friends. Otherwise he will need to get over it cuz it seems like you really like you bf. Hope my advice helped!
~Linda
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Well..first of all the reason why your cousin is doing that is because he's jealous. Not like your cousin wants to date you..but hes jealous because now he has to share his friend with you. He seems territorial and wants your bf to himself. What you need to do..is have a little chat with your cousin. You need to tell him how you feel about the situation. Dont get mad at him..be really nice.Also another suggestion is..get one of your girl friends..and go out on a double date. This way..your cousin has a girl..and his friend at the same time. I think that would make everyone happy. Hope I helped :)
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Super glue his feet to the ground.
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