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The first impression one may get without speaking to me is that I'm the stereotypical girl in today's society. I am anything, but the typical wordly girl. From past experiences, I have come to a realization in my life that nothing will fullfill your life, except God. Throughout these times, I have grown up quite fast and act on my future, not my present. In life, I follow the direction that most people tend to forget. Many people are oblivious to the importance of life. Coming from a less-than-picture-perfect side of life, I try to correct my life and set a purpose for myself. Through the many disappointments I've encountered in my life, I steer away from being a "victim" from my past. Thus, being a stronger, wiser, & more independent person. I live the clean life, and don't fall to anything other. I am learning to be comfortable in my own skin. I have made a commitment, to live a life of purity and with a self image that is based upon God's design.



There's a time in your life when you realize that everything in your life was a test to predict your future. I've held bitterness to a lot of situations, but have come to realize, that forgiveness is what shapes an individual to be a better person. I may have been hurt & disappointed by many, but I still continue to pray for those. I still care about them. I can't hate anyone because that's not who I am. Hearts have been broken, tears have been shed, but you realize what you wanted and hoped for, wasn't meant to be; it wasn't how your life was planned. A simple clich�???????????�??????????�?????????�????????�???????�??????�?????�????�???�??�?�© : I do forgive, but I don't forget.



I find myself learning to deal with constant criticism. Many people find ways to think and say negative things, but none of it soaks it. I strive to be a better & more independent person each and every day. One of my main focus' in life is to show girls, you can be sexy, but classy, and have morals and high standards at the same time. I love and life for God, anyone who disapproves of my beliefs will only be ignored. People tend to find trust in me quite quick because I'm genuine, and hide nothing. I accept my imperfections, which therefore, guides me through life on an easier route. This is me, and everything is sincere.




Other than that, I have a fiesty & protective personality when I feel I am being provoked or judged. I immediately put up a wall. My first approach is "kill them with kindness", but if it continues, I'm a spitfire. I am very protective over my family & friends. I do anything I can to protect them. Typically with guys, I find it hard to get along with. I'm not the girl who loves to flirt and see how many hook-up's I can get. I don't need it to boost my self-esteem, I get enough attention without. Anyone who isn't aquainted with maturity, will annoy me to death. I'm a fun girl - don't get me wrong, but I'm wise beyond my years. I'm at the point where I feel I have already fullfilled my teenage years, and I'm ready for "The Real World". Life isn't a competition; it is not a popularity contest, or a game to see how many people find you attractive. It's a priveledge God gives you, that many take advantage of.









advice

ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

hmm well i suggest taking something that releives pain just lay down && relax yourself. go to sleep. maybe you should get a massage that would sound really good && probly make you more unsore. ♥ carmen

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I'm thinking about getting the top of my ear periced does anyone know how much it hurts? and if it is worth getting it done?

although i havent gotten it done yet alot of my friends have it and say it didnt hurt at all.and say that it was deff worth it!
♥ carmen

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ok im 13/f and ive never done anything bad but last night me and my boyfriend did a lot of stuff..it felt really gooa at the time but today i dont feel good..is something wrong with me?

no im sure its perfectly normal && im sure you have alot on your head after last nite cuz it was your first time with that stuff.
♥ carmen

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What is Emo? I hear every1 saying it, but i am clueless.

emo is like emotional && depressing stuff like talking about lost love and stuff like that.
♥ carmen

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i have a siriouse case of cancer and need to know what im supposed to do to stay calm!the docter says i may not make it!PLEASE someone help me!!!

what kind of cancer?? just relax && stay calm. goodluck! ♥ carmen

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How do u ask a guy out? i really like him, and i kno he likes me, but hez really shy, so i kno he won't ask me out, and boyz alwayz ask me out, so i don't kno how 2 do it myself

well try talking to him and just ask him out on a date so you guys can connect more just be confident && outgoing. everything should work out fine if you do that! goodluck hunnie!
♥ carmen

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14/f

How often should you change the your razor head for shaving your legs/under arms/pubic area? There's nothing on the box. I use Venus if that helps.

you should basically change your blade every two weeks so it doesnt get dull && cause irritation! ♥ carmen

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does anyone know where to find the html thingys for xanga skins... like.. not the ones they have on the sites.. but any other ones?

search through xanga blog rings for layout sites! hope i helped ♥ carmen

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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?

its totally normal to get a cold in summer && pretty much anytime in any season. && you might have a case of allergies i know cuz i have em all the time it sucks! and to get your nose unstuffed try going to a local drug store to get some stuff you spray up your nose && clears it up. works wonders for when i need it. hope i helped ♥ carmen

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Anyone know of some good sites for homecoming hair dos!? THankS!

just go to a salon they usually have books of styles that they can do to your hair or maybe try looking in a prom magazine that always helpes me lots! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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you know those cute skirt bottomed simwsuits? can you swim with them and not have them float underneath you?

just buy a swimsuit with one attached to the swimsuit bottoms thats what i did and worked perfect for me. hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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my skin, like on most of my body is covered in (little) bumps. ive had them my whole like but i dont kno what they are and personally, all i want to do is get rid of them! i hate it. its not a rash or anything like that but it wont go away with lotions, exfoliation, or creams, or anything else i have tried. plz help me!!! i rate 5's!!!!!

i think you might actually have something called eczema one of my friends has it but she uses mediaction for it to control it. hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple?

wash your face as normal. put toothpaste on it orr try an acne medicine that rids the acne. hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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What is the best energy drink to buy besides red bull? Does starbucks double shot give you alot of energy?

i prefer trying a monster drink. pirana. no fear. or amp they all work wonderful for me! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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Who is mike jones? and why does everyone say their him?

i really cant stand him at all. but hes a rapper and in his songs he says "im mike jones" thats why everyone says that its part of a song! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads?

try getting bangs i tend to think that it puts away attention of your forhead! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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my cell phone was droped in the water and now i press a button and somethin else pops u like if i press menu it starts to dial a number if i press 3 it shows up the menu is amy where i can take it to fix it or should i jsut get a new 1 its a virgen moblie slider

i suggest getting a new 1 from your cell phone provider cuz theres really nothing they can do for it becuz of the conditions that it had been in. hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?

call your phone company provider orr you could have dialed *69 hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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I was wondering if anyone could give me the links to any (or as many) of these songs. Please. Or a website where to look. I'd prefer links though. But whatever works! :)

1. Two become one - spice girls
2. You know what they do to guys like us in Prison -My Chemical Romance
3. I will remember you -Sarah McLachlen
4.Swing life away by rise against.
5.girl - destiny's child
6."Best Friends" by Missy Elliot
7.use my shoulder - jojo
8. My Best Friend-Tim McGraw
9. Kryptonite-3 doors down
10. Ill back you up-Dave Mathews Band
11.Best Friend- S club 7

go to cdzinc.com they have practically everything and it always helps me when im looking for the song i need! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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okay i wrote a book and at the moment i'm typing it and making corrrections to it, but how do i get it published?

try sumbitting it to a publishing company! goodluck! hope i helped! ♥ carmen

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